What do you do when your parents three views are different?

It is normal to be different from the three views of our parents, there is a generation gap between us, but some generations are deep and some are shallow. When I was young, I would do it, and when I had a family, I would understand the good intentions of my parents, soSlowly, I can communicate with my parents, even if I can't understand it, but I can accept it.

Many young people always complain that their parents don't understand anything by nagging, and they always like to care about them, in fact, the main thing is that the society is developing too fast, and parents want to have a stable and harmonious family, and they will get angry when they see their children tossing them every day, and there may be family wars if they are hot-tempered.

Different generations of people will have different thoughts, and their ability to accept new things will also be differentWe can't force our parents to change, we can't understand what our parents think, just as they can't understand what we think. The parents' generation is more conservative in thinking, and we, as children, can't be too concerned with our parents, and we can't dislike our parents' conformism because we don't have the same thoughts, and we will think that we are knowledgeable and have to quarrel with our parents over a little thing. Doing so not only hurts the parents, but also separates them.

I remember a long time ago, I also complained about my parents, I thought that when they reached retirement age, they could enjoy the blessings at home, go out for a walk or drink tea at home every day, isn't this kind of life bad? But the two of them couldn't be idle, they had to go to the countryside to rent land and farm, they got up before dawn every day, and they were busy every day. Later, we compromised because we were happy to see our parents getting healthier and healthier because of their work, and when the crops were harvested, we were happy to see their faces with happy smiles.

Maybe all this is a little out of place in the eyes of others, and even feels undignified, but parents don't care, just do what they think is right, although it seems very hard, but the mood is really happy. No two people's three views are truly the same, and the same is true between family members, there will always be various differences, so what is more important than the three views is that there is no dispute over family harmony.

Most of the time I choose to tolerate them, because they have some ideas that are difficult to change, and instead of arguing with them, it is better to choose to tolerate them and point out mistakes in time.

When I find out that my parents and I have different views, I don't continue to argue with them and give each other time to calm down. Because no matter how much my parents don't understand me, they are still the ones who love me the most, and I don't want my thoughts to affect their mood.

I would choose to keep my mouth shut. Because it's useless to quarrel with your parents, it's better to shut up and not speak, and you can still have peace.

I will superficially obey their ideas, but the actual action is up to me, which is to be subject to the orders of the king. It's impossible to get a result if you argue with them, so this is the best way to do it.

Faced with such a situation, I will first choose to be calm. All things are the most correct choice only when you think calmly. At this time, we need to understand our parents' point of view, but we don't fully agree with them.

I try to avoid arguing with my parents, and then use my actions to convince them to try to put themselves in my shoes.