Parents who are easy to drag their children in their later years have many of these commonalities,

Because they don't want to go to the doctor because they don't have some money, they have a lot of physical diseases, or parents who are stubborn are easy to drag down their children.

Parents who are prone to dragging down their children generally do not have a formal job, have no pension after old age, and cannot maintain their normal life, and some parents will get sick in old age and will spend a lot of money on their children's treatment.

Some parents who have lost their ability to take care of themselves or parents who always like to be greedy for small gains, these parents still complain that their children dislike them.

Poor parents may have some influence on their children's growth and development, but they don't necessarily drag them down. Here are some of the possible reasons for this roll-out effect:

1.Financial stress: Poor parents may feel stressed due to financial reasons and are unable to provide adequate material support such as food, housing, education, etc., which may affect their children's growth and development.

2.Insufficient educational resources: Poor parents may not be able to provide adequate educational resources, such as high-quality schools, educational opportunities, etc., which may lead to limited learning for their children.

3.Insufficient social resources: Poor parents may not be able to provide sufficient social resources, such as cultural activities, art activities, tourism, etc., which may affect their children's social and vision.

4.Psychological stress: Poor parents may experience stress and anxiety due to economic and social reasons, which can have a negative impact on their children's mental health.

However, not all poor parents have a negative impact on their children. Some poor parents will strive to provide the best environment for their children to grow up, help them obtain better education and social resources, and encourage them to actively explore the world and the miracles of God to pursue their dreams. Therefore, poor parents should not simply be classified as a group that drags down their children, but should see the diversity and differences behind them.

If the poor feel that they are dragged down by their parents, then the shed clothes indicate that their family conditions must be not good for the chain stove, and the clothes from the snacks are not good, resulting in all kinds of physical problems, just like my husband and their family are very poor, from the snacks leftovers, resulting in their family's stomach is not good, all kinds of problems. So sometimes the disease is really the disease of poverty.

There are some parents who are very easy to drag down their children in their old age, first of all, eccentric parents, vain, good-looking parents, and selfish parents.

1.Eccentric parents drag down their childrenParents who are vain and have a good face create a burden for their children, 3Selfish parents never think for the long term.

Parents who are open-mouthed, parents who always think about oppressing their children, parents who are sick, I think it is normal to be disliked by children.

In old age, if parents are particularly confused, it is particularly easy to drag down their children and be deceived.

The temper is very bad, and very picky, always nitpicking, not doing anything, and doing special things every day, and always pointing fingers at the daughter-in-law, thinking that the daughter-in-law is not right or wrong, always stirring up the relationship between the family, and is not sick compared to the family that is not rich.

Special nagging, special pickiness, don't gossip, say bad things about others, can't take care of themselves, such parents drag down their children the most.

1. Parents who are particularly concerned about other people's opinions and love face will bring pressure to their children; 2. Parents who like to compare, they want what others have; 3. Parents who are lavish and greedy for pleasure blindly ask for money regardless of their children's economic status.

Usually they like to do everything their own way, and they do everything based on their own opinions, such parents are easy to drag down their children when they enter their old age, and their children have nowhere to talk about their suffering.

Always love your children in your own way and don't care about their needs; use your own efforts to morally kidnap children; Always say "I'm for your good" and ignore the child's feelings.

is particularly lazy, likes to speak ill of others behind his back, does not cherish his body, overdraws his body, and will be sick at that time.

Especially selfishness, especially the laziness of the round ruler, always feel that the child should provide for himself, especially like to participate in the child's private life, force the child to be filial to himself, especially like the moral kidnapping of the child, the parents with these characteristics are very easy to drag their children back in their later years.

Have bad habits, such as smoking, drinking, playing cards, spending lavishly, no principles and bottom lines, and parents like to compare.

I always hope that my child can give all the money to myself, and I especially like to mix with the child's key life, and I always feel that parents like this are very selfish and unfilial to their children, and they will make their children have a very bad time in their old age.

Children who are easy to treat their parents as a burden are unfilial, do not care about their parents, and only know how to ask their parents for money.

Children who are not filial, children who have no conscience, are especially selfish, and love only their own children.

The first children who are easy to treat their parents as a burden are the kind of people who are spoiled from childhood to adulthood and are "spoiled" by their parents' love and attention. Because when parents exhaust all their selfless love and selfless devotion to their children, they forget to tell each other: this is love, not necessarily duty.

The obligation of parents to take care of their children is only fulfilled until they are adults, and all the investment without regrets in the future is a kind of gift without asking for anything in return and generously guessing.

From childhood to adulthood, it is natural to accept the care and support of parents in terms of spiritual substance, money, chemicals, and life, and such parents will mistakenly think that this is the obligation and responsibility that the other parent must fulfill for the rest of his life. As a child, I just need to accept it gladly, and I don't have the concept of giving back and repaying my parents with gratitude. And at the same time they accept everything their parents give them, they will also be dissatisfied because they do not meet all their expectations.

Many parents have been deceiving themselves, waiting for their children to tell them "grateful", but the children actually feel that they have been wronged in the process of growing up, and they are waiting for their parents to tell them "I'm sorry"! Think about it, how a child who feels that his parents owe him a whole life may not regard others as a burden when he feels that the other party is old and frail and no longer has the ability to take care of and support himself as he did in the past, but needs to spend a lot of time, money and energy to take care of them.

Another type of child who may see his parents as a burden is the kind of person who has no influence in the family and "can't help". Such people are very good both men and women, and they have their own marriages and families when they become adults, because of the relationship between personality or ability, the disadvantaged people in their married life have no power to fight back against the other half of the inhibition and leadership, and they have no dominance and decision-making power in their own lives. For the elderly who are not related to themselves by blood and the other half, I think everyone also knows that the relationship is generally not so endlessly intimate.

If the husband and wife have equal influence, or their own lover is very good in terms of ability and personality, it is very likely that the other party will have some restraint and concerns, and will also be polite to each other's parents because of this. But the weaker and less capable men and women are, the more easily they are suppressed by their lovers in many ways.

If the other half is obviously unwilling to take on the obligation to provide for each other's parents, then even if the children of the direct blood relatives have the obligation and responsibility to support their parents from a legal point of view, they are afraid because they cannot convince their other half. Because of this kind of timidity and difficulty, I will unconsciously see my parents as a burden, a pressure, and an uneasy factor that can affect my marriage problems.

The first socks are easy to treat their parents as burdensome children, and they are the kind of people who have been pampered since they were young, and who are "spoiled" by their parents with love and care.

Because when parents pour all their selfless love and devotion into their children, they forget to tell each other: this is love, not necessarily duty.