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It reads as follows:
1. Say one thing or another: Many parents in our country have this problem, thinking that their words are right, without taking into account the child's feelings and thoughts, this kind of behavior and practice is actually very wrong, and it is easy to hurt the child's young heart!
2. Tools for venting: Children are the hearts and minds of parents, who will hit their children at every turn? Even some parents use their children as a tool to vent, as long as they suffer a little frustration and grievance outside, they will find their children to be angry when they return home, beat and scold their children, how can such parents be worthy of being parents?
3. You can abandon you at will: There are also some parents who have no children at all in their eyes, only themselves, and can even abandon you and leave at will, they don't love their children at all, they love themselves.
4. Annoyed when they see you: There are also many parents who are annoyed and annoyed when they see their children, don't like to play with their children, don't like to communicate with their children, and feel that their children are a trouble for him!
5. They don't care about you at all: they don't care about your studies, they don't care about your physical health, they don't care about your life, and everything about you and you is everything.
6. Never feel sorry for you: As long as other people's children encounter something, the parents at home will be very distressed, but the parents who don't love you will not have this kind of cognition and behavior.
7. It will only hit you: Children need encouragement and praise, but for some parents, they will only continue to hit and belittle their children, thinking that their children will always be worse than other people's children, and such parents are actually very problematic!
8. Eccentric behavior: For some families with siblings, this kind of eccentricity will often occur, parents only like the young, or only like sons and not daughters.
9. Don't care about your feelings: children will have their own thoughts when they grow up, as parents we should listen more to their children's voices and feelings, and can't ignore their children's feelings because of their own arbitrariness, which will also make them have the idea of "you don't love him"!
10. High expectations for you: Parents of course hope that their children will be able to get ahead in the future, be able to have a lot of money, and have high expectations for their children, but sometimes it backfires, and parents will be disappointed in their children.
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How can parents not love themselves, my dad is a person who is not good at expressing himself, he has not communicated much since he was a child, but at the critical moment you can see how much he cares about you.
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Parents love you or not look at these two points, the first is to care about your feelings, only those who love you will always take care of your feelings, and second, give you the best, sometimes you don't want it, or make you miserable, but they still force it to you, if they don't focus on these two points to you, then they don't love you very much.
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If you don't love it, you will be discarded directly after birth.
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Ignore you and be as cold as a stranger. I buy my own delicious things and collect them and don't share them with me. He never called me to eat, and he didn't leave any food. Usually I spend my own money on food and clothes, but they don't spend any money.
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