Since I don t love you anymore, why do I think of you so often?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-26
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you can think of it, it shouldn't be that you don't love it, you must still have concerns, many times separating is a helpless choice, you may be trying to force yourself to lie to yourself, so that you think you don't love anymore.

    If you have regretted separation, there is no inevitable conflict, you can try to get it back, after all, you still love it when you look at it this way.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Although you break up, but people still have feelings, it can't be a short time and a half, let it go slowly, find something else to divert your attention, usually do something to enrich yourself, and time and new love will make you forget the past faster, and you won't think about it so often.

    He wishes you happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    People have memories, they all have feelings, and they will not forget the past forever, but as time goes by, the number of times they think about it will become less and less, so they don't love it at first, and they will definitely think about it frequently when they break up, and the number of times will slowly decrease after a long time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's habits that keep you coming back to it. Accustomed to a life, a person, a love, it is often difficult to let go when you give up. People have feelings, maybe you think it's not love, but after a long time, you are used to being around a person, and you can't tell what kind of feelings you have for that person.

    What people are most afraid of is habits, once they are formed, it is difficult to break them, so they will think about each other. Sometimes people can't help but feel sad, so they slowly learn to hide it. Because I didn't want to be stabbed again, I gradually learned to disguise.

    People are sometimes like scars, and some scars are a thing of the past when they heal on their hands. Some scars will remain on the heart. Some stories will not be left except memories, some helpless no one will say except silence, and some things will not be understood by anyone except themselves.

    Maybe it's because you're used to a person's goodness and don't think it's love, but in fact, true love is plain, and the vigorous feelings will eventually burn out in an instant. Missing someone means that you have feelings for him, but the word love is too deep and sometimes you can't say it clearly. You don't necessarily get what you want, and you don't necessarily get what you want to give up.

    If you don't love it, you're willing to think about a person, probably because he still has something to remember, in fact, people's lives are very short, if you like it, you will pursue it, and if you don't like it, you will turn away.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Frequent thinking is mainly from the heart of unwillingness, people are the desire to conquer, if you can't conquer much, there will be some unwilling to fail in the heart, and then often remember.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Shake hands. Because I am in love with her, I will still think of her goodness, maybe it is the inner temperament that attracts you, or maybe the attraction of the appearance. In the absence of the next replacement it takes time to settle to forget yours.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is because I haven't let go of her in my heart, and I still have certain illusions about her, hoping that she can come back, at this time, you should divert your attention and do something you like, as time goes by, you will slowly forget.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A healthy and stable relationship is one that is very independent in life and spirit, and has the ability to leave you at any time, but because of the bond of affection and love, it cannot do without you. The artist no longer loves, so you break up decisively, the reason why you think about it frequently is because you are pursuing the beauty of the past, and you still have illusions about this relationship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When I broke up, I often thought of him like this, thinking about what he was doing, what mood he was in now, and whether he knew a new girl. Strange to say, when they are still in a relationship, it is common to see each other two or three times a week, but after the breakup, they will think of him all the time. So she couldn't help but secretly look at his circle of friends, see what he posted, and chat with other classmates to inquire about his news.

    At the beginning of a day or two, she comforted herself: I just can't let go for a while, and in a few days I can recover and start the next relationship! But for weeks, even months, she couldn't help but think about him, the ex-boyfriend who had given up on contacting her.

    She also felt that something was wrong, and began to take the initiative to make friends, talk to friends to relieve her, and find ways to improve her mood.

    Although there is nothing to be nostalgic about this relationship. But the time we have traveled together, the things we have experienced together, and the habits we have lived together are all quagmires of time. For better or worse, as long as you sink and try to climb out, it will take a huge amount of time and energy.

    Forgetting someone who hurts you the most, forgetting someone who loves you deeply, forgetting someone who has a dull but long-lasting relationship, it may take as much time and energy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Although you say that you don't love each other, you still think of each other, which means that you still care about this relationship. It's just that the stubbornness of your tough personality makes you unable to lower your head, or that you can't really face the end of this relationship. As a result, in action, that is, in words, although he says that he does not love, deep down he is the opposite of verbal expression.

    The beloved can't help themselves. I left a seed in my heart, which has now broken the ground and is growing. If you really don't love it, you don't love it, and it's just a flash in the pan when the TV goes on.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It may be habit, it may be unwilling, it may be that it is not hurt enough, it may be regret, it may be sentimentality in character, or it may be that you still love each other and can't really let go. Time is the best healing agent, let the years erase all the things that should not be remembered and not thought about! May I think about it as soon as possible, think it through, let it go, and be happy every day!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. Hello dear, good morning. 

    My dear, the reason why you miss someone constantly is because you like them. When you like someone, you will miss someone non-stop.

    My dear, this state is actually quite normal. 

    Why don't you keep thinking about you.

    Hello dear, good morning. The reason why you keep missing someone is because you like each other because you like each other. When you like someone, you will miss someone non-stop. My dear, this state is actually quite normal. 

    I like a person who will miss each other's shirts, and I like a person who will always remember him. Like a person will always recall each other. These are actually very normal, because you like each other, so these are just the ways you like to express themselves.

    In addition, the dear will keep thinking of each other, in fact, it is also because you and she have not met. So, we are bound to take the initiative and meet her

    That's all for me. Do you have any more questions? Feel free to consult me and wish you a happy life

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There may still be a trace of concern in the heart, and the remaining feelings are not over, and they will miss each other unnaturally, but the trauma of the soul cannot be repaired.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I miss because I have given a lot in this relationship, but I won't love it anymore, and the main reason is because I have also been hurt a lot in this relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because I am dead, I feel that even if I love, there will be no result, and I don't want to be hurt like this again.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because these people have disappointed themselves very much, although there are some good things, but there is no way back to the past.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    "I still miss you occasionally, often occasionally".

    Some people say that if you really want something, let it go. If it comes back to you, then it's always yours. If it doesn't come back, then don't wait, because it's not yours at all.

    McEwan, "The Beach."

    In the days when you are not around, I always want to press the pause button, because I am too afraid that in this world that changes everything, you will meet another her. I'm afraid you'll regain your heartbeat and start a love affair again. But I, without exception, remained in my humble world, living as usual.

    The only thing that has changed is that I don't have you by my side anymore.

    In your absence, I'm actually doing pretty well. Nothing has changed much, nothing more than the sudden quiet of the busy days. In the beginning, I would always think of you uncontrollably, and I would suppress my pride and try to say a good night or two once in a while.

    Later, that longing slowly shattered in my good night alone.

    I watched my one-man show alone in the dark and laughed at myself over and over again in my heart. Later, I began to put that kind of longing in the smallest corner of my heart.

    Because there are still many, many important things in life, I guess you in the corner will probably soon be covered with dust and forgotten by me. Together with my good night, it will disappear in your world cleanly.

    I want you to be more occasionally and less occasionally but not stopping.

    When I was in high school, I liked a boy, who was tall and was the president of the class. At that time, I couldn't wait to see him all the time, and every day I calculated when I could meet him in the corridor, and I couldn't help but move my eyes to him when I was lining up for exercises.

    Once I was sitting on a stone bench eating, and when I looked up, I saw him coming out of the corridor, and the beam of light hit him on the side of his face through the geometric pattern on the wall.

    I miss you once in a while, but I'm afraid, afraid that you know, afraid that you know that I love you.

    I miss you occasionally, but I'm afraid, afraid that I'll fall, afraid I'll fall into your tenderness.

    Occasionally I miss you, but I'm afraid, afraid that we won't have a future, afraid that we won't be together.

    Occasionally I miss you, but I'm scared, but I really miss you, in days I don't know.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Love in your heart, don't say it like crazy. Who also has the right to love. I also have someone I like, but I don't want to hurt him, and I will always bless him silently. Let him be happy forever.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love is love, and it is impossible to have a lot of love in the same words, this is the reality. Let's keep that bit of true love in the bottom of my heart. Let's think it's a good memory and a good dream.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

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