I asked what happened this morning when I accidentally said goodbye?

What is life? Life is a heavy journey, even if you are faltering or ragged, you will still move forward, this is called life. And when we chase life, we will always find that we will definitely encounter, whether love is worth it or not, and we will always encounter it, inadvertently lost, and you don't know whether to let go, or you always say that death is goodbye, but is this really the case?

In these literary masterpieces, there are three sentences that tell you that you understand the value of love, let you understand what it means to lose, and let you understand what it means to say goodbye.

Whether love is worth it or not is probably the most important thing we need to know. Zhang Ailing, who became famous at a young age, once explained in her book that it is worth it about love. Zhang Ailing said in the book:

You ask me if it's worth it to love you, in fact, you should know that love is not to ask if it's worth it. "You and I think about it carefully, isn't this life just like this sentence? Whether love is worth it or not is something that shouldn't be asked, isn't it?

Since you are in love, how can there be so much worth it and waiting for you to choose? All you can do is bear the love and the consequences of it, right? Whether it's worth it or not is a path in your life, isn't it?

To understand love, you need to know what it means to lose. In "The Story of the Rose", there is a sentence that tells you what it means to lose: "What is lost has never really belonged to you, so there is no need to regret it".

This is not a true saying, but it should be known. We are always lamenting our own loss, and some people are indulged in their own loss and do not want to wake up, but in fact, since they have all been lost, why not use such an attitude and psychology to change their attachment! If you understand love and loss, then you should understand what it means to say goodbye.

In the eyes of many people, farewell is death, but in fact, "Dream Travel" tells us this truth, he said: "Death is not the real goodbye, forgetting is". Does this sentence instantly make you feel that your understanding is a little shallow?

Yes, isn't it just forgetting that it is goodbye! Once forgotten, it is a farewell, and no one remembers anyone anymore. This is called farewell, being independent, becoming a forgotten and farewell existence.

These three points are probably the most persistent and concerned things in life! Understanding these three truths, you will always have something unusual about life, right? On this road of life, what you need most is to carry these principles of life and move forward with a heavy load, which is what you should do, and it is also the basis for you to live better, isn't it?

You inadvertently said three words goodbye this morning, and you ask what's going on. Now I'm telling you, it's your underlying consciousness at work. There is a person, a place, a relationship, a period of time, which makes you remember it very deeply, and you will never forget it, which makes you melancholy and very uncomfortable.

Suddenly, one day, you are relieved and your mood suddenly relaxes. At this point, you can't help but say these three words.

It means that your spirit is normal, and there is no problem in your heart at all, and you will no longer consult a psychologist, so you will say goodbye.

It may be a slip of the tongue, it is normal for people to say a typo unintentionally, don't care, and live happily every day.

It's done with one of my hearts! It's like saying goodbye to consulting a doctor!

Ask her what's going on, at the moment, why do you say that, what can't figure it out.

See each other before you say goodbye.

In philosophy it's not a problem, it's attitude. Your example is headphones, and I'll give you a few examples: some people with cleanliness habits always feel like they are not clean enough; When some people feel that their bodies are itchy and itchy, they itch uncomfortably; There are also people who feel that they do not perform well in front of others, and constantly review themselves; There are also some people who love beauty, and they can always find themselves, and there are many shortcomings.

The reason for this is not only hinted by one's own thoughts, but also by the environment and personality. If this is not a problem, then it will be a problem for everyone, but the degree of impact is different. I don't think it's a bad habit, it's a kind of mental focus.

Depending on what aspect it is used, the impact on you will be different. There are no absolutes in everything, there is a good side and a bad side. For example, in ancient times, there was a saying that "people are worried about the sky".

It is also one of them. It brought troubles, nightmares, to this man. If we think about it a little further, things are different.

Maybe he's the astroscientist of the future! Like you, sometimes you do it in the direction of bad habits, and that happens to everyone as well. And the difference is that some people turn it into a good habit!

This is a mind shift in psychology, and what you need is also a mind shift! Let it go in a good direction! It's like Newton's apple falling to the ground, and it was the gravitational pull of the earth that came up with it, not someone smashing him with an apple!

Through this kind of thinking transfer practice, you will gradually get better!

A gentleman who is erudite and self-conscious is aware of what he does is not wrong.

So there's nothing wrong with your habits, it's just that you think too much, and you have a bit of an obsessive-compulsive tendency, which can be corrected on your own.

There is no right or wrong thing when buying headphones, so you don't have to think about it after you buy it. If you can't control your thoughts, you can concentrate on more important things, such as study, work, etc. You can also do sports or leisure activities to relax your nervous mind.

Habits are formed over a long period of time, and it is also a long process to correct, so be patient.

You are a perfect "perfectionist".

Me too, but after "meeting" you, I have a feeling of "seeing a big thing".

There is a line that I particularly appreciate, and I woke up after listening to it and shared it with you:

Perfection is sometimes a dose of poison that hurts people deeply! ”

There's nothing wrong with striving for perfection, unless you realize one thing: flaws are part of perfection!

We can strive for perfection, but we should not demand perfection, but we should not demand perfection.

Everything is too much.

People who strive for perfection are usually very "paranoid" people, like me. And paranoia is the "excess" of seriousness and persistence.

How to correct it: Stay "aware"! When you want to do that, you might as well laugh at yourself: "Hey, hey! Perfectionist! Paranoid again! ”

That's how I'm relieved! Give it a try.

This is also a method of cultivation in Buddhism.

Don't keep saying what you think you are.

Ask people what you think you are like.

It's a good thing to think carefully about things!

Don't be too hesitant about things.

In fact, there are things that are very simple!

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This problem involves a degree of problem, you set a degree before doing a thing, so that it will not be too messy, waste time, and get less I wrote graduation before** I found more than 100 articles of information, I think it is not enough, continue to look for it, but continue to look for it and do not get too much What is not proportional to what is paid and obtained after a degree For things that are not jobs or hobbies, this aspect must be mastered.

In fact, I used to be the same as you, always playing games and playing perfectly, so I searched for the information, and when I cleared the customs, I found that I still missed one or two things, and then I thought about it, even if it wasn't perfect, I could have fun.

You can do something imperfect and see how it feels, and maybe it's a little bit fun.

Amitabha, good, good.

Always wipe the "delete" diligently, do not make dust. ”

The bitter sea is boundless, and the shore is turned back. ”

Jun has a wise root, and the future is immeasurable! Please enter the Buddha's Gate.

I am a Buddha with compassion and universal sentient beings.

Send you four words: go with the flow. No matter how meticulous the thinking is, people can't grasp all the fate and the direction of things, it's better to choose to accept it indifferently, indifferent is not otherwise, not impossible, but can but otherwise, you can grasp it very accurately, but why grasp this unpredictable thing?

The pleasure of people is not knowing what will happen in the next moment, and it is more interesting if you don't grasp it, and it is boring if you grasp it. It's rare to be confused, and the more people understand, the more rare it is.

1.Participate more in social practice and get in touch with society, and there will be less fantasy.

2.I'm researching the rationality of college courses, how close to our reality is 3Your confusion is actually a problem for many people, not an isolated phenomenon4Why are there so many people who can't be employed, because too many people are not realistic enough.

Confidant, but I'm much better now, as long as you keep thinking this way in your heart, thinking that it's useless, you will change it one day. It's true. I'm much better.

Contradictions, everything is a contradiction, and habits are no exception....As for how to change, if you say that the big one is going to grasp the main spear, and if you say the small one, you need psychological counseling, and try to minimize the negative impact. Any extremes are always bad, and proportionality is important....

If everyone only looks at the appearance, no one will know what small and big problems he has hidden inside. There are no perfect people in this world.

You this. It can only be regarded as . . . A small glitch in a glitch. You're too worried ... Everybody is sick ... You're nothing.

Men should be generous, open-minded, don't be afraid of losses, don't be afraid of being deceived. These are all life experiences that will be good for you in the future, don't think that everything is perfect, that's impossible. If you think about the unity of opposites, many things are opposites, but they are unified.

Thinking too much makes things more difficult to do; If you do nothing without thinking about it, there is a great possibility of failure. This is a matter of degree, and everything should be done in moderation. Moderate thinking, moderate action, moderate hesitation.

If you want to master this degree, you must slowly grope between success and failure, and believe in yourself.

You're too meticulous and intolerant because you take everything too seriously.

Men have to be able to afford to put it down, nothing is a big deal.

There is no beauty without perfection and flaws. Beauty is set off by imperfections. There is no beauty without defects, and if you accept the existence of imperfections, the world will be more beautiful!

If you have it, it's called something

Everything must be done in moderation and not excessively

It's not going to go out of style

It's the same with me. Hehe! But you should understand yourself and like philosophy? A natural theory, without constraints, to find your true self, if you don't like who will like you?

The advantages and disadvantages are the same, advantages = disadvantages, it depends on how you grasp how you use them! Use the disadvantages in places that make the disadvantages into advantages! Take control of yourself and improve yourself!! Improve yourself!! Friend-confidant.

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I'll be fine, always be fine. I don't know if you've listened to this song, I've always liked this song. Listen to it, okay?

Life isn't supposed to be like this, you know? Now you should be happy to face everything time, since I came to the north, I have also been confused, but also helpless, but I believe that everything will pass quickly, really, you have to have confidence in yourself, don't be too quiet, life has so much helplessness, what is this now? I hope you can be happy.

Really, I don't know what kind of mentality you have in your life right now, but I believe that you will definitely live a better life, definitely. Bless you.

You need to vent, don't hold everything in your heart, don't put so much pressure on yourself, mentality is the most important.

You won't be in a bad mood, depressed, lose confidence in the friends around you, it's possible to be in such a mood, and I'm depressed sometimes. But it's good to vent, I hope you can get better soon, cheer up, there are so many things waiting for you to accomplish?

Everyone, there is one kind of boredom or another, perhaps, in the eyes of others, this boredom is how unprovoked and insignificant, but if it is not handled correctly, it may hinder the development of your life. Attitude is everything, happy or unhappy, it's all up to you, believe that! Don't be in a hurry, comfort yourself carefully, don't be afraid, it will get better, you are just in a low mood, and you will feel that it is not so bitter when you walk through.

In fact, everyone has their own troubles, mainly depends on how you deal with it, and you are like this with life now, so when you get married, have you ever thought about it, and there is still happiness in life? Don't hold yourself back too much, give yourself a little space, and give others a little space

It's nothing, go out for a walk more, find something you like, maybe it's better, if you keep it in your heart, you'll go crazy.