Don t think it s a trivial matter and don t care

Pay attention to civility and norms in speech and behavior, show that you are educated, qualified, and cultivated, and don't think it's a trivial matter and don't care.

The demeanor is civilized and the language is peaceful. These are basic etiquette, and they are not trivial. Pay attention to these and you will gain better respect.

Keep a certain distance].

It's normal for friends to have a close relationship, but you must pay attention to keeping a certain distance, just like I have a good friend with me, who used to have a super good relationship, but since we rented a house together, we were together every day in addition to work, and there were more conflicts. In many people's understanding, the relationship will get better and better together every day, in fact, not necessarily, every day together, some small contradictions in life will become more and more prominent, although the contradictions are not big, but enough to affect the feelings, and in the long run, the relationship between friends will become more and more alienated.

Long live understanding] Everyone's views on things will be more or less different, when friends have different opinions, there is no need to force friends to accept their own opinions, mutual understanding can be more peaceful. When you have a disagreement with a friend, don't rush to prove that you are right, think more about it from the perspective of your friend, and look at the problem differently from a different angle, which is inevitable.

Joke moderately].

It's normal for friends to joke with each other, which is also an attitude that indicates the intimacy of the relationship between the two, but it must be moderate, depending on the personal situation, even if the relationship is a good friend, don't joke about other people's scars, or things you don't want to mention. Many friends are buried in jokes, saying unintentionally, and listening to intentional is this truth. You didn't mean to hurt your friend, but your friend was hurt because of your unintentional words.

Avoid cold violence].

Cold violence is mostly used between lovers or couples, but it is also common between friends. Especially for some people who like to sulk, because of some trivial things, they start a cold war, don't say anything, and when they ask, they will only say that it's okay, or they will ignore it, and the other person who gets it is very inexplicable, and they don't know what they did wrong, and they don't know what happened. Although it may be fine after a while, this kind of cold violence is very hurtful to the feelings of friends.

Of course, there is no such thing as a "good match" between friends, and it does not refer to economic equality, but mental equality, regardless of economic conditions, professional background, and family background. True friends make hearts, not such external things. If it's because of these external things that you have a friend relationship, then it's not called a friend.

Give to each other] When you encounter difficulties, it is easy to think of asking friends to help, which is a normal phenomenon, but friends get along more about helping each other, if only one party has been paying, it will cause the inequality of this friendship, and the relationship will definitely break down in the long run. In order to better maintain the relationship between friends, you should pay more attention to get along with each other and communicate more so that there will be no misunderstandings.