Should you be a dink or have a baby early, does the dink family need a child?

I think you should dink.

First, you only like to be under the age of five, so you won't accept this child most of the time.

Second, the pressure is really very high, don't give birth if you're not ready, don't look at the people around you, I always like to say to the people around me, do you want to follow others when they go to hell?

Third, there is only one reason for having a child, that is, you love him, and you have the ability to take care of him and help him grow up to feel the world.

Fourth, don't give birth, there is no harm, the landlord thinks about it himself, the child is your own flesh and blood, sucking your own blood, making up is not making up, now the shooting will be very turbulent in all aspects, from food to education to later life, these things must be considered by parents because you are going to bring him to this world.

Fifth, the landlord's position should be firm, believe me in a word, the body Life is your own, and you are in pain No one will empathize with you No one will empathize with everyone is selfish, this world is like this, it has not yet developed to the point of world unity I hope the landlord does not take risks.

Sixth, about whether there is still your own life, the landlord thinks, this child must take care of him all the time when he is young, and you may have your own time when you grow up, but that is a few years later, and the world is unpredictable Maybe you have been lost.

Seventh, the problem of economic austerity, children's milk powder, diapers, toys, clothes, and school are not small, and the amount of gifts (I think it is necessary to add this) is not small.

Eighth, if the landlord has a bad temper, it is better not to give birth, taking care of children requires a lot of patience and maternal love, and it is not recommended to give birth if it is immature, how can I have leisure and ease to bring another child?

In addition, my mother is also like a child and depressed, so I have a history of depression for 10 years. I actually think that since the landlord asked this question, it proves that he is not ready, so to sum up, it is not suitable for life.

The landlord lives by himself, and no one in this world can believe it except himself.

My ID doesn't fit here, so I'm sorry I have to be anonymous.

I advise you to give birth as soon as possible, my two friends have now given birth to children, and their bodies are recovering very well, you want to dink now, but when you reach the age of forty, when you can't give birth, you will inexplicably want to have children, people's psychological changes are not something you can control now, people at every stage have the psychology of each stage, and you can't give birth at that time, and you will only regret at that time. Many Dink families wanted children at that time. I can also give you a good suggestion, from now on to go swimming in the swimming pool every day, so that you may still be able to have children when you are forty years old.

If you want to give birth, you should give birth early, and children born before the age of thirty are smart, and if you don't give birth, you will be a dink. It's up to you and your family members to think.

You only want the present and don't want the future!! If you get old! Who's in front of you!

That bleak taste! Much more miserable than you are now! Don't have children now!

Maybe nothing! You just want to be free for a while! Don't want to be tied down!

You've seen those old people who don't have children, and you know what to do! Without further ado......

1.If you are just to provide for old age, it is recommended not to give birth. Putting your old age in the hands of a child who has not yet been born and doesn't even know anything about it is better to make this kind of investment than to spend money and energy on the career you are currently working on.

2.If it's the people around you who influence you, or put pressure on you, or put pressure on yourself. That is not necessary, the Chinese ideological concept of inheriting the family from generation to generation was in feudal society thousands of years ago, and the reason why no one dares to say that this kind of thinking is backward is because China has a tradition of respecting the elderly, but the truth is often in the hands of a few.

China is now learning from the West, but this point is still very conservative, as a modern person, you had better use the modern thinking to make what you think is the most rational choice.

3.There are pros and cons to having a child, and a child can be used as a driving force for the whole family to move forward, or it can become a burden for the family and a factor of disharmony between husband and wife. It depends.

Summary: I think you are still very young, motherhood will gradually manifest itself as you grow older, when you feel that you really need a child, when you are really willing to pay for this child, it is not too late at that time, of course, it is best to be around 35 years old, before the age of 40.

Finally, I wish you a happy family and a new high career

Kids can be a lot of fun for families! Hehe, however, you still have to figure out whether you want to have children or not!

If you want to give birth, you can give birth, if you don't want to give birth, you don't have children, the premise is that if you don't regret it in the future, who will support you when you are old in the future.

Of course, it is human nature to have children after marriage, and it is also the inevitable result of natural needs and social needs. Because after the union of husband and wife have sex, the union of sperm and egg will be produced, and a child will be born after ten months. This is the natural nature of human beings, coupled with the rights and obligations of individuals, which leads to the fact that it is natural to talk about having children after marriage.

But there are no absolutes, there are some couples who do not have children after marriage, and there are some individuals who do not want children in their own lives. There are many reasons, some are physical defects, and some are not able to have children, and some are personal reasons, not wanting children is the so-called Dink family in Europe and the United States.

Of course, not having children is not a violation of any law, and it is mainly a personal sense of self and a sense of self. But this thing. Many people with traditional ideas are opposed, but since they do not interfere with their own rights, there is no need to point fingers, and the only intersecting person may be the person's own parents and elders.

Of course, the Dink family itself considers problems and perspectives differently than ordinary people, they may be busy with work, have no time to have children, or want to enjoy the free and easy single life of the couple. No one is going to do their best. Sowan needed to be taken care of, so they chose Dink.

The only trouble with not having children is that you have no children under your knees and no relatives to take care of you in old age.

From the traditional emotional point of view, this is the most regrettable, but if there is enough financial support. Then the life in old age will also be very high-quality. Personally, I think that life will be complete if the family is more complete.