Who could be worse than I am a terrible person?

I've read your story.

First, talk about your feelings. You love her, and she loves you. Are you willing to wait for her, and is she willing to wait for you? This is a problem. Of course, it's the kind of love that is very, very loved, so it's necessary. The emotional aspect can be taken slowly.

In today's society, there is money, and there are feelings, which is for the future life. The reality is the same, and you should know it too. Now that you are young, the most important thing is to find a job and do it well, and exercise more.

There will be development later. Every parent wants their child to be happy and not so hard.

You need to pick yourself up now and work well. Then ask her if she's willing to wait for you? If you wish. You can continue to socialize, and in the process of socializing, you should learn from social experience. Do a good job, people are trained.

You understand that you are very dependent, then you have to find a job on your own, and you have to learn to be independent. As a man, you should be strong.

Career is emotion!

You can't just complain, now you should think of a solution Now that you have analyzed your current situation, you should solve the current situation, make a plan for yourself, cheer up, change the situation now, come on you will do it. Believe in yourself and find a way to solve it. Come on.

Work hard, find a way to change, don't be too inferior, why don't you believe in yourself? Who would be more advantageous like you? Don't be stupid, you're awesome!

Just because she can be with you proves that you have what she likes, doesn't it? Believe in yourself, you are the best on her side !!

You can't think so, there are so many less people than you.

You've been lucky.

Born human, I'm sorry. ”

Self-loathing, as the name suggests, is when a person feels bad, hates himself, and even hates himself. It is not only a negative evaluation of oneself, but a deeper disgust that points to oneself as a whole.

Sometimes parents give too much love and it becomes doting, and giving too little will induce children to learn badly. Your situation falls into the latter category, but fortunately you are determined and kind-hearted, and you have not gone to the point of no return. But too little love will eventually have a negative effect:

In you, maturity and rebellion, weakness and strength, longing and indifference are intertwined, making you feel helpless and confused. To say that it was your parents' alternative love for you is all fart! You've done enough well, and the problem is with your parents.

You have to learn to have a deep conversation with your parents! As for the pain suffered over the years, it should be sharpened! Cheer up and face the rest of life!

Tell yourself that even without the love of my parents, I can still live well!

Independent since childhood, and still independent. Although your parents give you very little love, it is all your parents who have grown up so big, don't hate them, continue your independence!

The same, after work. Put your mind set.

My life is very similar to yours, don't think like this anymore, it's very immature, I can help you, since the analysis is so clear, you are one step behind.

My parents were able to let me walk home by myself when I was in the second grade of elementary school, and the old man who was directing the traffic on the side of the road was afraid that something would happen to me, so he accompanied me across the street for more than a month.

My parents liked me to go out on vacation, I took the money to sign up by myself, and I was only 3 or 4 years old at that time, accompanied by my classmates' parents. When leaving, my father took his luggage and left, and the mother and daughter of my classmates cried and said goodbye.

They like nothing more than to say, it's your business, we don't care.

I am 19 years old this year and go to the hospital on my own to see a doctor, have blood drawn, and straighten my teeth. The doctor wanted to discuss the price plan with my parents, and I said I was alone. The doctor said that it was better to discuss it with my parents, and I called **, and it was still "you decide for yourself, the card is given to you".

Sometimes they would talk to me about themselves, because my parents were the second in the family, so they were the ones who were most annoyed, and then this relationship continued to me. My mom used to say that she wasn't in good health and couldn't take care of me a lot, but when I was a kid, whenever I made a mistake or talked back, she would pick up something and hit me and throw my things.

I was fat, I had low self-esteem when I was a child, my parents didn't encourage me, and my dad still laughed at me for it, until now. The most he gave me was money, only New Year's money, and that's what I spent for a year. I didn't have enough money, so I asked them to borrow it, and for a while I really felt that my family was very abnormal.

Occasionally take money from him, and he always says you're stealing money again.

So, I hate them very much, even hate them, sometimes I want to die, I often stand on the balcony at night, I think that I don't have to fall to death from the 6th floor.

I'm numb to reading inspirational books, and there are more people who are worse than me, but just compared with my peers around me, although I am richer, I am not happier than them.

Now the results of the college entrance examination are not ideal, there is no comfort, they still enjoy having fun, the consultation meeting, I will go.

After they looked at the school majors I chose, they said, "It's impossible for you to have such a low score, they said there was no money for animation design, marketing said I was poor in eloquence, and Japanese said that this elective was fine" made me go crazy.

In fact, I should still love them, they themselves say that they are compared in the unit, only I will spend money to send them gift cards on birthdays and holidays, and I didn't let them worry much about studying, and I went to a key high school by myself, but this time the college entrance examination really broke me, I only hid in the room and cried secretly, they watched TV outside, and the laughter was so harsh. When I think about it, I have a closer relationship with my classmates and communicate more.

I hate them very strongly now, and I don't know how many times I quarreled after the college entrance examination, really, very tired.

Hug the landlord.。。。

Such family members are really not good enough, they can give money, but they don't know that what you need may be just a hug, just a word of encouragement.

But it also created more independence than many of my classmates, more than many of our peers, you are great, really, my sixth grade my dad asked me to sign up by myself, and I lost my money, although I was able to sign up smoothly later. But when I was three years old, my father took me to school. So you're better than all of us.

When you're tired, go on a trip, now you're too stressed, it's time to relax. Your family doesn't understand your heart, your classmates and friends, and our close friends.

So remember, you... Not alone!

You don't think your parents are good, they don't care about you, you hate them! Now you're very independent! Being able to do a lot on your own, then you choose your path, without asking your parents!

Do what you think, work hard outside, and after a few years, after working hard in society, look at your family, and then think about your parents, maybe you will have a different opinion.

I'm just like you.

In fact, I also had low self-esteem, and even wrote a 13-page suicide note.

But after all, what others do to you is someone else's business.

It's good to know it only in your own heart.

It's also good to be a little independent.

I would also hide and cry at home, and no one would ever come to comfort me.

But it's okay. Teach you a sentence "peach and plum do not speak, the next is its own", my motto!

There is also "the heavens will descend on the people, and the people must come first." empty of his body".

In fact, it can also be understood as loneliness.

When you are alone, you can think about more things.

Brother, have time to listen to Andy Lau's singing of "enlightenment".

Parents go too far, ignore their children, and don't care about them! Now that this is the case, the more you can't give up on yourself and prove yourself with practical actions, you are the best! Come on.

Brother, are your parents exercising your independence? Let yourself make your own decisions in small things, so that you can cultivate your ability to survive, and give you some guidance in big things, hey. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, don't think crookedly, do you feel that you are much more mature than your peers??

If you think about it, you are all parents, who doesn't want their children to be independent and strong. You say yes, right? If you want to open more, communicate more with your parents, they love you, I promise.

I wish you happiness.

I think the biggest charm of people is self-confidence, the biggest charm of men is to dare to take responsibility, dare to assume their responsibilities for the family, parents, as long as you are a responsible man, you should have the confidence to go, no matter what, you are in the best state to meet people, no matter what the result is, are worthy of no heart, will not regret.

Blind dates are such a thing, and you will get used to them after a few more experiences!

No one has a rule that you have to meet to be successful!

No one will take you to heart, you just work hard and make yourself better and better.

Blind date is just a process, you first contact and then say, there is no law that law stipulates that you must be together after a blind date, both parties have a common language, have a similar way of life, it is easier to be together.

Afraid of this, afraid of that, what's so embarrassing about this, looks are not a problem, people who like you don't care about your looks, boys, you should be brave, maybe other girls like you.

I like to think more, I'm not confident, but I can't just know if I meet each other, and it's not possible if fate arrives. I'm in exactly the same situation as you except for the fact that I don't have glasses, and you say it's not good, haha. Good luck and good work.

Go ahead, practice makes perfect. See more, listen more, and do better.

Don't go if you're afraid, and don't be afraid when you go.

It's okay. Peace of mind.

Go to the entertainment venue for a few days and get used to it.

Haha, don't be afraid of men standing up straight.

You're stressed too much, think about happy things.

People are not perfect, don't feel inferior.