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After reading your story, I want to ask you a question: if you were given another chance and given a 6-year relationship that you knew would end tragically, would you still be willing to choose love?
If you choose no, you don't want to accept the pain afterward, so you would rather not choose such feelings, then I would say that sane people often know how to love themselves better, but regret is the only price they pay.
If you choose yes, even if you know that there will be such a painful separation in the future, or love without hesitation, then I want to say that you are really happy, because you have loved someone so vigorously, maybe the fragments in your memory are trivial, they are all trivial things that two people are very ordinary together, but in the eyes of others, your courage is far greater than the love itself, after all, the love that you are willing to exchange for pain is immortal.
After all, after 6 years, you will never become strangers, even if you are a stranger in life, you will not be a stranger in your memory.
In the face of such a person, how can you bear to blame who did the wrong thing in the end, and who did it right.
When this person leaves your world, thank her with gratitude for all she has brought to you.
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Having it is a wealth. Enjoying the process is the most important thing, no matter how heavy the result is! If you value results so much, you're going to be very snobbish.
It can be seen that you don't blame each other much, maybe it's hard for you to forget her, maybe you can't forget it for the rest of your life, like Eason Chan's "Ten Years", just like the song "Lovers inevitably become friends in the end".
Life is always full of hope, you have lost your girlfriend, but you still have family, friends, they haven't left you yet, cherish it, I hope your last words are the last time to say. There are always regrets, but the end is the beginning! New beginnings are waiting for you!
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Whoever is with whom is predestined is destined, if you can't be together in the end, then no matter how long it is, how many six years, it's just a sweet past, it is used to teach you to learn to love and be loved, teach you to learn joys and sorrows, then now you should work hard to precipitate yourself, with a mature, especially cherished heart, waiting for the real other half of your life, the girl who will eventually belong to you. Good luck
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Go forward, don't look back, believe in yourself, at this time you can only rely on yourself, don't think about the past. I feel your love for her from your words, and if she doesn't cherish it, she will regret it, and you should be glad that she should also be happy. Feelings are a world for two, not a game for three.
Eventually, one has to be sent off. And you are the unfortunate one. But rejoice.
Because you're the first to be sent off, not the last. That's the one that hurts the most. Hehe.
Those who betray are always betrayed. Go forward, don't look back, you will have a good woman who will accompany you for the rest of your life.
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There is no one who is a winner in love, everyone is injured after a breakup, but the degree of injury is different, since it is divided, it means that you are not his other half, and he is not your other half [this is a bit old-fashioned but it is true].
I hope you are happy, since it has passed, why bother thinking, people have to move forward without a paragraph.
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6 years to make the sweetest memories of my life.
It is enough to have such a feeling.
I hope you all are happy and happy. Even if there is his own around him.
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Very touching, I don't know what to say. I wish you all the best in the future.
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Let's be realistic. Ten years is nothing
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A longer time together does not mean that the relationship is deeper. After a long time, many problems will arise, such as some aspects of one party's inability to accept the other, and a little bit of the gap is getting bigger and bigger, and it is better to continue to explain to yourself with the depth of your feelings than to cut it directly.
If she thinks that she can't continue after passing through her family, she can disperse, you can try to sprint again, and don't regret yourself.
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Time does not mean that the relationship is getting deeper and deeper, and some people are paralyzed after a long time. Say let it go, let it go. It varies from person to person, so you can't be too arbitrary! Believe me, it's not fate that you can miss!
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Why is his family opposed? It's because you're not good enough, and her family is afraid of suffering with you.
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Hehe, I can only say that the love is not deep.
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If you don't get the blessing of the family, the woman will be unhappy, and you can discuss with the woman how to convince the old man to be better.
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It's stressful. She was also in pain.
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Insist on what you should insist on, express your persistence, if you still can't keep him, it is fate.
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Don't have any more entanglements with him, that will be bad for you and for him!
You feel that you can't let go of him, just because you have been together for a long time, he has become a habit for you by your side, and you can slowly get used to the days without him!
He doesn't deserve your nostalgia anymore, he is so unfirm in his position of love, and his world will have nothing to do with you in the future! They can go to ** in the future, and it has nothing to do with you!
If you turn it over and think about it, they broke up, and he came back to you, would you still be able to accept him? Is such a person worthy of your lifetime of happiness? Would you want a flawed love?
Don't pay attention to his life anymore, don't say anything stupid about no longer believing in love! Feelings are attainable but unattainable, and the worst outcome is not necessarily the worst outcome! Didn't this incident show you his unfirmness?
Tune your mind! Accept the love that belongs to you!
Bless you to find something to get back to your lost self! Find your happiness!
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You need more friends and other sustenance.
You need to love yourself more and be more confident.
I don't believe you can be friends after breaking up.
So since it's broken, don't contact it again.
There are things between people that can be forgiven and can be forgiven constantly.
But there are some things that cannot be forgiven, not once.
It's a matter of principle, so it can only be broken.
Not to mention that his heart has left you in another person.
These six years are for you.
In addition to the pain of the present, it should be turned into a test of your life.
Learn to learn from it.
For example, tolerant, cherishing, not completely dependent.
Pain is certain, don't expect to forget right away, let time heal your wounds naturally.
I hope you make your life colorful, busy, and better for your family and friends.
God allowed him to leave you by preparing your mind with that time in the past.
Let more deserving people get closer to a more perfect you.
You're only 25, and I fell out of love when I was 25, but now it's only been 2 years, and I've been happily married, and I've met him who deserves to be loved.
Believe in yourself, don't look back at the point of no return, and move forward bravely
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Six years of affection, it's close to the seven-year itch!! He's a little tired, it's normal!
In fact, he had feelings for that woman when you were still a couple!
You created a reasonable reason for him to break up!
But after six years, it's a little reluctant!
Maybe one day he will regret it!! But he will never forget you in his life! You are the most remembered in his emotional experience!
You should try to redeem it, because if you find another man now, it's still the same!
Everything has to be started from scratch! I'm so tired!
As for the shadow in my heart, it will slowly fade!
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Everyone has a first love, and if you don't break up with him, then he won't be called "first love" by you. So, this is what everyone must experience in their life,,, you will have a better future, but the word breakup can't be said easily, because I also hate people saying the word breakup at will, how indifferent the two words are.
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Let time help you let go slowly.
Don't be unwilling, don't feel wronged.
Six years is a long time.
But you have to be thankful that he didn't marry himself to someone else when you were 30 years old because you had a quarrel and broke up.
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Let me tell you what I think: I wonder if he accommodated you when you were together? True love still exists, but you need to find it slowly and experience it. Perhaps, leaving all this behind and starting anew, life will no longer be at a loss!!
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Hey, what the man said was an excuse, and the irresponsible man would say, don't be too naïve......To put it bluntly, the man is tired of it, and the man likes the freshness ......There is no need to hate him, he does not deserve ......
What is the most in the world, is people.
You will get your own ...... of love in the future
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Being together is just a time to get acquainted with each other.
Long or short. Some people need a day to get to know each other and get tired of it.
But some people take a lifetime.
Look at the point, it's just that he doesn't cherish it enough.
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Emotional matters are not a matter of time.
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People may have dedicated themselves to art again
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Long live understanding. Forget it, forget it, forget it all.
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Never compare his parents with you, because there is no comparison, parents should be the first to everyone, and filial piety comes first.
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Hello, one day, friendship and love meet. Love asks friendship: There is me in the world, why do I still have you?
Friendship smiled and said: Love will make people cry, and the existence of friendship is to help people dry their tears! Between friends, it is rare to know how to care.
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The root cause is not the parents, or the relationship is wrong. Some people can't be retained, the important thing is what can be without, to retain dignity.
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If he really wants to be together, try to get the approval of his parents and not stand on the opposite side of his parents, which will make it difficult for him. It's not easy for you for six years, and it's not easy for his parents to raise him for so long, right?
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The emotional foundation is not strong enough!
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You have been with him for 6 years, and she has been with her parents for decades! Can it be compared? The key is to get his parents.
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This kind of person will not be happy after marriage.
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Parents are the only ones, and you are not.
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1.First of all, you have to understand what reality is in your eyes, and whether your love has reached the point where it is not the other. And whether the other party is more important than reality.
2.There is a saying that you will never meet someone you loved as much as you once did. Do you think you'll ever meet someone who insists on loving like you do now?
3.When you turn this person into Zeng, can you make the rest of your life not turn your back on love because of reality?
4.Reality never favors anyone. You have to learn to cherish and be more determined, all the bad things will pass, and the best life at that time is your reality.
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What's not to stick to? As long as both parties love each other, the six-year love run, both parties must communicate with their hearts to face the problem and solve the problem. Communication is the bridge....When both sides are single-minded, five words will appear in the sky: "It's not a thing."
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Yes! Support, persist, love, life is not in vain.
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Maybe it's just living together for too long! Get used to it! Dependent! I'm not used to changing people and I don't want to continue to rely on them!
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This is the charm of affection (love). (I've heard that it's hard to do just by falling into this.) Ideal for thinking about the problem
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