My boyfriend is not at home, and his sister is getting married, is it appropriate for me to give gif

Updated on society 2024-06-10
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Are you two sure? How's your relationship with his sister? If the two of you are already sure, then it is reasonable for you to give.

    If not, but you and his sister are friends, then you can give it as a friend, and that's fine. If you're not completely sure of what you're with him, and you're not friends with his sister, then you don't have to give! Because there's no position either!

    Note: What I'm sure of is that both of your parents approve of each other, which is equivalent to an unmarried couple.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Wouldn't it be better not to have to give gift money on behalf of your boyfriend, in your own name.

    The specific number depends on the local situation, and one or two times more than the average good friend is enough.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you're just his girlfriend, you can't replace him, so don't give anything on his behalf, you can give any gift in your own name, it's better, they're sisters and brothers, you can't replace him before you get married, it's not suitable, do you understand? It's weird that you give her money or something instead of her brother, and it may be hard for her to accept that this relationship cannot be replaced, otherwise she will feel that her brother despises her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's not suitable, you don't send more and it's not suitable, it's even more inappropriate, it's better to discuss it with your boyfriend, and if your relationship is known to his parents, you can also consult them.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because she is married to her boyfriend's own sister, it is inappropriate to give gift money on behalf of her boyfriend. You should give gift money yourself, and the amount of gift money you give should be about twice as much as that of ordinary friends.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The problem of money is very troublesome, in short, it depends on your own conditions! Your boyfriend just graduated and went to the army, so he doesn't have much income, right?!

    You can't say his sister doesn't know this, but your boyfriend should know this. A wedding Sincere wishes are the most important thing! You will have this thought, which means that you have a heart!

    If his sister thinks you're not serious enough, do you need to think about it here?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's suitable, you can give it now or not!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think it's appropriate. This will make his family have a good impression of you and think you are sensible.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Divide the situation. The first is that you and your boyfriend have already met both parents, both parents agree, and your boyfriend's sister has invited you to her wedding, in this case, you need to pay a gift money; The second is that his sister did not invite you to the wedding, but her boyfriend told you that his sister was getting married, in which case you did not need to pay a gift money.

    Generally, if your boyfriend's sister invites you to a wedding, you must be attending with your boyfriend, so the two of you can wrap a big red bag and write your and your boyfriend's names on the red envelope. In this way, his sister will know that you have already taken the gift money, and you can get by on your face.

    You can discuss with your boyfriend how much you want to give a wedding red envelope, according to the financial situation of the two, or consult your parents. Generally, wedding red envelopes are auspicious numbers, such as 666 yuan, 888 yuan and other numbers with good meanings can be used as wedding red envelopes.

    To attend your boyfriend's sister's wedding, in addition to giving a wedding red envelope with your boyfriend, you can also give your boyfriend's sister a bouquet of flowers, a bracelet, etc. as a wedding gift, as a blessing to your sister's newlywed.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When your boyfriend's sister gets married, you can discuss it with your boyfriend, you can give gifts together, or you can give red envelopes with gifts. On our side, there are many casual gifts.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The boyfriend's own sister should get married with a gift, and you can also buy some gifts to give, which seems more sincere.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello! Personally, I feel that it is better for you to buy gifts and gifts at the same time, which will leave a good impression on her, but you can also buy gifts alone, after all, the gifts are eaten at the banquet, and you are with your boyfriend, so you don't have to give.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In general, it is more convenient to give a gift. Especially if you don't know what gift to give. You can also ask him if he has any customs, because some regions are a little particular about giving gifts.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. Hello, it's an honor to help you! I think: if you can afford it, you can ...... with itBecause if you are courteous, it will bring you closer to your boyfriend's family, which is conducive to getting along with each other.

    My boyfriend's sister is getting married, do I want to give a gift.

    Hello, it's an honor to help you! I think: if you can afford it, you can ...... with itBecause if you are courteous, it will bring you closer to your boyfriend's family, which is conducive to getting along with each other.

    According to the traditional Chinese customs, as long as there is a happy event, whether it is between boyfriends or girlfriends, as long as the economic conditions allow, they must be ...... with giftsBecause this is the moment to manifest your relationship, if you do it, then your relationship will warm up and go further. If you don't have a courtesy, your boyfriend may not blame you, but he definitely can't accept ...... in his heartThen I get it.

    Don't feel sorry for the 200 yuan, 200 yuan will definitely bring more benefits than 2000 yuan......All in all, it's better for you to go with the courtesy! I hope I can help you and thank you for using the counseling <>

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Just got together with her boyfriend, should his sister get married?

    There is no need to go to the ceremony, Zhengwu because after all, you are not married, and after you get married, you will go to the ceremony together, so you don't need to show something alone, because as relatives, they like it. It's your feelings. The two of you are a thing, the outside world and his relatives have already regarded you as the object of your boyfriend, and they are already a family, so the gift is a piece, there is no need for both of you to follow the ceremony or, if you also follow, it will seem to be vain.

    So don't worry about this, if my boyfriend's family invites us to go, helping can be much better than giving gifts.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What to send can be discussed with your boyfriend, it can also be determined by your economy, or you can send home ornaments, such as table lamps and the like.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    What should be sent, what to send, you can discuss it with your boyfriend.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You just have to drink the wedding wine, it's okay, your boyfriend can seal the red envelope.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's good for you to give a gift with your boyfriend, and if you feel embarrassed, then give a gift to represent your blessing to them, and I believe that his family is happy.

    1. You can give them creative gifts, use the bride and groom's ** to customize a pair of pillows, crystals, woodcut art portraits, etc., on which their patterns can be printed, wishing them a hundred years of happiness;

    2. You can also print clay, send love to you to eternal heart-shaped ink, clear handprints record his love for her, her love for him. Time can't change the beautiful memories of all this, let love witness their happy moments.

    3. You can give them practical gifts, such as red home textile gifts, such as high-end silk quilts, four-piece sets, home appliances, etc. You can also send some tableware, home ornaments, etc., which are both practical and generous;

    4. Marriage is a matter of two people, you can give some gifts for couples, such as engraved couple necklaces, couple bracelets, couple pajamas, etc., and they are more exclusive, I wish them eternal happiness.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Oh, how to say it, you send it to your boyfriend, your boyfriend to send it is you to send it, so you can give one of the two, if your boyfriend gives money, it means you, if you don't send a gift, you can also buy a gift.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In today's era, it's very realistic, and the big red envelope can be done, or you can buy something practical, such as: electrical appliances, daily necessities, furniture.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Ask your boyfriend what your sister likes. Girls generally like plush toys.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Marriage, of course, is a gift that symbolizes a hundred years of good togetherness, as long as it is printed with this allegorical sign, it can be furniture, it can be decorations, etc. In addition, it is also possible to send banknotes, which is simple and practical.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    To the so-called courtesy exchange first hit ** to know what she wants in the gift according to her own situation.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In fact, it doesn't matter, if you are more polite, you can give a small gift, which does not need to be too expensive.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, it doesn't matter, but it's better to send a DIY wedding pillow to print them on the pillow on both sides of the wedding ** The gift is unique and not expensive If you need to find me, the store will benefit from playing.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No. Just go, just send it to your boyfriend.

    The gift is yours together. The premise is that you and your boyfriend will get married. When the time comes, it's time for your boyfriend to introduce you not only to his parents, but to all his important relatives.

    You don't have to give gifts. Your boyfriend may not be as sensible as you. There are still many gaps in your relationship, and you haven't reached that level yet. He should understand you.

    Actually, if your boyfriend is sensible, you can go a day earlier and visit his parents a little first. Bring a small gift or something, and the next day, ask him to introduce you at his sister's wedding, and usually relatives will say a little congratulatory message at the wedding.

    Your boyfriend first blesses you, then introduces you, and finally says, "This time I also touched my sister's light, and the next time we get together like today, it will be to attend our wedding."

    Your boyfriend didn't tell his parents about falling in love with you, he didn't take you to meet your parents, he didn't invite you, and it is understandable that you feel unjustified when your sister gets married this time, after all, you are a girl. If you've been talking for a long time and he hasn't told your parents, it's because he's not thinking it through.

    If his parents know about your existence, they should ask him to invite you on their behalf. I don't know what kind of personality your boyfriend is, some boys really grow up very late, and men don't know much about these skills, because they are born with big rules, which is based on science.

    But if you tell him what you really think, and he doesn't understand it, then it's really his fault. It's all starting to fall in love, so let's talk about it, it's not right for him not to tell your parents about his existence.

    Maybe he wants to take advantage of a formal occasion like his sister's marriage to bring you into his house, but the guy is sometimes stupid and naïve, depending on what his starting point is. I'm sure you don't care about that little bit of money either, but if he gets angry with you because you don't give the money, it's not right.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    No. After all, your relationship has not been determined, and your man's parents don't know, which means that there is still a lot of uncertainty, and it is not right to give gifts now.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Generally, other people's wedding gifts are acquaintances, you don't know his sister, you definitely don't need to give it, even if it is a gift, your boyfriend will give a gift.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Naturally, it is necessary to give it, and this is to make a good relationship with the concubine in the future, but because the other party's parents don't know about your existence, it's good to give gifts in private.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    should give gifts, now that my sister knows, then as her brother's girlfriend, the basic etiquette should be thoughtful.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Send it, this will increase the impression of the girl in the sister's heart, and when the two parties meet the parents, the sister will help the girl say good things in front of the parents.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Yes, even if it is not a valuable gift, you should give some small gifts to express your heart and blessings, anyway, it will be a family in the future.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    No, after all, it's not a family, there's no need to give gifts, just go and express your blessings.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You still shouldn't give gifts, since your boyfriend has let his sister know about your existence, then you should let his parents know about you, otherwise he will definitely not mean it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you don't really want your boyfriend's parents to know, you can ask your boyfriend to give a gift, preferably because it's your boyfriend's sister after all.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I don't think so, because it's not completely settled between you, and your parents don't know either, so it's even less necessary to give gifts.

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