What should I do if I am angry with my friends? 150

It's not lifelike, friends have similar personalities, similar temperaments, sympathy for each other, mutual understanding, mutual understanding!

If you feel that the other person is really your indispensable friend, you should tolerate his shortcomings, including arrogance, pride, lack of humility, and so on! Think more about his merits, at least he plays with you and passes a lot of lonely time.

If you feel that the other person is no longer suitable to be friends, then don't play together in the future, don't contact or contact less!

It's a bit annoying to be a colleague.

Confused? Everyone else is all happy birthdays. She was the only one who was so disappointed.

Although I couldn't bear it, I didn't want to tear it up, so I replied: "It's not early, rest early." ”

Is it for others to see? If you don't want to show me, you can block it. "This wave of moral kidnapping is really something that only soul-level and master-level bargainers can say!

If I had known, I wouldn't reply, and it's a waste of life to talk to someone like that.

I once saw that the clothes the leader was wearing today were quite good-looking. I'm the kind of person who speaks more directly, and I said casually: "Your clothes today are really colorful", and my colleague said directly:

You mean she didn't look good in her clothes the other day? "The bull's head is not in the horse's mouth, and he is a little speechless.

These are all fine, they are only for individuals, and they are automatically blocked. But when it comes to work, the more I think about it, the more angry I become. I am the manager of the marketing department, and it is my job to publish some comments on market research and give reference to leaders!

But it's just a reference! The market is changing rapidly, and it may not necessarily develop according to my analysis. But this person often said, "Hey, I just saw that you analyzed it seriously at the meeting, why is the profit of our marketing department still not good?"

And my performance once felt that it was not right, and I checked it on the company's intranet, and it was indeed less reimbursement, about 70 yuan. was known by her, and said in a weird way, this money should also be taken care of, or you will open a company in the future and calculate it for yourself.

Since I became a colleague with my rival in junior high school, I have opened the door to a new world, and it turns out that there are really people who take "bar" others as a hobby and enjoy it. I also searched for information and researched how to deal with this kind of person. Some people say that they will go back directly:

What about you? "I decided to give it a try.

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I feel that this kind of behavior is a bit unnecessary, and it is not good to dictate other people's lives.

Some people are just used to talking like this, and they don't realize it.

What do you think about this?

This is a friend! is clearly a self-serving, not knowing how to be modest and motivated, and a proud and complacent expert.

The way to treat him: let him play a high-end game by himself, don't take him, and when he is abused by the master and collapses, he will know what it means to have people outside the people and mountains outside the mountains.

Since he thinks he brought you, and you think you brought him, it's very simple, then play alone or with other friends, every time I tell others to develop first, I don't want to be in the group, they always want to send me and I feel annoyed, really.

There is no need to worry too much about friends, you should know what friends are like, play with them if you want, and ignore him if you don't want to.

The best thing to do is to ignore him.

The best thing to do is for you to go his way so that he has no way out.

I feel that since I know my personality and the personality of the other person, there is no need to care about him.

Fight poison with poison, and you will kill him.

So what kind of game will you take him to play?

It's simple, change friends.

In April, someone published a cartoon on the Internet that ridiculed the "bar spirit" because the "bar spirit" did not deserve to have a mother. This led to the popularity of the term "bar essence".

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Xiaoli complained to me as soon as they met, needless to say, she must have been angry with Xiaoqian, a "colleague of the bar".

Xiaoli said aggrievedly: "At today's meeting, I reflected the budget problem to the leader, but Xiaoqian actually said that I want to eat kickbacks!" ”

I asked Xiaoli why she didn't go back, and Xiaoli was even more aggrieved.

I'm stupid, although I know that what she said is unreasonable, but I can't figure out the problem for a while, and I don't know how to reply.

I felt sorry for Xiaoli for a second, the bar spirit in the workplace is really difficult, but these people often have a big logical fallacy in their speech, as long as they find out, they can see the tricks of "bar spirit speech".

There are often no more than 24 kinds of logical fallacies, and I will give you examples of them one by one.

1. Scarecrow.

Distort other people's opinions so that you can attack others more easily.

Example: Xiaoli: I don't think the budget for this project is enough, and I need to apply again.

Speech: You actually think that the budget is small, do you want to eat kickbacks?

Correct reply: I didn't mean that, you are deliberately distorting my point of view and buttoning your hat indiscriminately.

2. Misattribution.

Because two things happen to happen at the same time, one thing is used as the reason for the other thing to happen.

For example: Gong Jing spoke: Xiaoli, yesterday I filled in the wrong **, only you were next to me at the time, but I found out today, it was you who made a small report.

Correct response: You are a typical misattribution, and if it is found out, it may be that the leader has reviewed it, or it may be that you have too many loopholes and have been discovered, but you can't hastily conclude that I made a small report.

3. Appeal to feelings.

Attempt to replace a powerful discourse by manipulating the feelings of the Bebinuclear people.

For example: Gong Jing spoke: I'm so busy that I'm about to collapse, what's wrong with you helping me take a substitute shift? No one with a sympathetic heart can be like you, you are too cruel.

Correct reply: If you are not so morally kidnapped, maybe I will consider helping you to take a substitute shift.

Having a bar spirit friend around you really affects your mood, and you can't communicate anything with him, so no matter what he says, when you feel that he is possessed by a bar spirit again, you can reply, you are right. He said this to himself for a while, and then he would not say it.

Don't fight with him, you may not be able to fight, and if your psychological quality is not good, it is easy to make yourself angry and unable to eat. Because you only need to say one sentence, there are always thousands of words to say your words.

I almost became a bartender for a while. Because my personal subconscious habit is negativeFor example, when someone suddenly asks me, do you want to eat this thing or do you want something, I will subconsciously tell you without thinking, no. But sometimes when my classmates ask me something, such as whether this thing is like this, I will subconsciously say, it shouldn't be like this.

Later I found that it was easy to get into arguments, and I just didn't think about it subconsciously, and I was prone to saying the wrong thing. And my classmates also feel that I am denying him every time, which makes him very uncomfortable, and it is easy to affect the mood of two peopleSo now it's all if he asks me something, like if this thing is like this, I either think about it seriously and express my opinion, or he will say I don't know.

There are some things in life that should be argued, but that kind of innocuous little thing, you don't need to go to the end, just let it pass, and there is no need to go back and forth. If we encounter some difficulties in our studies or work, we must fight for them. When two people argue about an issue, you will take the issue very seriously, so that you want to find out what it really is, and you will learn something in the process of arguing.

But for some meaningless questions, such as I think tomatoes are delicious, and he has to say that tomatoes are not delicious, don't spend time arguing with him about this kind of question.

How to chat in the group and what to do if you encounter a bar.

How to chat in a group.

Don't be too high-profile. There are people with different personalities in the group, and you can chat with people who have common topics in the group, and at the same time, it should be appropriate, not too high-profile, and easy to be envied by others. Although our intentions are good, we can't avoid the appearance of some people who are cautious and jealous of others.

Appropriate jokes. Some people don't like jokes, and some people can't tell if it's a joke or not. When chatting in the group, jokes should also be appropriate, otherwise the other party will misunderstand and cause unnecessary disputes and contradictions, which will affect the atmosphere of the group chat.

Be serious. There are times when chatting requires a serious attitude, and you need to be serious about professional issues and topics to discuss. The way of chatting should be clear about the occasion, so that it can follow a good group chat atmosphere.

What to do when you encounter a bar essence?

Don't argue. The network is virtual, and the same is true for group chats, so there is no need to raise the bar with those bartenders to distinguish between right and wrong. After all, in the eyes of these people, their words are always right, and others are wrong. So, don't waste time arguing and let the other person find themselves bored.

Be yourself. Let's not ponder the thoughts of the spirits, and don't try to wake up the other party. Just let them immerse themselves in their own world. After all, their affairs have nothing to do with us. We can just do what we have to do.

end precautions.

Out of sight, out of mind, just choose to ignore the other party when you meet the bar spirit.

Tell it based on what you say.

I think you're a good one.

Mind-blocking human samples.

I do have a sense that your logic lines are intricately like.

Xizhimen overpass and Chongqing viaduct.

The same as the child who was born.

It is clear that your mind is controlled by emotional factors.

It is a typical emotional-oriented pseudo-logical thinking.

People who think logically like you.

I've seen no less than ten of them recently.

You should belong to the same marginalized group.

I have to say that the spiders are better mastered than you.

Centered around the center, there is a purpose, layer by layer.

Scientific and logical way of thinking.

Modern logic has a special effect on your typical defective logical thinking.

There has been a systematic analysis.

If you have time, you might as well check it out.

It will help you understand yourself better.

From your train of thought you can find out.

A characteristic feature of intellectual activity is grading.

And you don't.

Any indication of intellectual activity at the developed level.

Be assigned to a thinking system of your type.

There may be many inconveniences in life.

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There's no way, I don't think this situation can be tolerated, if you endure it, your friends will be more and more scolding you. You have to learn to go back, let him know how good you are, and it may be better to fight violence with a tooth for a tooth, and to fight violence with violence.

It will never be tolerated when encountering a bar. When I meet such a person, I won't say ignore it, I will go back, I haven't done anything wrong, and I haven't harmed her interests, why talk about me.

If it were me, I would go back, what did I say to provoke you, why do you have to raise the bar to feel comfortable in every sentence. You have to let the other party know that you are not easy to mess with, and he will not dare to do it again in the future.

I think the best way to do this is to make it clear to him, if the other party still hasn't thought about solving it, then I think I should leave and waste time with such a person.

And we can't afford to provoke, can't we still hide?

You don't need to ask others what to do, just follow your own feelings, stop communicating with this person if you are uncomfortable, or exchange ideas with him, and don't waste too much energy on meaningless things.

If you are cold to him, he will be with you, if you are with him, he will be energetic, so the best thing to do is to ignore him, cool him, no one will answer him, he will feel bored, and he will not fight with you at every turn in the future.

I don't like such people, just talk about it, why do you have to go around, it's not a vegetable market quarrel, it's better to stay away from this kind of person.

What to do if you encounter a bar essence, Siyuan uses these three methods to give friends who have the same experience.

Every time she speaks, you say, you're right. Then smile. Get.

Turn your face, and sweep his face directly in front of many people.

Do you think that the bar is worthy of friendship? For this kind of person, you have the right to turn a deaf ear to him if he scolds you, just go in the left ear and out the right ear, ignore him, the more you refute him, the more energetic he becomes, just ignore it.

When you meet such a person, you should stay away, knowing that the other party is a bar, so as not to get angry, the best way is to stay away and save yourself some trouble.

It doesn't matter if I don't make this kind of friend, I can't get along with this kind of person, let alone me, everyone is the same. When you meet such a friend, either you don't interact with him, or you don't talk when he scolds you.