What is the inner world of the bar spirit?

In social communication, by denying anyone's point of view, establishing one's own speech authority, establishing an erudite image, and the process of hard work that must be lifted if there is a bar, and there is no bar to be lifted, it is an extreme desire to "be recognized", "affirmed" and "accepted", until the other party shuts up to get a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. In the eyes of the bar spirit, there is no good thing in the world, any good deed is evil, any flower is dung, and any thickness is light. The deep sense of uneasiness and loneliness in my heart can never subside, especially in the Internet era, there is no need to worry about the risk of being pumped in front of the person, so 100% true love Gatling is sprayed at 8000 revolutions per minute.

The lethality is huge, and I really can't afford to provoke it! I hope that every bar spirit can meet a person who truly loves him, and burn out the haze in his heart with fire-like enthusiasm.

Super stubborn, tough, stubborn, hard to change opinions, hard to concentrate. Feelings are easy to go to extremes. Hot as fire, cold as ice. And it walks between the upper and lower extremes. Such a person is slightly scary.

Gongjing is usually self-centered, believing that what he does and opinions is correct, and what others say and do is not in line with him. This kind of person lacks self-confidence and wants to raise his worth by raising the bar to attract the attention of others. We should have compassion for this kind of person, and not hurt his self-esteem.

They are ordinary and consider themselves extraordinary. They use their own perceptions to guess the behavior of other people, and feel that their own understanding and knowledge of things is right. Rely on suppressing others to gain a sense of superiority and recognition with others, without knowing how ridiculous they are.

They're actually quite pitiful, and if they don't, life may be meaningless, so spare them.

Likes to criticize people (very valid). And think that criticizing people is for your own good. (If you like to criticize people, your friends will have a bad emotional experience of you, and you will gradually have no friends) Disadvantages:

It is difficult to get along with people, and it is easy to cause harm to life, career, and people around you, and it is also very painful for yourself. It should be well transformed.

The degree of selective forgetting is high. People tend to forget things that are not good for them, but the forgetfulness of the horn-pointed personality is far beyond the level of normal people, and it is sincere forgetting, not lying. For example:

You find a wife with sharp horns, and she used to scold you for saying nasty things, and then one day you talk about it, and she will jump out and say, "How could I have said that!" (for it is bad for her to say unpleasant things).

The person who lifts the bar has a very flexible brain, and he can accompany you whatever you say, whether you are flying in the sky, swimming in the water, or walking on the ground, he can be with you for a day.

Everyone has their own thoughts, words, and if you don't want to face it, it's better to shut up.

Once upon a time, there was a bar spirit, he felt that he was very capable, but the situation was not good, and he was always not recognized, so every time someone spoke, he used the way to lift the bar to vent his dissatisfaction, and one day unfortunately, the bar he lifted was too heavy, and he was smashed down and killed.

Once upon a time there was a bar spirit, and there was no doubt that he was smart, and he thought, how can I let others see that I am smart? So he learned to lift the bar, and from then on, his presence grew exponentially.

Once upon a time there was a bar, and he was a wise man. How could he be smart? First of all, he is quick thinking, he grasps the loopholes in other people's words, and is good at amplifying.

The expert said that smoking is harmful to health, and he said that what you said is not right, his grandmother smoked and lived to be sixty-nine years old, and the doctors who treated her were all dead, and she is still alive.

Secondly, he has an active brain and divergent ability. You praised this female colleague for looking so handsome after putting on makeup, he said why are you so superficial, do you think the value of a woman is makeup?

Moreover, he has excellent comprehension skills, and before the other party has finished speaking, he can immediately draw inferences and expand the content. You said that the fried chicken in this restaurant is really good, and he asked you, is the fried chicken in other restaurants so bad?

Fourth, he can be eloquent and articulate, no matter what the other party thinks, he is full of confidence and can refute the other party. You say you don't like your parents very much and don't think they love you. He said how can there be parents who don't love themselves, it must be your problem as a child.

Be sure to let you act according to his values.

As a qualified, narcissistic and rebellious bar, he worked tirelessly, non-stop, all the way through, and finally achieved something. Achieve a four-star small achievement, hurt people invisibly, the bar spirit has not yet spoken, three meters away, the other party has collapsed, and is in a hurry to retreat, can't you hide if you can't provoke it?