How do the post 00s view divorce, and how high is the post 90s divorce rate?

After a group of people who live for themselves, they are unwilling to get married, of course, if they get married, they can also divorce if they feel unhappy, and they are still very rational about divorce.

Although most of them have the idea of not getting married, if we get married, we will not divorce easily. Like the kind of flash marriage and flash divorce, hastily entering the marriage, and then hastily choosing to divorce, such a marriage is irresponsible to both families, and it is also irresponsible for one's own life.

I am a post-00s, born in a post-00s, born in an era of information. There are so many ways we get information, so we see a lot. In addition to the good ending, the marriage I see is happy with each other.

There are also from two love to two hating each other, from the mountain alliance and sea oath, to the quarrel. From the beginning of nothing to the last four eyes relative nothing. There are also unjust seeds who are tortured by firewood, rice, oil and salt.

What's more, there are countless domestic violence!

So what does marriage bring? We can't just see the flowers before the moon and grow old together. Because there are still two people who are tired of each other and quarrel endlessly.

If you only see the good things, you can't see the worst results. The result can only be borne by oneself, and you can only bear it by yourself.

Because of kindness, I am afraid of being hurt. No one knows who will sleep next to their pillow in the future. So run as hard as you can when you're awake, and try to make sure that the person who falls asleep next to your pillow is a good person in the future.

The above is a personal opinion only. If there is anything wrong, please feel free to correct it.

Qian Zhongshu said, "Marriage is a besieged city, people outside the city want to go in, people in the city want to come out" The attitude of the post-00s towards marriage is just the opposite, the post-00s are a group of people who live for themselves, and they are unwilling to get married, of course, if they get married, they can divorce if they feel unhappy, and they are still very rational about divorce.

Now divorce is as common as everyday, and I'm silent. As an OO, I don't have any hope of getting married, study hard and make money, and then don't get married.

Regardless of whether it is born in the 90s or not, it is our traditional concept that we cannot divorce casually when we have children, and the fact that we dare to divorce casually when we have children after 90s just shows their independent personality and courage and determination to pursue personal happiness.

First of all, it is better to be simply happy than two people suffering together.

The traditional belief is that children are the bond that holds the marriage together, and that everything can be given up for the sake of the children. For example, people in the past felt that household appliances were broken, and they could continue to make do with repairs; Nowadays, people feel that if a home appliance is broken, it is more appropriate to replace it with a new one.

No matter how many grievances and unbearable people encounter in marriage, the older generation will endure humiliation and make do with their children. But in fact, this is not good for the growth of children, the post-90s generation is watching their parents make do with it, they don't want to make do anymore, rather than the two of them suffering together every day, it is better to simply separate.

Secondly, each can support himself, and no one has to count on anyone.

In the past, women were mostly dependent on men, had no financial independence, and could not secure their lives after divorce. Nowadays, whether it is a man or a woman, they can basically achieve economic independence, and either party can live well without being dependent on the other, so they no longer compromise. If you are no longer in a relationship with your other half, instead of struggling in marriage, it is better to let each go of your own way of life and make money to support your family, even with children.

Even so, we do not advocate casual divorce, but choose a marriage partner carefully in a responsible manner. It doesn't matter if it's late, people have to choose the right one.

Now the divorce rate in my country is getting higher and higher, and in the past, when there was a problem in the relationship between two people, they didn't dare to divorce because they would be gossiped about. But now divorce has become a common thing. Even many celebrities are divorced, so they pay more attention to their own feelings, and they will be decisively separated if they have no feelings.

Let each other pursue their own happiness.

One: pay more attention to yourself. Two:

Women are more independent. Three: For the sake of their children.

If you really want to divorce, it means that the other party must have broken your heart, and it is better to stop pursuing your happiness as soon as possible. After all, after decades of life, you have to live for yourself once.

Because of the post-90s, they are still relatively young and vigorous, so they dare to divorce casually.

Because they are still more open-minded, they think that divorce is nothing.

This is that young people nowadays are very casual, so there are many divorces.

Generally speaking, this may be because the freedom of marriage is now advocated, and everyone has their own concept of love and happiness.

China's method of calculating the divorce rate is very special, it can also be said to have Chinese characteristics, China's divorce rate is calculated by the number of divorces in the current year and the average population of the year, that is, the average number of divorces of 1000 people, this is a very funny statistical method, because the irrelevant population is also counted, the very simple reason is to count teenagers and unmarried people as the denominator, anyway, the relevant departments never respond positively. Normally, it is the number of marriages in the year, the number of divorces, or the number of marriages The number of divorces China got married more than 20 million people in 2011, and more than 36 million people divorced, which is indeed more than 100%, because the people who were married before were also divorced, so it is very funny that some people in China still use this data to criticize the high divorce rate in the United States and Europe, South Korea, and Japan.

In 2019, nearly 9 million people in China ended their marriages and returned to singleness. This number was in 2002, less than two million, and has been rising for more than ten years. Some people say that the economy has developed and the divorce rate has been high, but I don't think it's all right, after the reform and opening up until 2002, China's economic development speed is also very fast. But.

Summary. There are two main reasons for divorce after 5 years. The first is the social status of one of the parties, the economic level has been greatly improved, and there is the desire for wealth and wife, and then take the initiative to divorce.

This can be considered and discussed from a number of factors.

The first is the social factor.

The divorce after 5 years is mainly based on two reasons. The first is the social status of one of the parties, the level of economic destruction has been greatly improved, and there is the kind of thirst for a rich and easy wife, and then take the initiative to divorce.

The second situation is one of them, mainly because the man's economic level, character and morality cannot satisfy the woman's desires.

In the end, the motive for divorce is mainly to survive.

Or better survival.