Precautions for the burial of loved ones

1. Clothing: Both men and women should wear dark clothing such as black or blue, men can wear white shirts or dark shirts, women should not wear lipstick, and scarves with bright colors should not be worn.

2. Jewelry: Try not to wear jewelry, if you need to wear plain jewelry, you can consider plain jewelry or try not to leak, do not leak to wear, this is a great disrespect to the deceased.

3. Condolence sentences: care and comfort are very necessary for the relatives of the deceased, some excessive weightlifting such as crying should be avoided as much as possible, and attention should also be paid to the wording, as a condolence sentence, it can generally be said like this: "I am really sad when something like this happens, please mourn" or "This time the incident is too sudden, please take care of your body".

4. Wording and actions: At the funeral, you must pay attention to the wording, and do not appear words that make people think of misfortune such as "death" and "miserable"; Solemn mourners at the funeral should be restrained and refrain from high-minded talk. If you are with children, don't let them laugh and play, keep your voice as low as possible, and behave gently and steadily to show sincerity.

Extended Information: Gift Options for Condolence:

1.At the memorial service.

The Venerable Master often gives some gift money, which is a kind of exchange gift, and it is also a part of your heart, after all, there is always a need for expenses and expenses when holding a memorial service, and your gift money can reduce their financial burden. Remember, this gift money must not be wrapped in red paper, it is best to wrap it in a white or plain paper envelope, and write "Dian Yi" and "Silk Gold" on the cover.

and signed.

2.Pull the curtain, pull the shaft, pull the forehead is also called the ritual curtain, the inscription is informal, usually with four characters as more, mostly written straight, horizontal writing called "pull the forehead".

3.Sacrificial gifts such as incense, candles, paper money, firecrackers, "three animals", fruits and other sacrificial supplies, and with the sacrifice with the gift slip.

According to the old rules, the time of burial must also be particular, and the sun must set and the coffin also falls into the ground. When you fall into the ground"Eight Immortals"After the brown rope is slowly lowered and stabilized, the relatives must grab the soil and throw it on the coffin, which is called"Add soil"。After the coffin goes down, it is first covered with a thin layer of soil, and then the soil swept out of the tomb is sprinkled on it, and then a bowl is placed, which is called"Clothes and rice bowls"。

This is done so that when the grave is moved in the future, it will be lighter, so as not to alarm the dead and invite misfortune.

Before burial, the dead son would store the grains made from whole grains in the tomb. The hoard was covered with a small pancake. In the tomb, a ceramic jar is also placed, and a soybean oil lamp is placed on the jar, which is called an ever-bright lamp.

In some places, a bronze mirror is embedded in the tomb to symbolize the sun. In ancient times, wealthy families would stay away from their graves, shoot three arrows, and then immediately retreat. He didn't dare to approach the coffin because he was afraid that he would not be able to suppress the evil spirits and that he would suffer.

When the coffin is placed in the tomb, it must be fired, saying that it is for the deceased to go to the underworld.

After the burial, people had to wash their hands, some with wine. This means that no one will die in the future, and it is used to dispel bad luck. Then the bereaved family thanked the drummers and guests.

After that, a funeral ceremony is held to worship the spirit of the deceased. In some places, as long as relatives have to eat together after the resignation, this is called"Grab the last meal"。Drink in Jiangsu and Zhejiang"Longevity soup", eat"Longevity beans"customs.

That is to say, after the death of an elderly person over the age of 70, the mourner should prepare a large vat of meat and bone broth on the day of the funeral"Longevity soup", a big pot of boiled yellow soybeans, that is"Longevity beans"。When the mourners come back, they have to drink a small bowl of longevity soup and eat some longevity beans at will, which means"Blessing and longevity"。In some places, fragrant and glutinous longevity beans are distributed to children in the neighborhood to eat, saying that if you eat longevity beans, you will live longer in the future.

1. The family shall determine the time of burial, and whether flowers, flower baskets and mourning ceremonies are required.

2. Before the burial, the cemetery staff prepared in advance, cleaned the tombstone, and held up a special umbrella for burial.

3. Worship and burn incense. Do not use chemical incense or inferior incense for worship; In this way, it will incur unfavorable feng shui and will not be blessed by the blessings of the ancestors. Generally, natural incense is the most suitable, which suggests that you go to the official website of the phaseless copper furnace to customize a good natural incense to worship.

Also, if you want to avoid evil, you can wear a mascot to protect yourself at the time of burial. It is recommended that you customize the phaseless auspicious pendant on the official website of the phaseless copper furnace at the same time.

4. Relatives in groups of two bow and worship in front of the offering table.

5. After the worship, the family members stand on both sides to protect the spirits.

6. After arriving at the cemetery, the guard staff will be evacuated, and the workers in charge of the burial will assist the family in placing the funeral supplies.

7. Relatives should place memorial offerings and flowers in front of the tombstone.