Should children be encouraged to be an ordinary person, or should they be an extraordinary person?

Children should be encouraged to be an extraordinary person, and at the same time, let children be an ordinary person first, educate children to be an ordinary person, only through unremitting efforts, let themselves become more excellent, on this basis to be able to be an extraordinary person, extraordinary people, often those with excellent quality, they are selfless, with great love and tolerance of people, so encourage children to be such a person, to be a person who is beneficial to the society, to the country, to the people, Only such a person can be respected by others, then you have to be an extraordinary person.

Of course, encourage your child to be an extraordinary person! Focus: Encourage:

Aren't we always encouraging children to do a lot of things these days? You write this word well, you play this ball very well, you can memorize this poem, you are very good today to help your mother take care of her brother, you have a good idea, mother has thought of ......Extraordinary: The boundary between ordinary and extraordinary is not to mention that in the child stage, every ordinary in the present is likely to achieve the extraordinary in the future!

I think we should tell the child to be an ordinary person, but in terms of usual education, we should make him extraordinary, teaching children should first of all let him have a correct outlook is the most important thing, and then let him become better, but if he is taught to be an extraordinary person from an early age, then he will have pressure from an early age, and if he does not achieve so good in the future, it is easy to lead to low self-esteem.

In fact, for parents, no matter what achievements you have, you just need to be safe, and being an extraordinary person will suffer a lot, but parents are for their own good, and parents want their children to live well, so they want to live an extraordinary life, but they also want their children to be safe.

It is right to encourage children to be ordinary people and extraordinary people, because there is a saying called "extraordinary in the ordinary", which is the truth, and ultimately it depends on how you convey a correct value about "ordinary" and "extraordinary" to your child.

Parents don't need to help their children define what is ordinary, because children have their own lives. Even if it is an ordinary thing, if you have the spirit of craftsmanship, you can also do fine work, so as to completely make a delicate work. Take painting as an example, it is not difficult to get started, but it is not easy to become an excellent painter, you need to constantly hone your basic skills, and you also need to have a variety of artistic edification.

I think children should be encouraged to be ordinary people, just be happy every day and grow up happily.

I don't want my child to have too much pressure, so I will let my child grow up happily and just be an ordinary person.

Even if it is such a mundane thing as cooking, some people just barely make a living as a chef in a food stall, while others become a good pastry chef, make delicious food, earn a good income, and even own their own restaurant. As a parent, the main responsibility is to create conditions for the child, so that the child and the ability to pursue what they like, interest is the best teacher, if he likes, even if it is an ordinary thing, he can accomplish great achievements.

Ordinary people are the same as extraordinary people, I will not encourage children to be what kind of person, his life should be decided by himself, and he should choose what kind of person he should be.

I will encourage my son to be an ordinary person, and after watching the documentary on the world, I feel that human life and health are the most important, and everything else is outside the body.

It is not difficult to accept that a child is an ordinary person. Every child is unique and has their own strengths and weaknesses. As parents, we must be able to truly accept them and understand their characteristics.

First of all, we need to recognize that every child is an ordinary person. Every Xunma child has their own dreams, interests, and talents. Some children may be athletic, while others may be more focused on academic achievement.

We can't put all the kids in the same mold. Accepting our children's ordinariness means letting go of expectations and pressures on them and giving them the opportunity to develop holistically.

Second, we need to understand that children are not perfect. No one is perfect, including children. We should not be overly critical of our children's shortcomings or expect them to show exceptional talents.

We should respect their individual differences and encourage them to do their best in their field. Instead of forcing your child to be different, let them develop their own unique personality.

Third, we need to give our children enough love and support. Whether the child is Purpitong or excellent, they need the attention and support of their parents. As parents, we should give them emotional support and help them build self-confidence.

In this way, they will be better able to face setbacks and difficulties and develop a stable and positive mindset.

Finally, we need to recognize that a child's happiness and success does not depend on whether they are different. Happiness and success are subjective concepts, and everyone has their own different definitions. We should encourage children to pursue their own dreams and not be bound by external expectations.

As long as the child can grow up healthy and happy, the most important goal has been achieved.

In short, it is not difficult to accept that a child is an ordinary person. We just need to truly understand the needs and characteristics of children, give them full care and support, and let them freely express their personality and potential. In this way, we can help them achieve their dreams and become truly happy and successful individuals.

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Today's parents are particularly anxious about educating their children, and the more ordinary the parents are, the more important they attach to their children's education. That's because these parents themselves are birds that can't fly, so they lay an egg and hatch a bird, hoping that the bird will fly, and it doesn't have to be very high and ......

The metaphor is very vivid. Today's parents are really too anxious about educating their children. They take their children too seriously and have too high hopes for them.

However, the more this kind of family puts children first in everything, it is often difficult to reap happiness in the end, and most of them are tragic. Why?

1. Parents attach their dreams to the hidden son of the child, which is too heavy and tired of each other.

Although, parents say this for the good of their children. But in fact, they are also attaching their dreams to their children. These parents' dreams are really too heavy for their children to carry on their backs.

And parents, for Peisen's sake to let their children realize this dream, put their children first in everything, force themselves to struggle every day, force their children to study hard, and each other will be very tired. In such a family, once the tight strings are broken, the family is also prone to tragedy.

Second, children sometimes just want to be an ordinary person, and the disappointment of their parents makes them very tired and blamed themselves.

I hope that my son will become a dragon, and I hope that my daughter will become a phoenix. Every parent wants their children to become excellent people, but there are too few excellent people in the oak hall, and "dragons" and "phoenixes" are even more out of reach for ordinary children. And some parents are forced to be the best in this area, and the child will be very tired.

Especially, when the child works hard, the grades are still mediocre. Then the parents will be very disappointed, sneering at the child, scolding or scolding, and some parents will blame themselves and feel guilty even if they don't say anything.

This kind of family atmosphere that puts children first, it seems that everything is for the children, but in fact, there are big hidden dangers. Because the superficial illusion of happiness will be exposed, the parent-child relationship will collapse sooner or later.

To be tolerant of children is to be tolerant of oneself, and a relaxed family atmosphere is the happiest.

The best family should always put the relationship between husband and wife first, and the parent-child relationship second. If you insist on putting the children first in the family, the family will collapse sooner or later because of the instability of the beams and pillars.

Let children be ordinary, ordinary, and true selves, and let them live in the dreams that adults can't reach.

I want my children to be ordinary people, to live an ordinary and ordinary life, without any pressure.

Thinking that children want to become extraordinary, they must endure more hardships and work hard than ordinary people, and as parents, they will inevitably feel distressed, so I would rather have children ordinary and live a healthy and happy life for a lifetime, which is actually quite good. ‍‍

As a mother, I really never wanted my children to get ahead and be rich. From the day I got pregnant, I just wanted her to be healthy; From the day she landed, I just hoped she was safe; From the day she became sensible, I just wanted her to be happy ......Maybe at different times, I will have different requirements for my children, but I know that I am an ordinary person, so I don't make any requirements for my children. He has his own trajectory in life, just let it be. ‍‍

Definitely not, you can't be ordinary, and you can't be willing to be ordinary. Being willing to live an ordinary life will make you unable to seize opportunities, no pursuit, no self-motivation, and no positive attitude towards the peak of life, so I am not willing to let children be ordinary. ‍‍

I don't want my children to be ordinary. Ordinary life is a boring life, a life without pursuit, willing to be ordinary, is willing to fall, without a positive and enterprising heart. Although people are born ordinary, they can create extraordinary. ‍‍

I don't want my child to be an ordinary person, I want her to get ahead and make a world of her own.

If it were me, I think everyone hopes that their children are excellent, including the ancient sages, otherwise there would be no such things as "Meng's mother's three moves, mother-in-law's tattoo" and so on. The difference is that some parents can calmly accept the fact that their children are ordinary people, while some parents cannot, always forcing their children to do something that is not suitable for them, blindly asking their children how to be, and not thinking about what they should do and how to improve themselves so as to achieve the effect of influencing their children. ‍‍

If you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight, I hope that the child will live an ordinary and happy life, maybe a little ordinary, but just be happy, extraordinary people, but also bear a lot of extraordinary things and responsibilities!

Many parents don't care about their children, and they also say that they have no requirements for their children, just be an ordinary person. In my mind, such parents are irresponsible. In the process of children's growth, we can not hope that our sons will become dragons and our daughters will become phoenixes, but we must also be conscientious, do our parents' duties, and provide children with the best educational environment and conditions, so that we can be qualified to wait for the flowers to bloom. ‍‍

I respect his decision in everything, in fact, as long as he is healthy and happy, and I don't ask for too much for the rest.

Yes, in fact, I don't want my child to be so good, plain is true. I have met a high-level intellectual (a professor at a famous university in China), and he hopes that his son can stay loyal and pure, and he doesn't have to read too many books, which is really a great realm. In fact, after we see that all the sails are not, we will understand that "ordinary is true".

Just like the ancient poem says, "I wish my son was stupid and reckless, carefree to the prince". ‍

I also hope that my children will be ordinary people in the future, people who are useful to society, to the family, and to the country.

I hope that my child is an ordinary person, an ordinary person, simple and happy.

I hope that as long as the child's own happiness is more important than anything else.