Tell us about a time when you were most unhappy with yourself?

It's that every time I go shopping for clothes, I am dissatisfied with my body and feel that I don't look good in any clothes, but I still have to buy clothes.

I'm relatively introverted, I don't take the initiative to communicate with others when I just start working after graduating from university, although I always emphasize that I communicate more but I can't do it, which is a moment that makes me feel dissatisfied.

Before, when I met someone I liked, I would never dare to confess, and I felt very dissatisfied with myself.

When you are strong, you can do without yourself, but you want to be strong, and as a result, you get sick, and the gains outweigh the losses.

The most dissatisfying thing is that I didn't make up for one more year after graduating from high school and was admitted to university. Then I also talked about a love in an ivory tower in college, and then got a job and got married and had children as it should. I remember that I firmly believed that I would not regret not going to college, and I felt that not going to college might not be able to make a difference, but now I regret it.

It's young and frivolous, and it's because I'm too thoughtful. There is also the fact that it is too late to get married, don't fall in love with someone who doesn't love you, don't fall in love and don't get married when you should get married, you must find someone on the same level, there must be no gap, it's very hard to live like this.

When I was most dissatisfied with myself, it was when I got married, I was too impulsive, young and ignorant, I didn't listen to the dissuasion of my parents, and I married someone I thought could give me happiness without hesitation! However, it often backfires, and God and I have a big joke! He is not as good as I imagined, so strong, so responsible, so tolerant, and a man's shoulders are responsible!

It's a haven for women! However, I believed in the vows of the alliance at that time! With the passage of time, there is no affection between us, there is no family affection, and the marriage is a backwater!

It ended in divorce.

When I was a child, I stared at the TV screen every day, and I was the kind of person who looked super close, trying to figure out why the pictures that appeared on the TV screen were color...After persisting for a while, my eyes became myopia....The point is, I paid for the normal vision of my eyes in exchange for the answer, when I was in junior high school, I was said by the physics teacher in a word, I knew it was so, why bother in the first place. Now look at everything is blurry. You have to wear glasses, or you'll have to squint, and you won't be able to see clearly even if you squint...Glasses can sometimes be a burden.

Sometimes I don't want to wear glasses anymore, walking on the street, there are acquaintances to say hello, because I don't see clearly, I don't care, and I have to be said by others to play a big name, this is the time when I am most dissatisfied with myself.

The unpleasantness that happened later in the matter due to his own stubbornness. It's good to have your own opinions, but your own wrong stubbornness has caused many people and done a lot of wrong things, and now I have reacted, and now I feel that I should listen to the opinions of others at that time. Things have happened, and the important thing is that you already know your mistakes and reflect on them.

Instead of dwelling on regret all the time.

At that time, the subject's family was very opposed to us being together. That day, near a delicious hot pot restaurant, the subject said that he wanted to eat hot pot with me. I was hesitant to hear this request, but I didn't agree because there were other important things that could not be delayed next.

Two days later, the subject's mother called ** to say that his father was hospitalized, which was very serious and needed to be taken care of. After verifying the situation, the subject took a leave of absence and went back. Subject said he would definitely come back to me.

Her father spent more than 20 days in the hospital, and when his condition stabilized, he was taken home to recuperate. The subject has been trying hard to get his parents to accept us together, but they resolutely refuse, and I am very proud of myself, even if I have suffered a lot of losses or taken a lot of detours, I don't feel that there is anything to regret. That was the first time in my life that I felt dissatisfied, and I regretted that I didn't agree to eat hot pot together, because I might never have the opportunity to eat hot pot together again in the future.

It is better to advocate and lead the neighbors to defend their rights in the community. We are a community of 4,000 owners, and everyone usually blames and complains about the property, but there are very few people who really stand up with practical actions to guide the property work and promote the healthy and orderly development of the community. Taking a huge risk and wasting time and energy to charge the front line, what I got was the hot and cold wind of some people, as well as doubts and incomprehension and non-support, I wondered, I took my neighbors to defend their rights, I didn't eat a bite of your food, I didn't take a needle from you, I didn't want you a penny, under pressure and resistance, as the owner, you didn't support me to defend my rights, but why did you follow the powers to fabricate rumors and right and wrong for me?

The matter of defending the rights of the community should be the most regrettable and dissatisfying thing in my life.

I'm okay with myself, accept my ordinariness and ordinariness, and strive to be a better version of myself.

I'm not happy with myself, but I don't want to change because I'm lazy with a word.

1) Like the physiological self: I am an average-looking girl, but I never feel inferior, because everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, I know how to accept myself, improve myself, enrich my knowledge, and improve my self-cultivation. Mental Self:

I'm a short-tempered person who wants to get angry at every turn, but I can always remind myself to be calm and less impulsive. Social Self: I am a representative of the Political Science Section in the first (2) class of junior high school, and I take my duties as a representative seriously.

2) Satisfaction: I am a person who is good at uniting my classmates; I'm a helpful person; I am a person who has the courage to accept criticism and correct it; People with strong organizational and interpersonal skills. Dissatisfied: sloppy work; Temper tantrum; Dependency on people with strong feelings.

3) "No one is perfect", in this world, "I" is unique, so I have to accept myself. First of all, be brave enough to accept your own shortcomings, deficiencies and defects, accept your imperfections, and find ways to improve; At the same time, think more about your strengths and strengths, and strive to build on them.

4) Improve your self-control; Properly show your strengths and play to your strengths; Appropriately absorb the advantages of others and supplement their own shortcomings; Have the courage to accept challenges and reflect their value in the crowd in challenges; Learn to look at yourself with a developmental perspective. This one?

I'm often dissatisfied with myself, and even if I do something that makes my friends like it, I don't think that's it. I often judge myself, how do the other person feel when I say this? Did I say it fluently?

Am I articulating? What do people think of me? I care a lot about what people think of me, and I expect too much from myself and want to be perfect.

Because I don't recognize myself, I have a low sense of self-worth!

Ms. Satya said

Each of us has two selves within ourselves, one ego is the inner parent, and the other ego is the inner child. One is the ideal self and the other is the realistic self. Every time you do something yourself, your inner parents will judge your inner child and will be strict with your inner child with higher standards.

When our inner parents are satisfied with our inner child, and the two selves reach a state of harmony, our selves can be in harmony.

How do you achieve self-harmony? Lower your expectations of your ideal self, improve your realistic self, reduce the difference between your ideal self and your real self, see your own efforts, accept yourself, and allow yourself to grow slowly! Only when you are satisfied with yourself and accept yourself can you have the ability to accept the people around you and be satisfied with the people around you!

I am still very satisfied with my work because my work is easier and I have more free time, so I can use my spare time to study

Because my work is easier now, I have more free time, and I can use my free time to enrich myself and make myself better and better.

Before I graduated, I was full of confidence, thinking that there were so many job opportunities, how could I not find them. After graduating, I found out that I couldn't look down on what I could go, and others didn't want me, so I was embarrassed.

The current job is a poor office staff, the job is easy, the income is stable, the income is a bit low, and the company's benefits are still okay.

The satisfying aspect of work is that it is more leisurely, and I have time to learn other skills to enrich myself, unlike sales jobs that waste time and look at luck.

The dissatisfaction is that there is not much room for growth, so the wage increase will not be very large. If the salary could be higher, I would be very satisfied with this job.

But in view of the fact that I really don't have any skills that I can get now, I still support myself honestly first, and wait for a suitable job opportunity to see if I want to change it later.

Although the work is simple and there are few things to learn, it will still be helpful in the future if you study hard, so I don't have much idea now, after all, my previous experience in looking for a job told me that I can't find a good job without any skills.

At present, I am not so satisfied with my job, because the salary is really not high, but the company atmosphere is still relatively good, the work is relatively relaxed, you can use your spare time to study more, and there will be better opportunities in the future.

I'm happy with my current life and love it.

My family environment is very good, my father and mother love me very much, they give me a lot of love, let me feel the warmth and warmth of the family.

Since I was a child, I have been a very sensible and well-behaved child, and I rarely let my parents worry about it, so in their eyes, I have always been the child who makes them worry-free and worry-free.

Although, sometimes, I can be willful and vexatious, but every time, I don't make my parents angry.

Because I know that if I make my parents angry, they will ignore me. I don't want to, and I don't want them to be sad.

When I was a child, my parents often said to me: You have to be obedient, you have to listen to the teacher, you have to listen to your mother and father, you know?

At that time, I didn't understand the meaning of filial piety in this sentence, why do I have to listen to others? Why can't you make your own decisions?

Later, when I grew up, I slowly realized that my parents did not want to control me, but wanted to protect me and hope that I could grow up safely and healthily.

When I grew up, I gradually understood that my parents had high expectations for me, and they hoped that I could become a talent, a useful person, and a person who could contribute to this society.

So, since I was a child, I have always worked hard, I have been struggling, and I have never given up.

I know that only in this way can I live up to the expectations of my parents and live up to my own expectations of myself.

In fact, I think that in this life, as long as you live your own value and live the way you want, it is enough, there is no need to compare with others, and there is no need to compare with others.

Because, everyone has their own strengths, and everyone also has their weaknesses, and we don't need to compare our own shortcomings with others' strengths.

Moreover, everyone's starting point is different, some people are born with a golden key, while others are poor.

Therefore, we cannot compare our own weaknesses with the strengths of others.

We need to know how to appreciate ourselves and learn to accept ourselves. You know, you are you, you are unique, you are the best, you don't need to be like everyone else, you don't need to be like everyone else, you can have your own ideas, you can have your own personality, you can have your own way of life.

Summary. In fact, if someone says that they are in a good stage of their career planning, or a stage where they are doing well in their studies, they should be satisfied.

If someone is not very good at their studies or work right now, they should be dissatisfied.

But whether you are satisfied or dissatisfied, life must go on, so those who are satisfied should also make their future self better, and those who are not satisfied should make a specific plan for their life, and then let him work towards a satisfactory direction and goal.

Hope mine is helpful to you and I wish you all the best.

Are you happy with who you are now?

Hello, I don't know if someone else asked you this question, or if you, the person you want to ask, your question? 

In fact, if someone is satisfied with their current self, if someone says that they are now in a very good stage of their career planning, or a very good stage in their studies, they should be satisfied, if someone is not very ideal for their study or work, then they should be dissatisfied, but whether they are satisfied or dissatisfied, life must always go on, so those who are satisfied should also make their future self better, and those who are not satisfied should make a specific plan for their own life. Then let him work towards the direction and goal that he can be satisfied with, I hope that mine will be helpful to you, and I wish you all the best.