How do you think that love has a deadline for assessment? How to deal with it?

Life is like a dream, and the years are ruthless. Looking back suddenly, I realized that human life is a mood. It doesn't matter if it's poor, it's rich, it's good to gain, it's good to lose.

It's all in the past. Think about it, no matter yesterday, today, tomorrow, it is a good day to be able to suddenly open up. Regardless of family, friendship, or love, it is a good mood to cherish it forever.

I remember that there is a classic text message that says: Don't forget what you once had, cherish what you have already obtained; Don't give up if you belong to yourself, Keep what you have lost as memories, you must work hard if you want to get it, put your heart on the shore when you are tired, Don't regret if you choose, You know how to be satisfied when you are bitter, You can enjoy life when you are hurt, You can understand how strong you are when you are hurt, There is always a windy morning, there is always a gorgeous dusk, and there is always a night of meteors. ¬

Life is like a one-way ticket with no return, there is no rehearsal, and every show is live. Grasping every performance is the best cherishing of life. Seize the present and enjoy life! ¬

If you take the assessment to face love, then that kind of love is dead, or not.

I wouldn't think so.

Be optimistic.

You have to wonder why this is happening! How did it come to be. Two people communicate more. It's best to be able to communicate when you have time. It won't be like this.

If you really like it, you will accept it, and true love is not afraid of any assessment.

Enjoying the last love. Don't worry about the time constraints! True love may be able to dissolve the time limit and a miracle happens! Bless you!

Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

Imprint every day in your heart Write down every relationship in a small notebook When the deadline is up, say goodbye with a smile.

Time is not an issue, and it is already satisfying to store love in my memoirs.

When your love reaches the end, the inspection period is over.

It doesn't matter if you leave, don't people say that Xiao Bie is better than a newlywed? If you really separate for a while, and you are cold for a while, he will know that if he loves you, he will definitely be very nervous, and he will coax you in turn and ask you how you are like this!

If you say that, you're going to break up? Then you fly this man! Then it must be that man who wants to break up and deliberately slowly colds you and slowly breaks up! Isn't this a common trick used by men?

Why be in love? Is it to be fixed together to see if it is suitable for marriage so that you want to fall in love? You're thinking about getting married, so you're going to be together, right?

Even if you can't go through this little test, what's the point of everyone being together? When will you get old?

If it's just fun and boring, then just leave him alone! After all, women have to be reserved! Don't be so embarrassed! When you look back, don't leave yourself with a ridiculous picture!

Then leave for a while.

Don't break up.

In fact, two people should reach this period together, and after being together for a long time, they will slowly form a habit, and he will naturally not be as careful and cautious as he was at the beginning. Most men have this phenomenon, and they will be very cautious at first, but now they may feel that your relationship is very stable, so they gradually return to their natural state. I just asked a male friend, and he said that at the beginning, they will be tolerant and cared for in every way, but if they are required to be enthusiastic and cautious all the time after being together for a long time, then they can't bear it at all.

So, if you don't feel that there is anything else wrong with him, then the biggest possibility is that he feels that you already belong to him, so he has treated you like a family member, and there is no need to deliberately please you.

As for whether you want to separate or not, you should listen to your own heart, are you really separated? If you can, it's not necessarily a bad thing to separate it. The most important thing now is to adjust your own mindset, don't be cranky, and let everything take its course.

Of course, if you can, it's best to tell him what you think, and you can talk about it, after all, everyone thinks best because of themselves. No matter how much we help you analyze, it can only be based on our guesses, and it may even mislead you.

Maybe being in love is hurting each other! If you care about him in another way, you should let him know, let him understand that you care about him, this is a habit, get used to his air, his taste, his living environment, in fact, there is nothing! Try to be independent slowly, don't have two people in everything, learn to take care of yourself, let him know that girls are also independent, and can still stand on his feet, let him know that you can't do without him!

But the main thing is to let him know that you love him!! So that he will return to the way he always cared for you! Believe in yourself, you can do it!

You don't have to think too much, feelings are like this, when two people are good to a certain extent, they will not feel the temperature of love. In fact, you still love each other, and the temperature is still the same as before. It's just that because they are too familiar, they are like one person with each other, so they inexplicably lack a lot of care in details.

I suggest you hang out together, let off steam, and don't always be around the dormitory.

Then let's go on a date in a different place.

You can go hiking and experience the warmth of supporting and helping each other.

Life is the same, and feelings will be tired.

I feel the same way I do, and I don't know what to do.

Let's try to go back in time

Or leave for a short period of time, not half a year, and maybe a long time away will have the consequences you say

This is the so-called distance is the beginning of beauty

Love is love, not affection or emotion. Don't cling to the feelings themselves, they are meaningless. The meaning of two people being together is to build something together and experience love in the process, otherwise love has nothing to rely on, and it cannot continue.

The flat period of love is --- to see that the other party is no longer excited, and it no longer takes half an hour or even more to recall the details of being together after going home on a date.

Deal with it -- both people have to adjust their mentality, communication and understanding are really important, but it's not easy to do, if it's not enough love, it may not be able to pass the flat period. Finally, I wish you a complete love.

Love is actually a habit formed by getting along, and the flat period of love is a period when each other adapts to each other's habits. It's good to get used to it, and if you can't adapt to it, it's divided!

Hello! The love lull period refers to the days after the hot love, and the romance is divided into the hot love period and the flat period. The duration of the hot love period is very short, usually only a few months of hot love, and the long can last until marriage.

After getting married, they entered a dull period of love, because the two were too close, and only some trivial matters of life were left for the two.

The flat period of love does not mean that it is a bad thing, and the dull love can last longer!

After the hot love period, it will slowly become dull.

There is no shortcut to happiness, only business.

This is not a fixed period, it depends on the individual's performance, if the performance is good, it will pass quickly, if he is not satisfied with your performance, then it will be long.

I think he likes you, otherwise he wouldn't give you an "inspection period", the inspection period does exist, but I don't think it's what you should meet at your age, so I think that the term "inspection period" is just an excuse for the woman, a step, the essence is that he wants to find a stage to adapt to you, I think it should be like this! Therefore, as long as there is a "probation period", there are very few who do not pass the test!

If you hire a good lawyer, you can win the case. How did you follow this kind of man in the first place, you shouldn't be a fledgling either, I hope you succeed.! Big sister has to stand up bravely and take it out.

For a week, pay attention to his tone and see if he will automatically call you to see how the text message responds to your request.

Don't forget the ancestral teachings, although the family is pedantic, but the truth.

Provide an appropriate approach for a situation like yours:

confiscate his salary card, let you manage the finances in a unified manner, and give him an appropriate pocket money every week to save face.

Eating in this way, buying things, and so on, you have the final say, avoiding the embarrassment of paying the bills, and although this method is not perfect, it has been tried and tested, and it has greatly eased the economic friction between the two sides.

Of course, the premise is that the woman knows how to manage her finances.

PS: I don't know if your relationship has progressed to the stage of passionate love or the stage of talking about marriage if it is the initial stage.

This method requires careful negotiation between the parties.

Wishing you happiness!

Personally, I think it's better to be financially independent, after all, I am not married, but there is no need to care about some small money. Hope it helps.

Actually, this is also what I'm worried about now, but I'm the opposite, we've been in a relationship for three months, he's a student, in fact, it's nothing if you think about it carefully, there's always one party to pay, you have to support him, and he becomes a friend, it shouldn't be difficult for a pair of lovers to do this, see if he has any psychological pressure, the most important thing is that you have to make sure that he loves you, I never wronged my girlfriend in terms of money, because I'm sure she loves me, so these should be, Falling in love is not so simple, as long as you love each other, you can be happy, I believe you will be happy.

Most men want the man to pay, and if the girl pays, he will feel faceless and inferior. What you can do is not order some expensive dishes when you eat, take care of him, and if you love him, you won't care about it when you get married.

A small income shouldn't be a reason not to spend money.

If you have a small income, you can't lose your manly demeanor.

You can't say anything if you have a small income.

During the love period, you can AA system. In this society where boys are taking the initiative to spend money, if he can't cooperate with you in the AA system, then what's the use of this man!

Money is a real nuisance that doesn't get enough of it. Since everything is undecided, the landlord is better off with him. In this way, everyone will not have an opinion, and they will not be afraid of causing pressure to him.

A good relationship should be blessed by family and friends, and you will be happier. If you always feel awkward in rational and perceptual analysis, you can actually reconsider whether it is appropriate or not, many things cannot be solved by the future, especially feelings.

Money can't be seen too important, but money is absolutely impossible, maybe it is, but you and his girlfriend are not outsiders, and even if the money is spent, what can you say, and nothing, take a look at it after a period of contact, if it is really not suitable, divide it, after all, people are different, you can't force it, don't grieve yourself.

First of all, you should figure out whether your relationship is strong or not, from your information I can't see that he cares about you, you are completely alone in managing your feelings, you can only talk about economic issues when you figure out this problem, only with emotional economic problems also have a basis for paying.

If you have a small income, you can also give you a gift, but can't you buy a small gift to show your love if you have a small income? The point is that he hasn't offered you a gift right now. I think you should open up to him and talk about economic problems or ideas, and the two sides reach a consensus, if you blindly bear it yourself, you won't feel good in your heart, if it lasts for a long time, how can you talk about love?

It's better to talk to him face-to-face and reach a consensus on the economy. Thank you.

He is only afraid that he has the same thoughts as you, and after all, he is three years younger and is in the army, so he will not be able to deal with many things.

As long as the boy has an income, he will definitely pay for it Blindly don't pay I can't live with such a man I want to be able to live with such a man At least let go of 、、、a man who is not willing to pay at all is not worth dating It's not that it costs much It's too hard to even pay a little bit I've seen a lot of examples like this My sister also divorced because she met such a man.

Is it because you have been in a relationship for too little time, or is it that he hasn't fully accepted you, and you haven't fully understood him before you have a relationship, is it just stingy with you or is it for everyone, if not, you have to reconsider your relationship with him, and you also mentioned above that you live a relatively small bourgeoisie, maybe he is frugal, or maybe it's family reasons, you need to understand it.

You can't ask for such a man, don't let him buy you anything, don't ask him for his money, but you can't always ask you to give him gifts... All I can say is that he's too small.

Personally, I think the AA system is better, and I hope it will be useful to the landlord.

You can chill it for a few days, maybe you two are too tired of it, and you can chill it for a few days....Let's see if you'll be like this, only when you lose can you know how to cherish...

This should be a time of trial, pray!

Hehe, you have to leave it to keep it fresh. Can't stick together all the time.

Do what you love to do, what was the original attraction to her, and continue.