How wrong was I? Why do I have so much to do? Where do I change from? The temper is still very big.

In that case, it's better to let it go.

The question is, do you still love your husband If you love it, then insist on changing yourself, and you can also have a good talk with your husband. If you don't love it, then don't delay others and yourself. You must think carefully about it, divorce is not child's play.

It's emotionally hurtful to say it easily. I hope you can be happier, some things are not a matter if you look down on them Just like when you fell in love with your husband** Now you are looking for a little bit of him in the same way, don't just look at other people's shortcomings. Change your temper and you will be kind to others, and they will reciprocate the same for you.

Actually, you're talking about the little things in life.

When two people really live together, it is two lifestyles to be combined, and there must be a lot of trivial things in it. When trivial things are magnified, they become contradictions.

I used to be like that.

My change is that the two of them need to communicate more frankly. We all need to change. Small things to do. Complain less.

Of course, the basis is: we still love each other!

Bear it, be tolerant, talk to him well, people may not have everything going well in their lives, every family has a difficult scripture, after all, the living environment of the two of you can be different before the age, people must learn to understand, I hope my method, I wish you success, come on!

In fact, many people are like you, but some people are not as willing to regret as you, and those who are high-minded and ambitious are even more pathetic.

However, remorse has no meaning, and remorse cannot be used as a torii to appease oneself.

People who work their own have to go through a difficult and difficult climbing process. As you said, as soon as you get started, you are afraid of hardship and trouble, how can you make achievements?

Anyone can say hard work, but it's really hard to do. Efforts are translated into action and most importantly change. People who are able to change themselves will radiate great power.

You need to change now in the following ways: First, you need to build self-confidence. You are young, motivated, and driven......These are the foundations and capital on which you build self-confidence.

The second is to change from what can be done in front of you. In today's society, if you don't have strong family support or social connections, you can only rely on yourself, and people who rely on themselves to do things rarely succeed in one fell swoop. Therefore, it is necessary to start with the things in front of you and work step by step.

Seek change in the process of introspecting your own shortcomings. For example, you need to change your work and rest habits, change your spending habits, develop financial management habits, develop study habits, and so on.

Third, we should improve our psychological quality. In fact, it is normal for people to be afraid of hardship, tiredness, and difficulties, and it is not overnight to develop a resolute character. However, there are two kinds of psychology that are extremely undesirable:

One is accustomed to the psychology of getting something for nothing, and after a long time, it will become a lazy and slippery waste; One is the psychology of impetuousness, and in the end it will achieve nothing.

Hehe, I said a lot, I don't know if it helps you. Life is long and short, cherish it.

As the saying goes: Men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. You just didn't find your direction, identify what you want to do, find a good direction, the industry you like, so you are willing to do it, change the style of what you do, do everything really have to be seriously considered, some things are not what you imagine can be done, why many people can mature, is that he knows what can be done and what he can do, but to do things must be insisted on, and there must be a heart to hold only one balance to be able to do success.

Oh, don't think about it, personality is not here to change, it's to change, plan a time plan for yourself, you must stick to it every day, do it according to the plan, {remember every day} don't waste it halfway. I believe that if you persist for a year, you will not be like this. And if you want to open a little, it's good for people to be happy, but there are many ways to be happy, treat work as fun, and you will be a strong man.

Hehe, good luck.

Persistence is victory, and before making any decision, you have to think about the worst-case outcome, and then ask yourself if you can accept it. If you can accept it, do it, and then you can't regret it, because I thought about it before, since you do it, don't regret it, and you can't waste it halfway!

Your weakness is that you can't hold on and you're not brave enough. Watch more inspirational books, movies, and listen to some passionate ** to encourage yourself. At the same time, believe in yourself, you will definitely succeed, as long as you really work hard, there is nothing that cannot be done.

Don't always live in a dark world!! Think about the good things, life is actually like this. No one will rest on their laurels. But as long as you are willing to work hard!! Everything will be fine.

Get to know more successful people who need someone like you to take you. Otherwise, it's hard to get started.

You're a piece of garbage, garbage, and a waste. I scolded you, aren't you angry, then whenever you want to give up halfway, imagine that your classmates, your friends, and relatives are all better than you, are you a waste, a garbage? Isn't it?

Then prove it to them. You have self-esteem, you know what you have to do.

If you want to open a little, you can do what you do, and you have to rely on your own 、、、 everything

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. Life is very tiring and hard Because society is very unfair, life is very helpless Sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it is not boring Because life is like this No one's life is smooth sailing As long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. Just remember: don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second Life is inevitable to fall and wait Be brave to look up The sunshine is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!

It's not about changing but not wanting to accept reality, only by accepting reality can you start over and find your former self.

What is most likely to change after a blow is a person's worldview. Setbacks make people realize that the world is not what they imagined before, and re-understand the world. There is a different way of looking at the world than before.

Generally negative. There are also those who are positive and need to have a strong heart. It's okay if someone helps.

When hit, people's personalities will change a lot;

The so-called "facts change fate" is this truth.

It depends on his mental capacity and the short-term, medium- and long-term effects of that event on him.

The place of events in his heart.

Personality does not change, what changes is only the perception of things, that is to say, an extroverted person, his personality is always an extroverted character, the difference is only whether his attitude towards things is negative or positive. An introverted person with a positive attitude will also give people the illusion that this person is very "cheerful", and in essence, introversion and extroversion will be very different from the subsequent behaviors produced by the blow. In other words, the way of treatment is the same thing, and the character does not change in nature.

No, because the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change. However, you will take things lightly, and when your "blow" gets longer and longer, you will feel that your personality has not changed, but you will mature a lot.

Yes, it is possible. It's also a process of maturity that people will face all kinds of challenges in the future, and they can't always be flowers in the greenhouse. That never grows.

That's right, I am. Since I was in elementary school, I have been beaten by my family, saying that I am not popular, I can't deal with people, I don't communicate with the outside world now, and I will always be alone. I used to be cheerful, but now... Hardly say a word a day.

How not, because I'm introverted, but for the sake of business, I try my best to be extroverted, although I remember that I'm used to being an extrovert on the surface, and even relatives and friends say that I've become very extroverted, which is really good, but I know I'm unhappy, and I met my boyfriend later, he thinks I'm very lively and cheerful, very optimistic, so he speaks to me openly, and doesn't even challenge my optimism, and then I have depression, which is generally not an important thing, I will answer more officially, and now I am still superficially extroverted, But I know that when I should be introverted, I still have to be introverted, silence is golden, in fact, many people think that extroverts are brave and strong, in fact, as an introverted person who is extroverted and extroverted on the surface, I tell you the truth, extroverted but easy to get along with, is indeed very fragile inside.

After receiving a blow, there will be several changes in personality.

First, they will become silent and do not like to communicate with others.

Second: you will become mature and will no longer be so impulsive in doing things.

Third: it will become decadent and feel that the world is not friendly.

Look at the individual, if the anti-quotient is high, the ability to bear will not change, but the future will be careful, if the ability to bear is not strong, it will become extreme, there is a saying that the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change.

It varies from person to person. But I personally think that if you get hit, theoretically speaking, your personality will change because of this, and if it changes for the better, then it's okay, but if you are decadent because of this, then this attitude is quite negative and quite weak. But in reality, most people are after being hit.

Since it's a blow, the trauma should be not small.,It's forgivable to be bad for a while.,But if it's long-lasting.,It's not good.。。 I think you should exercise your body and mind well, so that setbacks don't change yourself easily. Let yourself learn to change yourself.

First, when a person encounters a blow or setback, his personality will change.

Two, what changes will occur depends on what blows are received. It has to be analyzed in detail.

It mainly depends on how big the blow is.

Big blow words.

Personality changes.

Not necessarily, if the blow is not strong, it may be able to hold on, but if it is too big, it may be so.

It's true, I was rarely hit by people in middle school, so I was more open and outgoing at that time. When I got to high school, I was hit by all kinds of blows, and I felt that I couldn't do anything right, and I found myself becoming more and more introverted.

After being hit, he gave up on himself and looked down on himself and was able to change from a person who wanted to be strong and had dreams to a waste who took advantage of small things and was obscene and could get by.

That's up to you.

Personality is something that can basically be mastered by yourself.

Just talk to your friends and see what's changed about you.

Surrounding environment, right?

Or change the environment.

Or change yourself.

But if it's bad, it's not a big deal, and it won't stretch out. Let it be.

That's your own problem, and it depends on your own thoughts.

Heart, everything still depends on the heart!