What standard do men usually measure a woman by?

First of all, it's about appearance. This is what I forced my boyfriend to say. Hehe.

My boyfriend and I first met when we were 4 girls with me. Later I asked him why he was with me. He said I was a good person.

Actually, my friend has two people who have very good character, but the appearance has to be lacking in shortcomings) Later, I forced him to ask him to say it, and at first he still thought I was the best looking and continued to contact me. The good character was discovered later when we got along.

Failing in appearance; Direct game over

Don't feel unfair, in fact, it's the same for women to choose men! And then you have to add the degree of wealth, and the degree of wealth is below the girl's satisfaction, which is also directly game over by the girl.

Temperament, cultivation, beauty, generosity, intelligence, virtuousness, well-behaved, ladylike, gentleness, thoughtfulness... I want it! It's too hard to find!!

1.Appearance 2Body 3Personality 4Character.

1.Not very ugly. Acceptable. Appearance.

2.Character. 3.Nature.

Everyone's standards are different.

Band"color"vision.

There is nothing extreme in saying this, it should be said that most men and women are like this.

Let's start with appearance. I believe this is undeniable.

Then in depth!

Look at the appearance first, then feel the conversation, and after deep friendship, you will slowly understand whether your upbringing and personality are compatible with him.

However, modern men think that women should not only lead the style, but also lead the **!

1.Promise. Commitment means to accomplish what is within one's ability, and for men themselves, only a clear self-awareness will make a meaningful commitment, which may be the basis for these traits of true duty; For partners, fulfilling commitments means an increase in trust, which is an effective way to manage relationships and reinforce a sense of security in their relationships.

2.Loyal. Have your own core needs for relationships, can resist the temptation of low quality and meaninglessness in the outside world, be strong and firm inside, and be responsible for yourself and your partner.

3.Rational and kind.

The best form of rational kindness is a humble and respectful attitude, respect for everyone, humble learning and steady progress, and rational and kind people to communicate, whether it is a friend or a lover, communication must have a positive response.

4.Confident and independent.

Despite the humility of the performance, the core inner belief of oneself is firm, and the desire or major personal decisions are completely firm, and the negative teaching material is a mother, without one's own decision, and does not respect one's independence.

5. Be responsible.

Men must have a sense of responsibility and dare to take responsibility for what they do, whether it is a business or a private matter. The kind of man who pushes on others whenever something happens is not only despicable but also shameful.

6. Self-confidence. A man who exudes a confident smell can make a woman feel at ease.

1.From the outside, an excellent man is very heavy, which can be seen from his speech and demeanor, and even his appearance. Steady work, rigorous and dignified, not frivolous and reckless, with the characteristics of extremely steady walking and slow speech. This is the temperament and external performance that a noble person should have.

2.From the perspective of quality cultivation, a truly excellent man has integrity, responsibility, responsibility, self-motivation, calmness, and the accumulation of these qualities.

Whether it is for family or career, we will not evade any responsibilities and obligations. From ancient times to the present, the more accomplished men are, the more they know how to be humble and learn, and the truth of being a human being. And the more shallow people are, the more self-righteous and arrogant they are.

The better a man is, the more he knows how to self-examine himself, knows how to accept the opinions and suggestions of others, investigates from multiple angles, and resists the invasion of foreign objects. He understands that the affairs on the road of life are complicated, and it is difficult to grasp the truth and control this complex world with the power of unity and his own subjective cognition.

1. A good man must be responsible.

One criterion for measuring a good man is responsibility, whether it is for family or career or even for friends, a responsible man will always show responsibility when problems occur, no matter what difficulties he encounters, he will not shirk his responsibilities and will not evade. knows how to respect his elders, knows how to love his wife and children, and he can resist the entire burden of the family, this is a responsible man.

2. A good man can be single-minded about his feelings.

Single-mindedness here does not mean that men can only love one person in their lives, but everyone they love will be single-minded, they may have been in love several times, but you can't say that he is not single-minded, flowery, but after all, this is what he has experienced, and he has paid sincerely, but this can also prove that he is a single-minded and affectionate man. Therefore, treating a man who is emotionally dedicated is also one of the criteria for measuring a good man.

3. A good man loves his family and takes care of his family.

A man who loves his family is also a standard for a good man, a good man will not only love his family but also take care of his family very much, this kind of man who loves his family is the most handsome, and you can also see the kindness of this man from the side. Men who care for their families and love their families will be busy with work outside every day, but they are still very concerned about their families in their hearts, and they will not socialize late outside, nor will they make women lonely and lonely.

4. There is always a positive energy in a good man.

This society is under so much pressure, everyone will face a lot of pressure every day, but some people deal with it in different ways, a good man, especially a man full of positive energy, although they will be defeated, but they will learn from it, never shout, they have their own light and heat, and they are also so bright in the face of marriage and love.

To be a successful good man, a man with taste, is the beautiful dream of every man with the same destination, a wise man, first of all, love his own home, love his wife, love his children, love his relatives, and love his lover, and work together to create a kind family.

With a man's nature and manly spirit, considerate and kind, mature and concise, empathetic, tolerant and understanding, with good moral cultivation and cultural quality, tasteful, conscience, filial piety to parents, considerate of wife, love children, able to take on the responsibility of a family, know how to be grateful and return, decent, loyal and honest, an excellent man will exude an attractive brilliance, he not only attracts you, but also attracts people who have the same ability to appreciate as you.

Good men have the following characteristics:

To the family: only be good to the family, not to be a warm man for everyone, to the society: have a proper job of your own, maintain curiosity and learning mentality.

Socially sensitive: Have a proper job, be curious and learn. Concerned about national affairs, have the ability to empathize, and have their own judgment on the basic rights and wrongs of good and evil.

Does he have an independent sense of self, the ability to make judgments and decisions independently, the ability to take on problems, and the ability to take responsibility for himself (including his own words and deeds, choices and life, etc.).)。

So you need to take the time to get to know him, for example, to understand what setbacks and difficulties he has encountered in his life, and to gain and grow from them.

I think the standard for measuring a man is the way he loves you, because in love, if he loves you with action, then it means that the man really loves you, but if he just talks but has no ability to act, then such a man, I think it is better not to have more contact with him! When a man who treats you with practical actions, he is full of love because he knows that he is creating a happy home for this woman!

Just like my husband, he always talks and does what he does! When I went to work before, because the weather was bad, he didn't go to work, so he drove me directly, and when he got off work in the afternoon, he told me that because he was running Didi, he might not be able to go back for a while, so I either took a taxi, or just wait for him, and go back later! I said you know I'm about to get off work and why I deliberately took this list, he smiled and sent me a **!

When I opened **, I saw that it was downstairs in our company, I was really angry and anxious, and I started to hit him as soon as I got in the car, but it was also gentle; I said why lie to me, and he said that at all times I want you to know that I will not leave you alone, no matter how busy I am! is such a man, he gave me all his love, including our son, he is also the same attentive companion, do you say such a man is a good man?

And what is the measure of a good man is how he treats your family? If a man is particularly disgusted with your family, even on some big things, he is too lazy, and even does not want you to have more contact with his family, but still asks you to maintain a true relationship with his family and relatives, do you think he is a good man? When girls choose men, they must see these two points clearly!

What is the measure of a man? It is said that you want to be a real man, but every man has his own way of doing it, but he still needs to meet the following standards.

The first is to be responsible and responsible, a man with the good qualities of these two people will make people worthy of trust, and others will have enough security with him, and will have the courage to go to the rest of your life with you.

The second is kindness and compassion. Because only on the basis of kindness can we treat others gently, know how to consider problems from the other party's point of view, and make decisions that make people feel warm.

The second is dedication, enterprising men can have the strength and courage to struggle, so as to maintain a good economic foundation in the future life, so that the other party believes that you can provide a good life security, and the future road will be decal, not worse.

Then there is a principle, know what to do and what not to do, so that the life of others with you will be stable and beautiful, instead of worrying about you.

And the most important point, that is, to have the strength of a man to really love, in which aspect, you must not fail. No one wants to be widowed at the beginning, you can only make the other person feel love by interpreting love with practical actions.

All of the above is actually not difficult to say and do, what matters is whether you have the heart to be strict with yourself.

1.Have a career and make money. The first step is to provide for a family.

2.There is judgment in the heart of the major right and wrong, and there is a firm decision-making.

3.There are sticking to the rules, but they are not rigid.

4.Delicate and gentle, no tantrums. He cares for his wife and children.

5.Have hobbies, sentiments and sustenance, raise flowers, cook, play chess...Draw drawings and be a carpenter......6.Love cleanliness and pay attention to personal image.

7.Live and learn.

Introduction: The most important thing in a man's life is not a house, not gold, not **, but a good woman; Whether or not you can meet the right woman can determine whether the man stands tall and goes far. This person may be a friend, a confidant, a lover, or your wife.

So, what does a good woman look like in the eyes of men?

Tasteful

Now people pay attention to spiritual needs, his women are not necessarily from a scholarly family, but they are thoughtful, tasteful, not vulgar and shallow, different from ordinary women, she has her own aesthetics, and has principles in dealing with the world, pays attention to the inside, men like women who can understand themselves.

Kindness

I believe that every man wants to have a kind wife, in my previous article about the character of women, there are many friends who replied why they did not mention kindness, which shows that whether we are looking for a man or a woman, kindness is the most basic requirement. Humanity is kind, but there are'People become more and more evil because of acquired factors, and once the human heart loses its basic goodness, it will become very terrible.

Gentleness

Compared with men's masculinity, women should be more feminine, and now many women exude a domineering spirit all over their bodies, do not know how to be gentle and considerate, speak viciously, and nag and complain every day, so that women are disturbed when others occasionally see them, not to mention being by your side every day. Gentleness should be a woman's nature, and such a woman is called feminine.

Hygiene

Although many men are lazy and dirty in private, and do not like to clean up and take care of themselves, they cannot tolerate their women not washing their feet and not cleaning up the house. Perhaps in their hearts, a woman is their true face, a clean and delicate woman, and she has a face when she takes it out.

Single-mindedness

Men are no less jealous than women, and they often fight for their lives, and there are many cases of two men fighting for love. A woman who really loves him will have resistance and self-control, will no longer have ambiguous or frequent contact with other men, and they will carefully handle or even eliminate men's suspicions and speculations.

Filial piety

Respecting the old and caring for the young is the most basic human nature, filial piety comes first, a woman who doesn't even know how to honor her parents and relatives can never be a good woman, how can such a woman be filial to her in-laws. However, in most cases, women are filial to their parents, and treat their in-laws with a different face, making men embarrassed by both sides, and such women will not be happy in the end.

Wise

People always need to get along with each other for a long time, a really good woman, absolutely has the wisdom beyond the average woman, can master the degree of good behavior in the world, such a woman, can easily win the heart of a man.

Grace

Feelings need to be exchanged. What the other person deliberately did for you, you also have to deliberately do something for the other person. A good woman will remember what a man has done for her, know how to pay for a man, and can make the other person immediately feel that you care about him.