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One person's attraction to another is nothing more than two aspects.
Hard value. Including external things (appearance, height, car, house, ticket, social status).
Features: Relatively constant and cannot be changed in a short period of time, for example, we cannot become millionaires overnight.
They can often be easily and quickly displayed. For example, Little Star has a Ferrari, and everyone will know if he drives it out and takes a group photo.
2.Soft value.
Including (character, humor, bravery, kindness, knowledge, masculinity, understanding of women, cultivation) inner things.
Features: It is difficult to show it quickly, and it is relatively quick to learn to get started, and you can feel it in a short time.
For example, if Xiaoxing is a very loyal and filial person, it is very difficult for a person who does not know him to observe this, and it generally needs to be driven by events.
In any case, through the analysis of hard value and soft value, we understand what attraction is, and we know that we have shortcomings.
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Cultivate yourself better.
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Proper contact with love you keeps a distance and does more things she likes
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