If you have a stiff fight with your buddy, how to deal with it

You might as well be generous and greet him first. In fact, it is normal for friends to have a little awkwardness between friends, for fear that both parties will lose face and refuse to take the initiative to admit their mistakes. Sometimes, as long as one side breaks the deadlock first, the other side is very grateful and willing to cooperate.

If you want to redeem it, it means that you still care about this brotherhood! Then no matter who is right or wrong, you can apologize first, and if he cares about this friendship, he will definitely apologize to you.

May your friendship last forever!

If it's someone you care about very much, take the initiative to ask out for a meal. If you are an ordinary friend, you can see if he is not taking the initiative and see what position he puts you in. But it depends on why it is, if it's a woman or something, you may have to choose carefully, follow your inner thoughts, don't be afraid of losing face!

Everyone said very well, men don't need mother-in-law to explain anything like women, you call a few good friends to have a meal and drink some wine, don't say anything at the dinner table, toast him with a glass of wine, and he will forgive you when he drinks. (Remember that you have a treat) is a brother's words that will naturally be understood, and there is no need to explain.

It depends on how your relationship is, if you are a good friend, you can reconcile with him.

Men should be generous, don't hold grudges, they will get better soon, and smile and grudge.

Take the initiative to speak, just joke and pass

Gentlemen don't hold grudges. Just get a few people to drink together.

Find a chance to drink, man, you won't be so stingy!

Let's go for a drink ......That's it, it's over.

Living in this world.

Except for parents. Brothers and sisters are the closest people we are, with the same blood.

Growing up together, experiencing together, love whose blood is thicker than water accompanies all life.

Siblings are blood relatives, and brotherhood and friendship are inseparable.

But in real life, there are a lot of siblings who pursue money and possessions, or for any other reason, they turn against each other and hate each other.

If this happens to you, do the following 5 things to don't let the tragedy happen again and don't let your family rest in peace.

1. Experience the "musculoskeletal relationship" between parents and children.

Family affection is an innate family affection, and family affection is a flesh-and-blood relationship.

Siblings and me.

They are the treasures of their parents' hearts, and they are the children that their parents love the most.

If you and your siblings become enemies, your parents are the hardest in the middle, let your parents enjoy their old age in peace, try to reconcile with your siblings.

2. Look down on the "impartiality" of parents to their children

As the saying goes: ten fingers are long, and even parents are sometimes unfair.

Many siblings are at odds with each other, mostly related to parental favoritism, patriarchal preference for each other, regarding education, property distribution, alimony, business inheritance, not achieving the "water bowl level", which leads to rivalry and intolerance between siblings.

If you and your siblings are also successful, don't hold grudges and blame your Li Gai parents, give understanding, and filial piety will not change.

3. Find your own reasons for everything.

No one is perfect without bare feet, and not everyone is perfect.

If you have a conflict with your siblings, don't trade everything, don't shirk responsibility, but find your own reasons, look at the problem, and stand in the other person's perspective.

If you find the cause yourself, find out the contradiction in **, the source of the problem, and then write the correct medicine, it will be written off.

Forget about complaining and get back together.

4.Keep a moderate distance and don't come and go too often.

No relationship can be too close.

Getting too close is a disaster.

Siblings and you have the same siblings, but siblings are not, and getting along will inevitably cause some dissatisfaction.

Really smart people.

After getting married, they both separated.

Keep a reasonable distance, don't come and go often, don't get along day and night, keep a certain distance from each other, and there is no conflict.

In order for the relationship to last.

5. Learn to rely on yourself and reduce the exchange of "property".

Like they say:

Brothers and sisters do not share wealth, and sisters cut off contact.

This means that between hands and feet, don't care too much about money, do math, and don't get confused.

When money is cloudy, often borrow money, do not pay off debts, earn all profits, bear losses, and one day they will become a fuse.

So on the issue of property and pecuniary interests.

Be sure to distinguish clearly to avoid falling out in the future.

Siblings are the relatives who have been with us the longest, are parents with us, and are related to our blood.

When parents grow old, siblings are the closest people.

So be sure to cherish your brothers and sisters who are staring at your sisters, and don't quarrel for financial gain and make everyone turn against each other.

No matter how much you complain and complain, you have to learn to let go.

After all, brotherhood is more important than money.

If there is a contradiction, it should be reversed in time. On the contrary, if left unchecked, small conflicts will become big things, and eventually the relationship will break down. In fact, if we want to keep our friendship, we all have to be proactive when there is a conflict.

1. Take the initiative and be sincere.

No matter what the reason, no matter whose responsibility it is, since there is a rift in the friendship, it must be repaired in time. Just waiting for the other party to come to you and apologize, and you don't have any initiative to repair, can only show that you lack sincerity in friendship. At the same time, only having superficial initiative, but lacking practical action, barely coping, or only doing false words and deeds for others to see, not only will not work, but will further damage the emotions between friends.

It is important to remember that taking the initiative to reconcile is not about weakness, but about sincerity and cherishing friendship.

2. Timely and appropriate.

Causing friendship conflicts, the other party needs a time and space to think calmly, reminisce repeatedly, and calm down. In this case, you can ask a good friend to do some coordination work, but you can't put it off again and again, and the conflict may become bigger and bigger over time.

3. Be patient.

If the other party has not yet made a better response or has not reached your ideal level, you will think that you have done your best, or even your self-esteem has been improved, and you will be angry and angry, which will make all your wishes for remedies go up in smoke, and even turn into a blessing.

Fourth, the apology should be sincere.

If you do something wrong, take the initiative to apologize to your friends, and a sincere apology will quickly cool down the tension and anger, and your friendship will continue.

Fifth, it is necessary to make corrections in a timely manner.

Apologizing can help you win your friend's forgiveness, but if you don't correct it, you can also lose your friend's friendship. Only by correcting your mistakes in a timely manner can your apology have the desired effect.

6. Tolerance and understanding of each other.

Both sides of the conflict, while responsible, rarely attack with malicious intent. Therefore, it is necessary to be able to understand and tolerate the other party's momentary actions. As the saying goes:

Take a step back and open the sky. For example, if you hurt a friend unintentionally, don't be overly concerned and linger. Because it may just be a momentary mistake for him, and he has no malice, and he doesn't want to grudge against you.

So, if you can look at it with a high profile, the contradiction will be easily resolved.

7. Don't rehash the old thing.

After a fight with a friend, don't dwell on it, don't keep talking about it, and don't always bring it up to the old thing, hoping for mutual understanding, because it will easily open up the wound that has just healed. At this time, if you can downplay the previous unpleasantness and find some common topics artistically, after a long time, the reconstruction of the relationship between the two parties will be a matter of course.

8. Take the initiative to show goodwill.

Some people are often reluctant to take the initiative to interact with each other because of negative anger after falling out with friends, one is to take care of their own face, and the other is to worry that the other party will not accept it and be embarrassed. In fact, as long as the opportunity is grasped well, the unhappiness between the two sides can be easily resolved. For example, when the other person is sick, take the initiative to visit; When the other party is in trouble, take the initiative to come over and help.

First of all, you must remain calm, then distinguish what the reason is, and have the courage to admit your mistakes, even if you suffer a loss.

Everything is easy to talk about between brothers, apologize, admit mistakes, have a drink, and everything will be fine, and this may still be a topic of conversation at the wine table in the future. Brothers are more tolerant and more compromised, there is nothing that cannot be overcome.

Bring good brothers, drink the strongest wine, smoke the most punched cigarettes.

Have a barbecue.

Basically, if he treats you as a brother, you will be relieved.

If you want to reconcile, make an appointment to have a meal and drink and apologize.

I don't think you should have reconciled with her.

But you can accept her invitation to hang out with the 8th.

After all, you're not wrong. So there's no need for you to show weakness to her.

Go,-- and be sure to go, go openly, dress up beautifully.

I don't know why you two were together in the first place, but you said that she has a very strong temper and always asks you to accommodate her, and I think you seem to have regretted it a little.

Friends should understand each other and tolerate each other, if you are the only one who blindly accommodates her, then your heart will definitely be unbalanced.

Even if you reconcile this time, you will definitely be stiff again because of the imbalance in your heart.

I think this friend of yours is really shameless to say.

obviously doesn't like that boy, and accepts that boy's kindness to her with peace of mind--- anyway, he's a fool, free things, don't want it in vain. ”

For such a friend, I feel that it is dangerous for you to continue to be with her.

You have been together for more than 4 years, and you have always accommodated her, you must be better to her than the boy to her, she --- the boy who was so good to her to buy her food, send her home, and give her money to spend, as a "fool", so, for you, what will she treat you as?

What's more, after you ignore her, she turns around and "sells" you, which can be understood as an act of revenge--- since you ignore me, I will tell others your secret, and see if you dare to ignore me.

Such a person is very scheming, maybe you will be calculated by her if you don't pay attention.

For this kind of person, I don't think you need to continue to be friends with her.

Since she has done so many sorry things for you, do you think it is really necessary for this friendship to continue?

There are so many people in the world, I am sure you can find a better and more suitable true friend than her.

It is very common for people to drift apart, quarrel or even break up with their friends after leaving school. This may be due to differences in life, work, hobbies and hobbies between the two parties after graduation, as well as the reduction of opportunities and ways of interacting with each other, resulting in the dilution or estrangement of the relationship. At the same time, it may also be due to the differences in the personalities, values or behavioral habits of both parties, which may lead to quarrels or breakdowns.

In this case, quarrels and break-ups are not a very normal way to resolve them, as they can make the relationship more strained and bad, negatively affecting the mental health and relationships of both parties. Instead, both parties should try to understand each other, find common topics and interests, and maintain communication and contact to maintain friendship and trust. If contradictions and conflicts cannot be resolved, there is also the option to end the relationship in a peaceful, rational and respectful way, rather than by attacking and blaming each other.

In general, the maintenance of friendship requires joint efforts and understanding on both sides, and needs to be based on mutual respect, trust and support. Even in the face of difficulties and conflicts, you should try to communicate and solve the problem, rather than choosing to give up the way of regret or conflict.