If I have a higher salary, is it appropriate to let my husband stay at home as a family cook?

In today's society, the family structure is not necessarily the male protagonist and the female protagonist, if the career is better as a woman, the man can also bear all the things at home, although it sounds bad, but the two people who really love each other do not care about these things. But the premise is that as a man, he accepts it willingly, not passivelyMany men are machismo, believing that they do not want to be a housewife in the family, even if they earn less money.

Therefore, for the choice of such a situation, put the initiative in the hands of the manIf the salary is relatively high, as a woman, you can hire a nanny for the family, and the man also works normally outside, so don't be out of touch with society for a long time, which will only change a person's personality. The same is true for women, don't think that a woman should be a housewife after giving birth to a baby, this is a gamble.

When a man achieves a brilliant career and they change their minds, this woman will lose completely, because you are already old, and once again you are not qualified for the most basic job in the face of society, and you have no social skills and friends, so as a woman, you must also have your own career, which has no impact on the family itself.

I personally have a little bit of machismo, not to mention letting me do these chores at home, even if I don't earn as much as my wife, I feel very uncomfortable, which is also a motivation for me to work hard, and I have been working hard for my career. If a woman shows too much of a strong side in life, it will affect your relationship and make the man have a sense of escape, and a good relationship needs two people to manage and maintain together.

If you have a high salary, then your husband is not suitable to be a housewife at home, you think that every man's self-esteem is very strong, and it is very uncomfortable for a woman to earn money to support him outside.

I feel that according to your own family situation, if your husband is willing to be at home, then you can let him be a family cook at home, if your husband also has his own career, then it is a bit inappropriate to let him be at home?

Whether or not this is appropriate depends on how you both feel. Husband and wife get along, there are not too many principles and reasons, and there is no need to care too much about what others say, as long as it is based on respect and loyalty, and both of them feel harmonious.

Two people should arrange family affairs reasonably, if the other party is willing, it is okay! As long as it can give the family a good direction of development. However, communication between two people is particularly important.

I don't think it's appropriate, it's better to hire a nanny, after all, he can't do this all the time, and if he goes on like this, his motivation is getting lower and lower. The gap between me and you is also getting bigger and bigger, which is not conducive to harmonious development.