How do I face life, how do I face my life?

There are three realms in life, and these three realms can be illustrated by a language full of Zen machines, which is:

Look at the mountains are mountains, and see the water is water;

Look at the mountains are not mountains, and look at the water is not water;

Look at the mountain or the mountain. Look at the water or the water.

That is to say, a person is pure and flawless at the beginning of his life, when he first knows the world, everything is fresh, what his eyes see is what he sees, and when people tell him that it is a mountain, he knows the mountain; Tell him it's water, and he knows water.

As I grew older and experienced more and more things in the world, I discovered the problems of this world. There are more and more problems in this world, more and more complex, often black and white are reversed, right and wrong are confused, unreasonable travel all over the world, it is difficult to move an inch with reason, good people have no good reward, and evil people live for thousands of years. At this stage, people are angry, unfair, worried, questioning, vigilant, and complex.

People don't want to believe anything easily. At this time, people look at the mountains and sigh, and sigh when they see the water. Mountains are no longer simply mountains, and water is no longer simply water.

Everything is the carrier of people's subjective will, the so-called "good wind with strength, send me to the clouds". If a person stays at this stage of his life, he will suffer this life. People will look at the mountain and look at the mountain, keep climbing, be competitive, compare with others, how to be a person, how to behave in the world, rack their brains, exhaust their organs, and never end and be satisfied.

Because this world is originally a circle, there are people outside the people, there are still heavens outside the sky, the cycle goes on and on, and the green water flows forever. And human life is short and finite, can you go to the eternal and infinite?

Many people reach the end of their lives when they reach the second state of life. Pursue a lifetime of hard work, a life of arrogance, and finally find that you have not achieved your ideals, so you hold a grudge for life. However, some people, through their own practice, have finally raised themselves to the third realm of life.

The mouth suddenly opened, and it returned to nature. At this time, people will concentrate on what they should do and will not have any problems with others. Let your red dust roll, I will be clear from the breeze and the moon.

In the face of complicated and worldly things, laugh at it, and understand what's wrong, at this time, people look at mountains and mountains, and water and water. Exactly: people are human beings, and they don't have to be deliberate to be human beings; The world is the world, and there is no need to deal with the world carefully; That is the real life and life.

Search for Yangguan mentality, this is a very good book...

Dear friends. Don't worry about the fate of life Everyone will have this or that life troubles Find a confidant who loves you to face your ups and downs in the future, you have to remember that suffering losses, being deceived, even if it is your ordinary fall, is the most valuable experience in your life

What you have to do is accept all of this, cheerful acceptance, generous tolerance, fraternity, even the most painful thing.

Like listening to Henghui's story, don't take it too seriously. Everyone's opportunities, circumstances, and overall popularity are different, and the main thing is that the historical environment and social system are different.

Look at everything around you with an optimistic thing, people who laugh at you, people who don't love you, you can first take the initiative to show your friendliness and ask for answers, with a tolerant and generous mind to forgive those people, friends like the new and hate the old, you can cherish them well, be good to them, they will naturally cherish your rent and defeat

You don't need to be a character in someone else's life, you can find good friends to chat and communicate more when you are bored and depressed, you don't like others laughing at you, you can turn a blind eye, you don't need revenge, revenge will only bring more harm!

I hope you have a good mood to do your own thing, don't care about other people's eyes, don't care about other people's ridicule, just be yourself! In fact, there is no need to pretend to be crazy and stupid to escape reality, escaping will only make you more lonely and lonely.

So, isn't it a lifetime? If that is the case, why do we choose to be unhappy or burdened? Is that right?

For man does not live for himself alone. Everyone has a series of groups such as relatives, friends, etc. People have to take into account the thoughts of the people around them.

Everyone is responsible! Living is not just about living, how to live, what kind of way to live? Once the material needs are satisfied, can the spiritual needs be satisfied?

So people have a certain amount of pressure. The double pressure of the outside world, its own body. That's why people feel tired!

In fact, people can not be so tired, it depends on how you look at your life? In fact, there is a lot of fun in life, but your tired body doesn't want to feel it. Have more interest and curiosity to discover the bits and pieces of life!

Really enjoy life and you will find that life is beautiful. People won't be so tired.

There are not so many things in the world that are inevitable because of accident, the plan is in people, the success is in heaven, and things are man-made!

So much to the point. You should work harder to face life. Even a storm is a necessary part of your life!

May you shine every day! Happy and healthy :)