What should I do if I chase a girl for 5 years and have no results

Updated on society 2024-06-24
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    She treats you as a friend, the kind that is very ambiguous, girl, she always wants more people to hurt.

    But I don't have that kind of heartbeat for you, but I'm afraid of losing your care. You still have hope, and it's the best way to keep it silent, and if she really doesn't like you, she can't force it, right?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's been 5 years, even if it's moved, it should be moved, women's love can be cultivated, but what women value most is feeling, I'm also a girl, and I have people like you around me, but I can only say that that person will always be my friend, maybe one day I will be hurt by a certain man and throw into the arms of someone waiting for me, but is that love? As the girl you like says, 'If you want to be with me before', as for the feeling of separation, I think she doesn't want to lose your friend or leave a way out for her feelings, maybe it hurts your heart, but reality is reality, women are emotional animals, there is no reason in terms of feelings, and I hope you have a good result, and you can see that you are sincere.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Or continue to do what you have to do, don't care how much you pay, or contact her as a friend, she won't be disgusted! Hold on to it for a long time!! It is still necessary to make a deliberate parting at a certain time

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    First of all, as a man, from your persistence, you can see that you are a good person, and I originally wanted to describe it as excellent.

    Yes, he is a good man, and his single-mindedness and perseverance in love make me admire a lot, but, buddy, will it be a little too much, after all, 5 years is not a short time, I believe that during this period, you have also made a lot of efforts, I think you should let go, don't let your love become a burden,

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    She doesn't love you, let it go. She just made a common mistake of women, and she obviously didn't love you and wanted to occupy you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is no hope. It's the truth.

    Or she wants to be friends with you, but you don't, so you may end up being a stranger.

    Be friends.!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    One word "flash", two words "flash", three words "flash flash".

    Dude, she will use you again, shabu you! Take advantage of you! After you've been five years, you're really good enough. I'm really speechless...

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If someone loves her more than you do, she can be happier, so why have to get him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What kind of thoughts do you have, it's a pig's head! Insulted and feel like the dawn, you are simply hopeless! ~~

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Get her "heart" and know the way, right?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower?

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Thank you! First of all, we must clearly understand that love is a state that cannot be forced. If the girl you are pursuing has explicitly rejected you, then you should respect her choice, stop dwelling, and let go of the obsession and emotions of rolling on her own.

    Second, if you feel that there is still a chance, you can try to find the reason in yourself. Maybe you didn't show enough charm or attractiveness, maybe you didn't build enough empathy and tacit understanding with her, or maybe you didn't confess to her at the right time and place. Therefore, you need to reflect on yourself, constantly improve your attractiveness and cultivation, completely let go of the obsession in your heart, and give yourself more opportunities.

    Finally, if you really like her, think about her, not just for your own satisfaction. Maybe she already has a boyfriend, or she doesn't want to be distracted by a relationship, or maybe she has other troubles and worries. Whatever the reason, you should respect her feelings and choices, continue to connect with her as a friend, and give her the support and care she needs.

    In short, love is not the only one, and sometimes what you are after may not be the best for you. So, let go of the obsession and stubbornness in your heart, keep yourself first, and maybe at some point in the future, you will meet someone who is more suitable for you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, 90% of love is love at first sight, or it will be clear within 3 months, the reason why you can't catch up after 2-3 years, I think you are **, if you go to confess, she rejected you. Or maybe this girl says to you, I don't like you! Do you just give up, because you already know the outcome?

    But I guess you didn't confess, and she didn't explicitly refuse you, so you always feel that you have hope, which is a bit like ** fraud, first tell you that you won the lottery, let you pay the courier fee, the money is not much, you pay, and then let you pay what taxes, labor fees, all kinds of fees, because you paid the first money, if you don't pay the money later, the first money will be gone, so, you will fall deeper and deeper!

    Obviously, this girl gave you hope, and didn't make you desperate, and you invested in her again, you fell deeper and deeper, and you couldn't extricate yourself, and began to deceive yourself, always deceiving yourself This girl Yuan Yu likes my hail finger roll, as long as I'm working hard at 1 point, she will agree to be my girlfriend, but as a result, you are being used, big brother, you are actually just a spare tire, when you need you, let you send a warm, when you don't need you, kick you away, and suddenly one day notify you that you are married, go to the ceremony, Do you go or not?

    So, how long can it take to chase 1 girl, I think 3 months is enough, if it's me, 3 dates If you haven't reached an intimate boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, I won't give her a chance, after all, there are so many women, why hang yourself on a tree!

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