My mother in law has cancer, which has dragged down the whole family, what should I do?

Updated on healthy 2024-06-24
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The first other party's parents are their own parents, parents do not think that the child is a burden when he is young, then the child must overcome it when the parents are old and in need, and the filial child always wants to do his best to save it when the parents are sick, but it is impossible to smash the pot and sell iron, and the parents generally will not want the child to make such a big sacrifice, many times the child wants to make an effort, at least when the parents leave, there are fewer regrets. Only by sharing weal and woe can we be sincere. Now the difficulties are only temporary, there is hope for people to live, and it is good that you exchange your generosity for the respect of your husband.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Upstairs, don't fool people, you have to spend money to see a doctor, and you don't have money. If you are worried about money, you will not be given medical treatment, and if you really have no money, you can buy delicious food for your parents-in-law! Besides, there is no more money for cancer.

    It can't be cured, except for a few people. Just eat and drink well. Condolences change.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Go to the temple to play Buddha seven, sincerely repent, many people are cured of this disease, remember to at least pay for what you eat, don't owe money to the temple, this doesn't cost much, and it can really cure the disease, you have to repent of your past mistakes will be good quickly.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    1. First of all, the daughter-in-law should be more filial to her mother-in-law and take care of her mother-in-law's diet and daily life.

    2. The second is to stay with your mother-in-law more, so that your mother-in-law can maintain a good attitude towards the condition.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can force her to go, give her hope of life, tell her that now that medicine is advanced, maybe she can be cured, and don't give up the hope of life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can communicate with her, trick her into going to the hospital first, and tell her that the medical expenses are not expensive, and you can use medical insurance to reimburse a lot, and it is also very cheap.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If the cancer has reached an advanced stage and there is no possibility of using money, then you can give the money to the old man and let him spend it as much as he wants and do what he wants in the rest of the time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think you should tell your mother-in-law that the reimbursement rate of the state is very large now, even if you go to the hospital**, it won't cost too much, and everyone is looking forward to your appearance**.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are eight large jujubes and ten small ones (a total of eight auspicious grains).

    One leaf of the iron tree, one or two half-branched lotus, and the key is rotten.

    Two taels of white-flowered snake tongue grass.

    Dosage: The four flavors of medicine can be decocted twice in one dose, the first time it uses about 15 bowls of water to fry for two hours, and the second time it uses about 10 bowls of water to fry for two hours, and then pour the medicinal soup day and night as a tea.

    Description: 1. The drug is mainly used to treat various cancers According to the results of administration, it has been ** intestinal cancer, liver cancer, uterine cancer, stomach cancer, etc., except for breast cancer, other cancers have good effects, especially intestinal cancer, only after four to six hours of abnormal effect

    2. Usually decoction once a month, because the medicinal properties of the medicine on the viscera of heat, hemorrhoids, hot cough and other symptoms, after taking it have a real effect and can be thorough**.

    3. Note that half a lotus, cool and non-toxic, is a sewage herb, can not drink boiling water after taking it, for fear that it dilutes the effect, if the cancer three flowers (that is, the surface can be seen rotten), you can mash the fresh herbs that have just grown to take its juice, apply the residue to the affected area, the juice is heated with water and boiled as tea to drink, this medicine is not divided into men and women, young and old, take three to four months, can be completely healed, after taking the urine and urine there is thick blood discharge, which reflects the poison, after the removal of the stop, can avoid suspicion.

    Fourth, this party is a prisoner confessed three days before the execution, for fear of being lost after death, so far, there are countless people, is a great accumulation of virtue to save people!

    Hope it works!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm going to give all my possessions to save her, and I don't want to have regrets in my heart.

    The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a difficult point in family relationships, but when my mother-in-law is seriously ill, I think I am willing to give all my belongings to save her. It's not just for herself, it's for our whole family.

    Whether the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good or bad does not affect him as my husband's mother. Growing up in the company of my mother, growing up in my mother's advice, I never doubted the affection between my husband and his mother.

    When my mother-in-law was seriously ill and needed money, I think my husband must have struggled with whether to take out all his belongings. Because he doesn't want to have too much impact on our lives, but he is afraid that his life will leave too many regrets. I think as a person close to him, I won't let this entanglement linger in his heart for too long.

    I will take the initiative to bring up this matter, and I will also take the initiative to support my husband to save his mother with all his belongings. It's not just about saving one person, it's about saving the family.

    Whether you can save it is one thing, and whether you want to save it is another. When this is the case in the family, it is actually a very difficult choice. Even if you take out all your belongings, you may end up with no money and no money.

    But this does not mean that people are not saved, as a daughter-in-law, I think this decision is not in my hands. Her husband and son are still there, and it's up to them to decide whether or not to keep doing it, and I'm not going to hold back.

    In fact, for me in real life, the most important thing is that the family can be happy, even if we spend all the money now, we can always find a way in the future. But if the people are gone, everything seems to be a little meaningless.

    When it came time to make such a decision, of course, I was a little reluctant in my heart. But I don't want to face a dispute with my husband, especially in this case, and I don't want to make things worse for the family.

    Life is always faced with tangled choices, and sometimes there is only one path in front of you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I won't, because she's not worth it, she's too strong in life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, not because I'm selfish. It's because there are other people in the family who have to live and spend money.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, if you want the family to be stable, you have to treat your mother-in-law as if she were your own mother, people's hearts are flesh and blood, and if you do this, your husband will also see it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Of course, my mother-in-law treats me like her own daughter, and I believe that if I am seriously ill, she will also take out all her belongings to save me.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    My mother-in-law is seriously ill, I will take out all my belongings to save him, after all, this is a human life, and people should know how to be grateful.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think so, and that's the way it should be. Because she is your family, you should do everything you can to help her and take care of her.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Will choose to do so. My mother-in-law is very good to herself, and all I can do is to do my best to save her and not leave regrets for myself.

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