Why do you grow up and become more gentle with the world?

I don't know if you have ever encountered the kind of person who feels like he is from another place when you take the subway? It's not a personal attack, they have a big bag, and the most important thing is that they show a feeling of helplessness as soon as they enter the subway, and they keep looking at the subway route map, and the expression on their faces is also very nervous and confused.

Then I'll take the headphones off and try to have a nice smile on my face so that if they need to ask something, they can ask somebody. There have been a few times when I've been in such a situation, and then they've really asked me, and it's just some very simple questions. For example, "Isn't this station a station?" , Sister, can you help me see if I am on this train at this station? Then show me his phone. I'll always look at their questions with a smile on my face.

Because I was like this when I first came here, I had a great vision for this big city, but I was not familiar with everything. I have always believed that the world is a circle, and if you help others, others will help others with the same kind of gentleness.

Because I know more and more that it is not easy to live, and respect everyone who strives to live.

A few days ago, I ordered takeout, and my takeaway uncle handed me takeout and bent down to say to me, I wish you a happy meal. I was stunned, and I was busy bending down and saying to him, thank you, thank you, thank you, slow down. At that time, I sighed that my takeaway uncle was forty or fifty years old, and he actually bent over to talk to a girl in my 20s because of takeaway.

Everyone; Not easy.

Respect everyone who has tried to live, maybe now you see a smiling face, but you don't know what happened to him in the last second. May everyone be treated gently by the world.

When I was a teenager, I was quite angry, and I felt that only my three views were the most correct in this world. Good teacher, willing to criticize. It was cool at first, but it was sad after a long time.

It's better to be a positive person, the people around you who are coquettish and cute are happy, and you are not sad. I found that everyone around me was cute.

The older we get, the more experience we have, and the more we understand the truth of this world, it turns out that we all need the outside world to treat us gently, but we also understand that we must start from ourselves.

Because we are gentle with others, we are also gentle with the world.

If according to the normal psychological development of human beings, the more people grow up and become more gentle to the world, because with the more interpersonal communication experience, the more their own life experience, the more they have experienced the warmth and sorrow of human feelings, and the inner empathy will be stronger, especially when they meet themselves who have experienced people and things, they can better understand the feelings in them, and will treat them more gently, and at the same time, they will understand the emotions of others more and know how to be grateful, which is actually a manifestation of growth and maturity.

One night, I stayed up all night with my friends at an Internet café.

At three o'clock in the morning, I was hungry, I went out to buy food, there was no one on the street, there was only one old man making dumplings in the dim light, the winter in Shandong was very cold, I didn't like to eat dumplings, I also went to buy a bowl, and asked casually: "Uncle, why don't you close the stall on such a cold day?" ”

He touched his frozen red nose and said: The daughter-in-law is in charge of it tightly, the child does not dare to give me money, and when he is old, he lives and drags the child down, and comes out to earn food.

I became gentle because I have seen a lot of human sufferings and understood the difficulties of the world.

As you grow up and experience all kinds of bad things, you will become more and more aware of your bottom line. And the real annoyance in life is the trivial things. Since the bottom line has not been touched, it is a big thing to turn a small thing.

I found that life is full of sunshine.

When people grow up, they always lose a lot of friends. And many times it is inseparable from misunderstandings and quarrels. But since it's a friend, will Y not make trouble?

The older a person gets, the less likely it is to make friends. These little cubs around me can't lose them anymore. Bring me the forgiveness hat!

I found that it is good to have you in life.

I've heard a saying that to really grow up is to become gentle.

Abandoned the original silver fierce impetuousness and panic. I calmed my heart.

I have seen mountains, seas and rivers. It's been good and bad. Able to withstand the good and accept the bad.

You can eat some Western food in a high-end restaurant, or you can accept the smell of fireworks from roadside food stalls. You can sit in a BMW and laugh as much as you want in the back seat of your bike.

To really grow up is to become gentle with everything. We are no longer so impatient and are starting to move towards leveling.

Even though we are busy, we can go through each day with a smile on our faces.

The more things we have experienced, the more experiences we have, and the more inclusive we have. The more you live, the more you find that there are so many times when you can't do anything about it. A lot of times you don't realize that you don't have the ability to help others.

The more you live, the more you will feel that there are things that are not as important as you think. It's been more gentle.

There are many things that do not need to be argued. Look at each other and smile, he can't change your opinion, you can't change his opinion.

I have seen a lot of the world, I have experienced a lot of life, and I have experienced everything, so everything is too plain, and I don't feel anything, but I feel that the world is gentle.

You know that the world is unfair, and you know that you may not be liked by everyone. You know everything, and your heart is getting stronger again, but it's more gentle.

I have felt the indifference of this world. I have felt the powerlessness of life. I've suffered a little, I've had some injuries. On the contrary, he is more gentle with the world.

At that time, we no longer impose our own ideas on others, and we no longer have to instill our own ideas on others. We don't choose to be opposite to others because we think they are different from us. On the contrary, you can tolerate these points of his and seek common ground while reserving differences, because he is not that important.

We're starting to really care about ourselves.

really grew up, not because the world is indifferent to you, nor because the world is gentle and gentle. At all this time, you feel that you are the most important, you don't care about other people's opinions, you have a strong heart, you can do what you want to do, your mind is calm, and you are gentle with the world.

Our high school Chinese teacher once asked us, "What is the real growth up?" ”

"To grow up is to be gentle, to be gentle to the whole world," he said. ”

So what does it mean to be gentle? When I saw a scene on the bus today, I suddenly understood the feeling of tenderness.

An old man got on the bus tremblingly, and the driver waited for the old man to stand firm, then slowed down and started the car.

It was actually a very small gesture, but I felt the gentleness of the driver.

At that moment, I thought of a lot of images:

I saw a hot search on Weibo, a 4-year-old girl danced at the nucleic acid testing site to thank the medical staff, which is the gentleness of human cubs.

When the temperature plummeted, a friend suddenly sent me a message saying, "I bought you a foot warmer artifact and slippers, I hope you have a warm winter." "It's tenderness from a friend.

My colleague saw that there were a lot of stray cats downstairs, bought cat food, and ran down to feed the cats every night, which was the gentleness of my colleagues who love cats.

When I was sad, I heard the song that pierced my heart, and I felt understood and comforted, which was the gentleness of **.

When you are confused, you can see the book that guides you and regain your strength, which is the tenderness that comes from books.

The loyal dog's eight-kilometer dog has been waiting for the return of its owner, and the gentleness of the dog is bright at this time.

There are many small scenes in life, and as long as you pay a little attention, you can feel the tenderness of this world.

When I think of this, my heart is very soft.

I also hope that I can become the one who makes others feel tender.

Because as you grow older, you will understand that the world is actually very gentle with you, so you will be gentle with this world.

As I get older, my heart is getting softer and softer, I used to hate a lot of things, I couldn't get used to seeing a lot of systems, but as I slowly became sensible, I found that everyone will have things that they can't help themselves, and everyone will have unspeakable sadness. The world has been gentle with me, so I have to learn to be gentle with the world.

If we were all gentler with the world, the world would be a lot gentler.

After treating many things with heart, you will receive the same reward, you smile at it, it smiles at you, you cry at it, it cries at you, so it is right to be gentle with the world, you will also be gentle, smile at strangers, and you will find that when you are sad, strangers passing by are also silently smiling at you.

Therefore, the more you grow up, the more gentle you become, and I hope you will also be a gentle person.

I also agree with this sentence, maybe the more I grow up, the more gentle my view of the world becomes.

When we were kids, we always saw some righteous people on TV, so we wanted to be righteous people from a young age. We are cynical about the injustice of society, and we are constantly criticizing. When we see the unfair things around us, we will not hesitate to stand up and accuse and protect them.

This is because of the enthusiasm of young people, who have not experienced the pain of life, and whose edges and corners have not been smoothed. But when we grow up, we understand the helplessness of social injustice, and we understand that no matter what we do, we will not change. And when we grow up, we have more and more responsibilities, so we can't stand up bravely.

This is also a kind of helplessness.

The more you grow up, the harder you work, the luckier you get, the luckier you get, the luckier you are, so you feel like you're being treated gently by the world. I remember one time, I ordered a takeaway online, but I had something in my hand at the time, and the takeaway brother called me **, and I didn't hear it when I called for the first time, and the takeaway brother called again, and after answering, he said to the little brother that he could wait for me for a few minutes? The little brother happily agreed, but when I went out, the little brother had been waiting outside for fifteen minutes, and I felt very sorry at the time, so I gave the cup of hot milk I ordered in my hand to the takeaway brother, and the little brother was embarrassed to ask for it, I said it's okay, you can take it, but the little brother said, the customer is God, and he didn't want it, and I felt it at the time, it was really heartwarming.

When I was a child, I was ignorant and fearless, and when I was a teenager, I always felt that I could do anything, just like many people said that I was young and frivolous, and gradually grew up, experienced too many people and things, and the edges and corners of my body were almost polished, and I was sleek and sophisticated, and gradually treated others with a gentle and gentle attitude, which can be regarded as a state of growing up.

When I was young, I always felt that the world was unfair to me and hated the arrangement of fate. But as I grew older, I found that the world is the same for everyone, and the most important thing is that I have to work hard to make myself stronger, not complain about the world, so when I grow up, I feel that I am still too ignorant and frivolous before!

Because when people grow up, they have experienced a lot and know a lot. Slowly, I don't have so many requirements for this world, and I am becoming more and more gentle with this world. I used to be angry at the injustice of this world, but as time went by, I grew older, and I slowly accepted everything in this world and discovered a lot of beautiful things.

Because of understanding, so forgiving. Because we understand, we are compassionate.

As you grow and your experience increases, you will meet many people and encounter many things in the future. You will see those who are treacherous and selfish, living a chic and free life, and their life is like a rainbow. Those who are sincere, down-to-earth, and conscientious live a miserable and miserable life.

This sentence is wrong, in fact, it is not that people grow up and become gentle, but that people will feel helpless after they grow up and understand more!

can only say helplessness to the world, not gentleness! Sometimes you can't change your temper and it's useless, you can only be obedient, which is the so-called gentleness.

The older a person gets, the longer he spends time in this world, and of course the more he or she knows about the world.

Therefore, the feelings for this world will become heavier and heavier. Naturally, they will pay more and more attention to the world. Naturally, it will become more and more nostalgic for the world, more and more gentle, of course, it is understandable.

The premise is that you can think openly, and some people are more fierce and irritable the bigger they are. If someone suffers, they don't want others to suffer, and if someone suffers, everyone has to suffer.

Aren't they all worn away by the ups and downs of this world? I'm round, can I not be gentle?

Because the older you are, the more you know, and you know that there are many things that you don't need to worry about, so you will naturally be gentle.

The more you grow up and have more experiences, the better you can control your emotions, and the better your emotions will be for people and things.

Some people will change their personality when they grow up, and they will become more gentle with everyone, but some people just can't change their nature, and they will always be so frizzy.

Because you have to compromise with this society, after all, it's reality.

I don't think it's that the more you grow up, the more gentle you become, but the more you grow up, the more helpless you become, because when you grow up, you can't lose your temper, and it's useless to lose your temper, because the troubles of growing up are never as simple as dropping a lollipop, and there is no way to do it except for ninjas, and you can't change it, but it's not getting more and more gentle.