What are the manifestations of using you as a spare tire, and how can you avoid it?

It's just that I can clearly feel that he doesn't care about me that much, and I think it's better not to be a spare tire if I have a little bit of self-esteem.

I am hot and cold, and the relationship is ambiguous, we should find out such a situation in time and dissociate ourselves from him.

The girl used me as a spare tire to just spend my money with me, but not emotionally with me, and asked me to do a lot of things for him, but he didn't do anything for me.

It's to treat a person who is hot and cold and then thinks you are dispensable, and you will feel that she treats you as a spare tire.

I think I'll talk to you about everything, and I'll talk to you often, but I'm never with you.

I feel very angry, so we must not have a good relationship with a girl who has a boyfriend.

If she uses you as a spare tire, he will ignore you for a while, and he will be cold and warm.

At this time, you should choose to refuse, you should separate from the other party, and being a spare tire in a relationship will not end well. First of all, you should look at the character of the other party, see if there are other people of the opposite sex around the other party, and when two people get along, they should tell each other in advance that they should not be a spare tire, so as to avoid becoming a spare tire.

When encountering this situation, you should decisively refuse, don't continue, and don't let yourself be hurt; You should continue to improve yourself, and when your ability reaches a certain level, it is impossible to become a spare tire anymore.

You can choose to stay away and understand the relationship status of the other person, if the other person already has someone you like, there is no need to continue.

In fact, being a spare tire is the same as being a junior (whether a man or a woman), I hope that I can really enter the other party's heart and completely occupy the other party's inner emotions.

Of course, there is a difference between the two, the junior didn't plan to enter the house at the beginning, but just planned to live a happy day; The spare tire is different, first of all, I don't know that it is someone else's spare tire, and the junior knows his situation from the beginning, which is the sadness of the spare tire. At the beginning, the spare tire thought that he wanted to live with the other party for the rest of his life, and decided that the other party was the person he was looking for, until the appearance of another person, he knew that he was just a spare tire.

There are no more than two reasons for the spare tire to be abandoned, one is that it feels inappropriate, such as personality incompatibility, and many reasons to break up, in fact, there is a new love, which is a breakup of liking the new and hating the old; One is that the old love is looking back, and the past emotions can't be gone, in fact, the previous relationship has been missing, and the current person is just filling the gap of a recent relationship, such a person is the most hateful.

Xiao Chen is such a girl, thinking that she has found true love, until one day, her boyfriend's ex-girlfriend comes back, and she realizes that she is just a spare tire. The ex-girlfriend threw himself into his arms, of course the boyfriend accepted it happily, and we can all think of the reasons for breaking up with Xiao Chen, such as what two people are not suitable, and they can't forget each other, they feel sorry for each other, and they have hurt each other in the past.

How to avoid becoming someone else's emotional spare tire, this is what many people want to know, it is indeed a little difficult to say, but it can also be avoided. For example, when the other party just broke up, don't love each other at this time, a person who has just broken up needs another person to fill the feelings, and your joining just happens to win the other party's heart. Even so, it doesn't matter, if you are stronger than your ex, then the possibility of you becoming a spare tire is very low, if you are not as good as the other party, and they always compare you with your ex, then the relationship will not last long, and they should be separated as soon as possible.

For another example, the other party has not been in love, or has not been in love recently, a lonely person, encountering a relationship will definitely ignite a spark, even if you are not the person the other party particularly wants to find, it doesn't matter, this time is acceptable anyway, and it is not too late to kick you away when you meet it one day. This kind of relationship is the most dangerous, because it is difficult to see the other person's thief face.

In fact, it is really difficult to avoid being the emotional spare tire of the other person, even if you are a very smart person, because the next person may be smarter than you.

What if a guy uses you like a spare tire?

Get to know with your friends. If you are very interested in a certain person, then you can use his friends to understand the basic situation by yourself, and don't be a spare tire for some reason.

If you don't want to be a spare tire, you have to get to know your boyfriend and never take his word for ......

Be yourself and be passionate about your friends, especially your lover.

Find a spare tire to avoid becoming a spare tire.

Elevate yourself and make yourself good.

The first: to understand that there is no one who is the only one.

Men don't want to become a woman's spare tire, so men must understand that there is no one who is the only one, so when a man pursues a girl, he must pay attention to the girl's attitude towards you. If you don't want to be used as a spare tire, then the man must know how the girl reacts to your pursuit. When some girls use you as a spare tire, they think that they won't respond much to you when you pursue her.

Girls will only look for you when they need you the most, so when a man pursues a girl, he finds that if the girl is always absent-minded when chatting with you, and replying to your questions is perfunctory, then the man should stop pursuing such a girl, because such a girl is actually using you as a spare tire.

Second: refuse to pay unilaterally.

When a man pursues a girl, he must refuse to pay unilaterally, and he doesn't want to be used as a spare tire by a woman, so a man must know that the relationship is between two people. If you are always alone in this love, and the girl does not have much in return for your efforts, then such a girl is actually there you as a spare tire. Men don't want to be used as a spare tire, so men must know that when pursuing girls, don't blindly pay for themselves.

Only if the girl reciprocates your efforts, then your love will blossom and bear fruit. Men must not always pay unilaterally by themselves, if you want a woman to agree to your pursuit of a man, you must let the girl know that you are good, so that you will not be used as a spare tire.

The third: self-improvement.

When a man pursues a girl, if his education level is particularly low, the man must improve himself. Some people don't like to learn, they feel that learning doesn't give them much reward. In fact, this kind of thinking is wrong, a person living in the world is always racing against others.

If you lose at the starting line, then you are also the last one when you pursue girls. In this way, you can only pursue the rest of the women that others pick. Therefore, when a man pursues a girl, he must improve himself and raise his own level.