Let s talk about why some women can t forget their first love and ex?

The reason why I can't forget my first love is because I haven't completely let go of this relationship. It is also impossible to forget, because, unless there is amnesia, the memory cannot be erased. I often think, perhaps, that in her heart, she never thought of really forgetting.

Even, still want to be together. All of this is preventing her from forgetting and letting go of this relationship. It's just because her heart doesn't want this.

There is a Zeignick memory effect in psychology. It means that "people are born with a drive to do things from beginning to end, and the reason why people forget the work they have done is because the motivation to get it done has been satisfied; If the work is not yet done, this same motivation impresses him". Wanting to grow old with each other is an idea that most people who have a first love.

The first love that culminates in a breakup is an unfinished, terminated event. Although it didn't work out, it can have a deep impact on our future love behavior. That's why it's hard to forget your first love.

On the other hand, first love is an experimental relationship, and many firsts happen at this time, which means that in the process of love, everything is new. All of this deepens our memories of our first love. It's normal to not be able to forget your first love, and most of the reason why you can't extricate yourself from being trapped in it is that you haven't met someone who suits you.

When she meets the right one, her first love is just a good memory.

The ex I met in high school, I was young, timid, immature, often quarreled, I was very selfish, I often hurt him, I always wanted to break up, but I couldn't stand his violent reaction, and I was afraid that something would make a big deal and I stopped, I once thought that I had never loved him. I went to college and naturally fell in love again, he is a mature good boy, taught me how to love, but considering the respective families and regions after graduating from college, I prepared in advance at the end of my junior year, and broke up after graduation, so that I could get together and break up. But I think back to all kinds of experiences, I can't let go of the one in high school, I think I should have met him at the wrong time, if I had matured my mind at that time, I wouldn't have lost him, it's called self-inflicted, I owe him too much.

I haven't contacted him now, he hates me so much that I can't forget him, I don't know if it's guilt or loss sadness.

It's because you love deeply, or maybe it's because you're unwilling and can't let go of your former feelings, so you think about your ex all the time.

As long as she doesn't have amnesia, she will naturally not forget the bits and pieces of her ex-boyfriend, which is already part of her life experience and can't be separated. The question is what she does with this past, if she only misses the past occasionally, the subject can not make a fuss, you and her are rewriting her life every moment now. If you don't just miss and act, reconsider whether it's really appropriate to be together.

Bless you!

Unless there is amnesia. First love is like tooth decay, unable to be restored, reluctant to pull out, unable to replace a new tooth, occasionally painful, and always thinking about having a tooth decay. My daughter, two years after breaking up, just now I read his new diary word by word, and I was suddenly relieved to see that he was very good, and I was very happy to see him promoted, and you and I were poor and white when I loved you.

I've been single for two years, and there are a few good candidates around me, but I'm thinking about my first love and how I accept others.

I think since you have such thoughts, I think you should talk to your girlfriend heart-to-heart, you can openly and honestly talk to him about the aspects from which you will feel that your girlfriend can't forget your first love, maybe you can talk about your thoughts about knowing her better, you won't feel like this, of course, if you still feel that you can't see through her, and there is still no improvement after talking, you can first take a reservation and observe whether she is worth your continued love.

I have to say for people"What you can't get is the best"This sentence is sent to the subject. Seeing this question, I immediately remembered my ex, he had a first love, believe me, if you have broken up because of her first love, then don't reconcile again, because every future breakup will be because of her first love or ex.

First love is always beautiful, how can it be so easy to forget.

It's because the current one isn't as good as the one before.

In this world, no matter who it is, they actually hope that their lover is an excellent person; Standing in any place, you are better than others; But in life, not everyone can have excellent people and be with excellent people; This requires fate and conditions.

Because sometimes, if you think others are excellent, it doesn't mean that you are also an excellent person in the eyes of others; Therefore, many people will form a contrast with those who have a relationship with them in the sea of people; I always think about being with the best.

Regardless of whether a man or a woman, if you find a current one, you can't forget your ex, one reason must be that your current one is not as good as your predecessor; So in my heart, I will feel that I regret it very much; I always feel that it is a pity not to be able to be with the best people; People are afraid of comparison, and as long as there is comparison, there must be harm.

And as long as the current is not as good as the predecessor, then he will definitely not care about the current one, but in his heart, he will think about the predecessor; This kind of thing is not only for men, but also for women; Of course, it is very normal for people to go to high places.

Because the relationship between a girl and her predecessor is very deep, after all, it is a relationship, it is not so easy to forget, even if you have the next relationship, you may think of each other, but don't go to each other, this is disrespectful to the current boyfriend.

The first situation is that he may be unwilling to break up with his ex and can't forget his ex, and the second situation is that she is in love with you, to divert the attention of breaking up with your ex, or to have a good talk between the two of you, if you have an ex in your heart, then disrespect the current one.

Because she has paid too much emotion and energy to her ex, she still can't forget her ex, maybe it's not that she still loves each other, but she feels very unworthy of herself at that time, and she is unwilling to be emotionally attached to that past relationship.

Because no one is perfect, no matter how good the current one is, there are still places that are not as good as the predecessors. Besides, I was dumped by my predecessor, so I couldn't forget it, and no matter how good the current one was, it was very common to get it after all, if the current one dumped her, she couldn't forget it.

It's normal, even if a girl has a current one, she won't forget her ex, after all, it's an experience, a relationship that has been paid with sincerity, and she won't forget it.

Maybe she paid a lot for his ex, so there is no way to let go, maybe it's because he thinks his current is not as good as his predecessor, so some girls are wrong, and they can't forget their ex even if they have a current one.

Some girls can't forget their predecessors even if they have a current one, which shows that they are still very selfish, and it is still difficult for them to get out of their last relationship with such a woman.

Because the girl is a sensitive, suspicious character before February He may have some unwillingness to follow his former partner in his heart, so he will have some heart.

The main reason is that some girls pay more attention to feelings, and he is easy to forget his ex, of course, there may be other reasons.

Maybe it's because the ex gave this girl a lot of regrets, so these regrets need to be taken to make up for the girl now, so that the girl can come out of the shadow of the ex.

She may have become your girlfriend because she wanted to forget about her ex. At first, it felt like she wasn't wholeheartedly. But you still have an advantage. Because she wants to forget him, you should take this opportunity, you don't have to worry about the past but about the future.

If I didn't come out of the previous relationship, I wouldn't easily enter the next one, so that it would be unfair to the next one, disrespectful and irresponsible, my ex-boyfriend was because he was with me and still missed his ex-girlfriend, and broke up decisively.

Although some girls say that they have a current one, they can't forget their ex, they can't forget their ex, and they only think of him occasionally. It doesn't mean that he still loves him. After all, they have been in love before, and it takes time to forget.

There are some things that can't be let go, like a former boyfriend, maybe it's a thing of the past, but it's hard to forget him.

This situation should be normal, maybe his ex makes him unforgettable, and even if he has a current one, he will occasionally think of the previous boys.

I think as far as I am concerned, if I don't come out of the previous relationship, I won't easily enter the next one, so it's unfair, disrespectful and irresponsible to the next one, and my ex-boyfriend is because he still misses his ex-girlfriend with me, so he decisively broke up,

Because after all, the first love is a good ex, and the ex is also beautiful, and with trust, he will still be in love with his ex.

Some girls can't forget their ex even if they have a current one, maybe they can't forget what their ex did to him.

If you want to forget your ex, this is still more difficult, mainly because of a relationship, both people will pay, so it will definitely leave an impression in your heart.

If she really loves you, time will slowly fade everything, and you will be doubly nice to her, covering all traces of your ex.

Why do some girls can't forget their exes even if they have a current one? Because I think they still like their exes in their hearts.

Even if some girls have, they can't forget their ex now, maybe they can't forget how good their ex was to her.

There are only two reasons why you can't forget your ex: you still love him now, and you feel that you are ashamed of your ex.

1. You still have love for him now. As the saying goes, love is deep hate, only deep love will be exchanged for deep pain, will be exchanged for deep hatred, if we say that after breaking up with him, we quickly walked out of this relationship.

Then when we meet him, we will only face it calmly, not that when facing him, it will make him disturb your mind again, and make you unhappy again, your displeasure is enough to prove that you still love him very much in your heart, and how much you hate will love him.

2. You feel ashamed of your ex. And the reason for the breakup is also because of you, because when you are with you, not only do you not fulfill all the promises you made to him, but when you propose to him to break up, the damage to him will be irreparable.

So when you meet him again, or one day, you will suddenly think of him, and when you think of him, it will make your heart ache, because now you have understood what love is, but it is too late, and now you only have some guilt about this love.

A performance of still loving each other after a breakup

1. Block and delete a dragon.

This is a common behavior after a breakup, and many people will show great despair at this time. thinks that he has blocked and deleted me, and there must be no chance. But I want to tell you, if a person blocks you and deletes you after a breakup, it just proves that he still loves you.

2. Whether he will pay attention to your dynamics.

If he pays attention to your dynamics, he just can't let go of your performance. He wants to know how you're doing, if you still think of him, or if there are other people of the opposite sex around you. Because he has subconsciously regarded the opposite sex around you as a rival in love.

The person who loves you, no matter at any time, can't let go of you, and will always unintentionally reveal their reluctance and concern for you.

3. See if he still has emotions for you.

If you can touch his emotions, he will be happy, angry, sad, and sad because of some of your things and words, which means that he still cares about you, and it shows that your position in his heart is still very important. Don't look at how many heartless words he said when he broke up, don't believe it, because at this time he is also controlled by emotions, he is just venting his dissatisfaction.

Hello, happy with your question. Girls really forget about their ex, because every girl has a different attitude and feelings when facing feelings. As they grow older and more experienced, they will also have a new understanding of their feelings, become more and more emotionally mature, and become a better person.

So when she gets into another relationship or finds something happy with her in something else, she forgets about her ex. And different feelings will appear at any age, and there will be different ideas to face their feelings. While everyone is talking about their ex, it's a heavy topic because the ex is, after all, the one he loves.

The two also have fond memories. It's just that for various reasons, the sedan chair and his sails are separated, which is something that everyone doesn't want to happen. But people look forward, and some things will dissipate with the passage of time.