What seem childish but are actually very mature?

You call me to borrow ten yuan and say that I will pay it back tomorrow, and the next day you don't mention this stubble, and I will ask you after a year, and you say: Hey, this person is really stingy, isn't it just ten yuan, he can really calculate, and then he will say the same thing to others, and he has to add: I recognize money, not feelings.

But the fact is that I can calculate again, and then recognize the money, in the end, I borrowed 10 yuan from you when I only had 12 yuan, I spent the money, you took advantage, you deceived me without credit, and I became a villain.

You only like to drink plain water, but when you see that the cola is very refreshing, you add carbonic acid, and when you see that the orange juice is very sweet, you add sugar, and it is precisely because you often compare yourself with others that you want everything, so that later, you don't know what you really want. Sometimes, the happiness that others have is not for you, when you throw away those carbonic acid and saccharin, you are you, and when you lose everything, you know what you only want.

You value yourself too much and at the same time you value what others say about you. You're stupefied by the power of someone else's bluff, you start to doubt yourself, you don't express your opinion, and even if you have the foresight, you never dare to take the step you try. You are being knocked down by yourself step by step, and from the day you start making excuses for your cringe, you have begun to slowly become looked down upon by you.

Accept what can't be changed, change what can't be accepted. In fact, if you think about it carefully, you don't know if you can change it if you don't try to change it, but your ability and method are used wrongly, and it is man-made. This sentence is very negative when read carefully.

In fact, the only constant is the change itself. I think it sounds very naïve at first, but if you think about it, you can change what you can, and learn to accept what you can't, and that's what I'm using as my motto now.

When he was young, he loved to talk ruthlessly, and he often broke off with his friends and broke up with his boss. Looking back now, do you regret it? No, I can't push myself.

If you do it all over again, you will still make the same choice, but while giving up, you will remember to be more positive. You will make yourself better, so that you are qualified to make better friends and choose better jobs, instead of coldly hiding in a corner and gambling with the world alone.

Don't be afraid that a certain character will offend people, you must know that there is no kind of character in the world that can avoid offending people, those who speak straight will offend villains, those who speak tactfully will offend quick tempers, good people will offend principled people, and smooth people will offend smart people. Since you will offend people, then be yourself, do yourself well, and you will not be afraid of offending people, because you can bear the consequences.

If it is gold, it will shine, and if there is no gold digger (the person who appreciates) and the tool of the gold pan (just the right platform), in a pile of sand and gravel, there is no difference between gold and sand. At first, I thought it was boring, naïve, and had no nutrients, but when I read it carefully, I felt that it was a very good and mature sentence.

Mature people have a sense of responsibility and know how to find people who care

The maturity of adults is not easily persuaded.

The childishness of adults is always trying to convince others. ​

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I see what you mean. The description of "mature and naïve inside" gives people the impression that he looks mature on the outside, such as dressing, manners and speech, etc., which makes people think that he should also be very restrained and steady.

But in fact, the heart may be more naïve, such as easy to get excited, more emotional than rational in doing things, and may be more innocent in some aspects, in short, giving people a feeling that the inside and outside are not matched.

Long mature and naïve at heart.

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I see what you mean. The description of "long mature and naïve in heart" gives people the impression that Bi Yumin looks mature on the outside, such as dress, manners and speech, etc., which makes people feel that he should also be very introverted and stable.

But in fact, the heart may be more naïve, such as easy to get excited, more emotional than very rational in doing things, and may be more innocent in some aspects, in short, it gives people a sense of ruin that does not match the inside and outside.

This difference sometimes makes others feel that his words and deeds are a little confusing, and he doesn't quite understand his true thoughts. But it can also be part of his charisma, which makes him seem more complex and interesting.

In general, the description of "growing up and trembling and not mature and naïve at heart" is a comparative personality evaluation, implying that this person's appearance and heart are not completely in line with Halo, and there are mismatches, but it also adds some mystery to his impression.

Look how old I look.

Speak. If you are more mature in appearance and demeanor, it is easy to give the impression of being older at first sight, perhaps thinking that he is around 25 years old.

Like how big. Isn't it bad to be too mature.

Speak. People who are too mature tend to give people a sense of alienation and are difficult to get close to. Especially for people who have traveled more than the age of Tan Zhenzhen, getting along with a person who is too old can easily have a sense of generation gap, and it is impossible to find a common topic of common gain.

People who are too mature are also prone to being too rigorous, and sometimes even give the impression of being stereotyped and uninteresting.

Especially in the occasion of entertainment and relaxation, a person who is too serious can seem a little out of place and spoil the atmosphere.

Look how big I look.

It's not really easy to be sure, but it's probably between 25-30.