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Learn to give up, because some things can only be appreciated from afar, don't force them if they are not yours, and giving up is sometimes the best choice; Learn to adapt, because we still have to survive no matter what the conditions; Learn to think, because in this way you can find your own shortcomings; Learn to try, because only in this way can you understand the joys and pains of life; Learn to change, because you can't change others, only yourself; Learn to play stupid, because life is rare and confused.
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There are people like you are talking about, and that is --- fool.
The following is a quote from Dr. Yu Shiwei for you, I hope it will be helpful to you:
Life is a real university, and all you encounter are courses, some are elective, and the vast majority are compulsory. If you mistake a compulsory course for an elective, you will have to make up for it. If you study again, the tuition fee will be many times higher.
Life is a university, and we can't do without its tests for a moment, whether it's family life, getting along with people, or work, it's always testing us, but it's not in the form of a report card in front of us. We must face every lesson in life seriously, don't get tired, keep the state of mind to learn at any time, maintain inner peace, and learn all the lessons of life well in the first time.
There are some courses that are not worth credit at the time, such as suffering, frustration, etc., and you can skip classes and put it off indefinitely until one day, you find yourself at the end of the earth.
Now I know that every class in life is a compulsory course, and if you don't score points, you can only look at success, not hug her.
In life, debts are the same as debts owed to others, not only to pay back, but also to pay back interest. So, it's best not to choose to run away.
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After forgetting what you shouldn't think, having true friends and having your own love, learn to relax yourself, sleep well and let yourself have a refreshed spirit every day.
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Now you don't have anything, so you have to work hard! We can't let society adapt to us, we have to adapt to society. Listen to it when you're not happy, now the weather is warmer, rollerblading is good, find a few books you like to read, you can also learn things, and go to ...... with friendsI hope you can be happy.
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Start with the little things around you. Slowly find the confidence, thinking that as long as you decide to do things, you don't regret it, but do your best. It is up to man to plan things, and things are to be done in heaven.
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Things have to be faced no matter whether they are good or bad, why not face every day happily, maintain a positive heart, and strive for it because there is nothing.
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kenny2323 says what I want to say – only fools and madmen can be happy every day.
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Don't worry too much, don't pursue too much, don't want too much profit, and the days of contentment are very happy.
I'll give you a few pieces of advice, 1 Find a woman to fall in love 2 Find a brother together and you won't be unhappy 3 That is to drink! After drinking, I slept and every day passed.
Not happy, don't know what's wrong? Actually, you know, it's just that there may be too many reasons to not know how to express it! Find the cause and solve it one by one in order.
Some can't be solved, just rely on time to kill it, worry about this thing, you may not be able to control, but you can change our mentality, with a correct attitude to face, look down on the things, divert your attention, go out to travel, chat, hi, maybe everything!
Because I don't have to worry about food and clothing, I have time to think crankily, and it's not good to think about it.
Be nice to her and go out for a walk.
Communicate more! When you buy some melon seeds in the evening and eat together, you will find a topic, and everyone will slowly get along, depending on how you do it personally.
You are really a good wife, you can actively share your husband's worries, it's really not simple, you may complain that your husband is not capable, you not only complain, but also take the initiative to find a way for him, this is the beginning of success, as the saying goes, home and everything is prosperous, as long as you can be like-minded, there is no difficulty that can not be overcome, generally speaking, men have a good face, can not earn money, always afraid of his wife to say irresponsible things, you do not have this situation, and can fully support him to help him, and actively solve problems for him, This is the best medicine to relieve his unhappiness. We should encourage him, comfort him, and build up his determination and confidence to struggle. Life is indeed inseparable from money, without money can not live, so earning money is a practical problem that men can't avoid, but money is not something that can be earned if you want to, nor is it a problem that can be solved in a hurry, you must have the blessing of earning money, as the saying goes, blessed people don't have to be busy, unblessed people run out of intestines, there must be a life in the end, there is no force in life, so it is useless to worry about it, you husband and wife must try to accumulate more of their blessings, the blessings will increase, and life will slowly get better. There are many ways to accumulate blessings, and you can learn to do more.
In addition, as far as making money itself is concerned, don't think about eating a fat man in one bite, don't be afraid of small fights, accumulate a lot, don't earn a lot of money, earn a little money first, earn a point is a point, even if you earn less, it is stronger than sitting on a mountain and eating empty air, no accumulation of steps to thousands of miles, no accumulation of small streams to rivers and seas, and at the same time there is no need to compare, others eat delicacies from the mountains and seas, I can eat coarse tea and light rice, the same life is happy, right?
Thinking about it day and dreaming at night.
Don't be comforted, just let him calm himself down.
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First angle. Happy is a basic expression. I think that as a person living in society, if you can stay happy every day, you will have a good mood and a good career.
Of course, this is impossible. However, if there are some external factors that interfere, it is possible. On a personal level, it doesn't matter if you forget about the unhappy things and think about it from the inside.
Turn around and do something else, and your mood can change from sad to happy. This is also the attention transfer method in psychology.
Second angle. Judging by the seriousness of this matter. If it doesn't hurt you much, then we can get rid of it.
If it really hurts you, we can make the big thing small. If you face everything with understanding and tolerance, I think there should be very few things that can make you sad. If you want to be more open-minded and keep an optimistic attitude every day, your life will be more exciting.
Third angle. Looking at this thing itself, think about it carefully, what is this thing? Why did it happen?
Can I negotiate a solution? I think that if everything is solved only with words, without any force or swearing, then I think everyone can understand it. The essence of making people really unhappy is that people don't get the satisfaction they deserve, and when you think about others, you won't feel that way.
It is not easy for any person, be considerate of others, be humble everywhere, then this society will be beautiful.
The above has looked at this problem dialectically from three perspectives. Just imagine, if everyone can be happy every day, then they are willing to do anything, and they can come up with anything, then it will be easier to make their wishes come true.
Think about the problem from the perspective of others, for example, if someone else has hurt you, and this person gives you a sincere apology after the incident, then you will feel happy instantly, because this person still has you in his heart. It's often just some wonderful language.
Let the world be full of great love, then we can talk about happiness every day.
Smile is the most beautiful language in the world. It's not just an expression, it's an emotion. It is a magic weapon to bring people closer together, a sunshine for spiritual connection, and a message of cordiality and respect.
In your smile to others, you also see the world's smile on you. Smile is the most beautiful expression of human beings, and it is also the best mentality that represents human beings. And what is the warmest picture?
I think the answer is your smiley face. An optimistic and sunny smile makes you happy to face every day!
We now live in a much better era than in previous times. It's kind of fun. Many of the high-tech products that we have now.
Countless volunteers around the world help others spread love. We can be happier. In these respects alone, there is no reason for us to be unhappy.
The world needs everyone to be happy and satisfy their personal sense of gain, then the country will be stable and the world will be peaceful. Let each of us start from happiness and pass on love.
I hope that through this sharing, everyone can stay happy and let the happy expression live forever in the world.
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Do what you love. For example, I like to chase stars, and when I am in a bad mood, I look at my idol and the depression is swept away. There are many ways to be happy, find what you like, or try to divert your attention, don't always care about one thing, so that life is very tiring, and finally I wish you good health and happiness every day.
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Don't think too much about unhappy things.
Even if there are those that annoy you.
You have to be optimistic.
You have to live life in any mood.
Why don't you make yourself happy?
In fact, it is necessary to say that every day is happy.
We can all bless you.
But who really can be happy every day???
So you have to try to keep a smile on your face.
Make yourself happy when you're happy.
There was something unhappy.
It's a good solution.
You'll be happy too.
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Happiness is actually very simple, it is up to you to decide whether you want to be happy or not. Happiness is the golden key to health, and people in the world should pursue happiness. Knowing how to be happy and being good at being happy is really a kind of wisdom, a kind of bearing, and a kind of courage.
As long as we have a happy heart, everything is worth being happy. Happiness is like the snowflakes, falling from the sky, falling in the hearts of each of us, filling the ups and downs in everyone's hearts, and then turning into tinkling spring water, warming our hearts. When we truly have a happy heart, we know that happiness is so beautiful and so warm.
Happiness is sometimes like a kite flying in the sky, although sometimes you can't see it, but the thread is in your hands, it doesn't fly far, as long as you want, happiness will surround you at any time, forever.
In a person's life, after one day, there is one less day. Every time I'm unhappy, I think about it, it's okay, it's nothing, it's going to pass, it's going to be the past, and now I think about the past, isn't it a big deal, and it's not all in the past.
Happiness is also a day, pain is also a day, why not live every day happily.
Life is your own, it's all up to you how you choose. When you wake up every morning, give yourself a smile, no matter how difficult it is, there is nothing that cannot be solved.
Hope you are happy every day! Good mood every day!
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