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Introduction: Couples need to maintain a good relationship with each other, so when you quarrel with your boyfriend, although you say that there is nothing wrong, but you are still angry in your heart, how should such a situation change? Let's find out.

<> we all know that it is normal for couples to quarrel with each other, because everyone will have some more or less contradictions between them, when you have conflicts, you must talk about it, say your true thoughts, don't sulk all the time, this is not good for health. Two people must talk about everything when they are together, so you will find that sometimes you can't express what you want to express, it is a very uncomfortable thing, so since you are a very good couple, you need to tell each other things, tell each other your thoughts, so that life will be happier for a long time, not to mention, some real thoughts may make you have more contradictions, when this contradiction is stimulated, the damage value between you may become greater.

Second, emotions are heating up again

In everyday life, you will find the way of thinking of boys and girls.

It's not the same, and you will find that their ideas are also different, so proper tolerance and understanding can make your relationship better, when you have differences and different views, you have to understand each other after you have contradictions, so through some ways like this, you will find that it is better to get along. Many people are not good at expressing themselves, but it does not mean that he has no ideas, so we have to understand this person and look at his thoughts from the depths of his heart, and at this time it is more about letting him be honest with himself, so if there is a conflict between husband and wife, there may be estrangement. We can communicate more or go out for a walk, do something that the other person likes, and when you find these happy things, you can forget all your troubles, so let your emotions heat up again.

At this time, you should tell the other party exactly why you are angry, and don't hold it back, otherwise you will have a particularly serious mental illness, and the other party will not be able to guess your thoughts at all, which may lead to the relationship between the two people becoming more and more estranged.

If you encounter a problem, you should communicate with your boyfriend in a timely manner, don't have conflicts between the two, don't hold your breath in your heart, and tell each other if you have a problem or are angry, so that the other party cares about your emotions.

You can dissipate your anger in other ways, such as going out to drink milk tea, buying bags, buying clothes, buying shoes, buying lipstick, watching movies, etc., to dissipate yourself.

Maybe your boyfriend isn't very mature yet.,Won't hide his emotions.,But,If you quarrel.,Both men and women will vent their emotions.,It's just that some are more powerful.,Some will converge.。。

If your boyfriend vents his emotions when he quarrels, it means that your boyfriend has a short temper and doesn't know how to tolerate it, and it seems that your boyfriend has a bad temper.

Of course, what your boyfriend says every time you quarrel is angry and shouldn't be taken to heart.

When you quarrel, think about bai, after you quarrel this du, will there be any more people arguing with you? Think about the version of what he did for your dao, the things that moved you, and force yourself to leave the power and go out for a walk to calm down. You are very similar to my friend, he is hard to say when he quarrels, but your lover endures you once, endures you twice, they are also people, they will be sad, and they will have someone to be by their side when they are sad, and this is how my friend gave his lover to others step by step, I believe this is not the result you want to see.

Think about each other. It's okay to think more about the other person.

It's time to think about how good your boyfriend is to you! Don't go for a fight! After a long time, you get used to it.

Sounds like a lion and a golden bull. -

But no matter what, two people together must have one of them to make a compromise, when you compromise more, the other party will know that and will give back to you in the future, if there is no return, then re-examine whether their personality is compatible with you.

People who like to sulk are generally not good at expressing their emotions. And you belong to the rectum that speaks out if you don't feel good. Since you have the heart to reconcile, then when you are reconciled, don't talk about who is right and who is wrong, and don't seek peace with the attitude of hoping that the other party understands from your own position, let alone talk about big truths with it, talk about right and wrong, and fight for black and white.

On the contrary, you have to seek peace from the other party's position, the first sentence, you must first say how you make the other party angry, first say that you are not, and then stand in his position to say this matter, simple and easy to understand, just hit the nail on the head, of course, you must first know why the other party is sulking, why you will make the other party angry. If you only know that the other person makes you angry, but you don't know what the other person is angry about, then you have to think about what is wrong with you.

Give you a draft.

My dear, you know my temper, sometimes I speak directly, I don't care if I don't feel happy, don't worry about me, I'm so ignorant, I know you're not good at expressing feelings, even if you don't say it, I know you love me, let's talk calmly now, can you accommodate my shortcomings?

Starting with this, the three words "I'm sorry" are not important, the important thing is that you can understand the other party, and I'm sorry, I was wrong, just make a decision, and I hope you can explain the problem clearly, so as not to turn over the old accounts in the future, of course, in the process of making it clear, you have to back down more and admit your mistakes. If you soften, the other party won't get an inch. In the same way, I believe that your boyfriend will not get an inch, because people who are prone to sulking do not like to argue with others, in fact, they already have a theory in their own minds, and because they are not willing to communicate with others, this theory is difficult to be persuaded and broken, because you don't know what this set of theories is.

Therefore, on the premise of retreating, know its ideas and minefields, so that you can better avoid these minefields in the process of future interactions and reduce the frequency of your quarrels.

In the end, it is still the same sentence, your concession this time will be rewarded in the future. Love is a back and forth, without infinite giving from beginning to end, and whether you can see this return depends on whether you personally understand the way the other party gives back. Two people need a tacit understanding to get along.

I hope you can get along.

...Either give him a small gift or coax him!

If it's your fault, then admit your mistake to him and tell him that you will try not to make the same mistake in the future. If it's his fault, then don't be unforgiving. You can start by asking him about your lack of patience or calmness, and then tactfully suggest that he knows his mistakes and how to correct them.

See if your boyfriend is careful, be careful, and make it clear No, don't you need it, if you're not angry, can he still be angry?

At this time, you should pull down the rope and coax him.