How do you get a friend who is disappointed in you to believe in you again? 10

Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness.

True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts, and true love is to know how to cherish when you can love.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is having everything...

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless well....

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

Feel it with your heart.

There is no right and wrong in love, only suitable and inappropriate love, true love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others, but the mutual fit of each other's hearts and minds of people who love each other, in order to make each other's lives better and silently dedicated.

Consistently perform well, and the impression of you will change.

True morality has changed. As long as he sees that you have really changed. Maybe there will be a turnaround...Do more for him. Just be persistent. Always get everything you want...

Love with your heart, and there will be a day when you will be accepted.

I will be very sad and sad in my heart, but I will not tell him, I will only be alone in the corner to heal, but in the rest of my life, my trust in him may be compromised.

How many times to see, if it were me more than 3 times, I would never trust it again! Since you've done it all, why don't you adjust your mentality? There are some things to open. It's all your own tiredness and sadness. Untie the knot in your heart and face everything.

Then I may accumulate my disappointment little by little, and when the disappointment accumulates to a certain degree, I will leave the other party and let go of this relationship.

Summary. Since you are disappointed, then this friend must care, please believe in the beauty of this world, and try to think about whether he has to do this as a last resort. So, try to think about your past, your happiness, your company, or your acquaintance, friends are around, but to be honest, it's hard to go back to the past.

I've had friends of more than 10 years cheat on me, and I'm particularly disappointed, I know she's meant it for my good, but the result is really hard to accept. It's not that I don't forgive him, it's just that it's hard to go back to the way things were, so we became the most familiar strangers. At this time, we need to see whether she is worthy of continuing to be your friend, if you still care about her very much, try to give her a chance, if what she does touches your bottom line, then it can only be said that everyone is destined for this, it is better to forget each other in the world.

After all, it's hard to get back to the beginning after being hurt, so I haven't been in touch with this friend of mine for a few years, because we both know that we can't go back.

Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while Since you are disappointed, then you must care about this friend, please believe in the beauty of this world, and try to think about whether he has to do it as a last resort. So, try to think about your past, your happiness, your company, or your trembling and acquaintance, friends are around, but to be honest, it is difficult to go back to the past. I've had friends of more than 10 years cheat on me, and I'm particularly disappointed, I know she's meant it for my good, but the result is really hard to accept.

It's not that I don't forgive him, it's just that it's hard to go back to the past, so we became the most familiar strangers. At this time, we need to see whether she is worthy of continuing to be your friend, if you still care about her very much, try to give her a chance, if what she does touches your bottom line, then it can only be said that everyone is destined for this, it is better to forget each other in the world. After all, it's hard to go back to the beginning after being hurt, so this friend of mine and I haven't connected to the letter system for a few years, because we both know that we can't go back.

So the most important thing is to see the degree of disappointment, if it is very deep and hurt, then there is no need to force everyone to be like Beihe in the past, because there is a mustard in my heart, so I can't find the happiness of the former canon, it is better to be Peizi and send back the most ordinary friends.

Prove it with practical actions, remember to persevere, maybe it will take a week, a month or a year to recover. (If you really care about this friend).

If it's simpler, it's called regaining trust, and if it's more complicated, you'll have a lot to do.

There are two ways, the first is to show him, the second is to change in obscurity, but no matter which way, you sincerely change the mistake of losing trust in you, which is OK, the first is to let him find out that you are changing, and the second is imperceptible.

The two methods are completely different, you have to think about it, the first one will lead to a more serious emotional crisis if it is not done well, and if you do it well, soon your relationship will be compliant. Second, if you change slowly, you may get better again, but you may not feel like you did it again.

In the end, you can only ask your other friends who support you to persuade him, and then resolve the misunderstanding between the two of you while the iron is hot, and release the previous suspicions, otherwise the relationship will fade after a long time.

Go your own way and let others say go.

Friends are actually very sad.

Trust in friendship. First of all, you must trust the friendship between you enough, and firmly believe that the coldness of a good friend is not because he betrayed you, but because there are other objective reasons, such as being too busy to have time to contact, or the communication tools such as the ** network have no signal.

Self-reflection. If your best friend suddenly snubs you, but doesn't snub anyone else, then you need to self-reflect to see if you have offended your good friend in any way, and then apologize and communicate in time, get back together with your good friend, and be careful not to make the same mistake again in the future.

Cut to the chase. If you self-reflect and don't find that there is anything wrong with you, but your good friend only snubs you, then there may be any misunderstanding between you, you might as well ask the other party directly, spread out the words, as long as you are sincere, it is generally impossible for the other party not to confess to you.

Ask for help. If your best friend won't communicate with you, and you and your good friend have a circle of friends in common, you can turn to other friends for help, maybe you can get some bits and pieces of information from other people, and then combine them to find the truth about your good friend's cold down, and then resolve it.

Give help. No matter why a good friend doesn't contact you, as long as you don't tear your face to death, you still have to treat the other party as a good friend, take the initiative to find out where the other party needs help, and still do your best as always, so that even if the other party is misunderstood or dissatisfied with you, you will cherish your friendship again.

Do your own thing.

When your best friend doesn't contact you, you do your own thing, don't think about it all day long, and get depressed and angry about your good friend's lack of meaning. If the other person is really a friend who is not interesting enough, you just take this opportunity to get rid of him.

There is a sentence, I forgot which ancient person said it, called [The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of villains is sweet.] 】。

The meaning of this sentence: the interaction between gentlemen is as plain as water, and the interaction between villains is as intoxicating as sweet wine.

I understand the meaning of this sentence: keep a certain distance when interacting with people, and with a distance you can objectively look at his strengths and weaknesses; With distance, both sides will remain equal and respectful; With distance, you can move forward and retreat freely in your relationships.

Some people around us don't understand the benefits of keeping a distance, making friends is not the same as recognizing everything about him, so good that there is no distance, once his shortcomings are exposed, you will be very disappointed, you will immediately stay away from him, this is called fragrant three smelly four, is a child's play at home.

First of all, self-confidence is necessary. Secondly, there is a reward for paying, and the taste of disappointment is certainly not good, but if there is no dedication to friends, then there is no need to talk about disappointment or not. Then, since they are already friends, why can't they be trusted?

Are friends you can't trust still friends? Finally, be cautious about making friends, not all acquaintances can be called friends.

There are some things that a friend only needs to do once, and you will have no good feelings for them. I would like to share with you 2 short stories about what made you feel disappointed in your best friend.

1.Lies are repeated

When I was in college, I had a good relationship with Xiaojun, but I was disappointed to find out that he had lied to me.

I remember one time he said that his family was in trouble and asked me to borrow money. At that time, because of the good relationship, I lent him the money without saying a word, and he was very grateful. However, 1 month later, I heard that he gambled and often lost money, and it was then that I realized that he had cheated on me.

From then on, I was very disappointed in him and asked him for money, but he couldn't pay it back.

Between good friends, don't lie. A person who lies a lot is not worthy of your trust.

2.Tell someone else your secret

Two people are good friends, and it is inevitable that they will share intimate words with each other, and if a friend tells your secret to someone else, it will disappoint you.

When I was in school, Xiao Liu and I were friends and were often inseparable. At that time, I would often tell him about the situation at home and the things he encountered along the way. I regard him as the most confidant person, and I often talk to him about my heart.

I remember one time I told him about the bad family conditions, and he told others about it. At that time, I often saw people sympathetic to me, which was really unreasonable.

Since then, I have been very disappointed in Xiao Liu, and I no longer often tell him about family affairs.

In short, a friend who lies and tells others your secrets will disappoint you.

I amHammer

Because of a boy, he spread rumors about me behind my back and slandered me in all kinds of ways.

There was a very bloody thing that happened to me, that is, the boy that my girlfriend liked liked me. When my girlfriend told me about it in a complaining tone, I looked confused and said on the spot that I wouldn't be with that guy.

In fact, during the time that followed when the boy chased me, I did make a decisive refusal and did not accept any overtures from him. And the guy held on for two or three months, and after finding out that I was really not interesting to him, and not rejecting him because of my best friend, he gave up his plan to be with me. Of course, he didn't choose to be with my girlfriend in the end.

Naively, I thought that as long as I didn't accept that boy's pursuit, my friendship with my girlfriend would continue, and we could still get along as well as before. But a series of things that happened after that surprised me.

Not long after that incident, I met a guy I liked, and that guy also had a crush on me, and it happened that my best friend and he knew him, so we often went out to dinner and walks together.

One day, the boy I had my crush on called me out at night and told me not to bring my girlfriend with him. I thought he wanted to be alone with me, so he went alone. After arriving, the boy took out his phone and showed me the chat history between him and my girlfriend.

The content of my girlfriend's chat is all about me: I have a bad character, I have a messy communication, I have a leg with this man, I have a leg with that man, and I rob her boyfriend. Anyway, I was told that I was like a green tea, one on the surface and one on the back.

At that time, after reading it, I felt unacceptable, and immediately cried, because I am usually really good to her, and I wash everything in her clothes. But I didn't expect her to slander me like this for a man. Later, we had a big fight over this incident, and slowly the two of us broke off contact.