What is it like to be disappointed in a friend?

Because we have great hopes for others, we will feel disappointed, and the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. There will be such feelings, but the degree of disappointment will vary. Some small disappointments, many times, gradually accumulated, and finally quantitative changes caused qualitative changes, people's ability to resist the fight is very strong, after experiencing countless disappointments, finally suddenly found that they can no longer let themselves down, so finally learn to let go.

In fact, after experiencing disappointment and sadness again and again, the last way to find a way not to make yourself sad is that instead of having hope for others, it is better to learn to have hope for yourself, only you are controllable, and you will not let yourself feel disappointed.

I was very disappointed, sad, and angry, and I found all kinds of reasons for her in my heart, thinking maybe it was because of what? And why? That's why it's like this.

It's a pity that facts are facts, and there is no way to get anything to chance. It was just a small test that brought our friendship to an end. It is said that things gather by like, and people are divided by groups.

I wondered if I was friends with her and I was one of those people.

I probably didn't receive a blessing on my birthday, and I didn't have a happy birthday, which was very disappointing. Later, a friend said the next day that he had forgotten my birthday, and he wanted to make up a gift, saying that he was sending it and asked for an address, and a month had passed, and there was no movement at all, that is to say, he was very happy. Disappointments are piling up little by little.

Disappointment itself is a very sad thing to do. Disappointed, you can't help but know that he won't have a place in your heart. You have to accept it, and you have to face it with a smile. You just go with the flow, too many unnecessary explanations will only make it more embarrassing.

I thought that friends were willing to give time to each other, and sharing happiness could also soothe each other's sorrows. But often I think I've found a friend and put a lot of time and effort into it, only to find out that such a friend will only frantically claim your value and don't really care if you're happy or not. Does a two-way equal relationship really not exist, is it that I really have too high requirements for friends, or am I too lacking friends, and I take friends too seriously.

I thought I was just starting to dislike her, only to find out that I was completely disappointed in her. There is something in my heart, and it will not be her who I want to talk to, because I gradually know that I can't make friends with her, let alone tear it apart, and I know very well that we will not be able to play together again in the future. You can only become better on your own and then jump out of the circle.

"Good friends" are the kind of people who have a very good relationship and are very close to each other, and when the boy breaks off the relationship, there is an indescribable discomfort in his heart, and he feels that he has lost something important in his life.

Or maybe it's like your habits for many years have suddenly changed, even if a long time has passed, it's still hard to let go of the thought of it, and it may be the most suitable for boys to drown your sorrows with wine.

But if you are like a girl, your best friend who has played well for many years breaks off her relationship, and when no one is in love, she may unnaturally cry uncontrollably, and she can't hold it back, and find another girl who has a good time to talk about her emotions, that feeling is like losing this girlfriend is the only one in her life, and she will never meet a similar friend in the future.

Everyone has emotions, so when dealing with friends, we should learn to get along with each other, to communicate, and to respect, understand and trust each other. We should make more friends that are worth making deeply, and we should also learn to give up some meaningless friends, after all, energy is limited, and there are not many friends, but refinement.

Conclusion].As the saying goes, many friends have many paths, and who doesn't have a few friends in life。As long as we know how to behave in the world and understand each other, know how to communicate with each other to eliminate misunderstandings, and try to keep friends within the scope of our friendship, because friends are also a kind of fate, may our respective friendship circles be unbreakable!

It's a very uncomfortable feeling. Since I was a child, I have heard the adults around me say: "Children, you have to play with the children around you, don't stay at home alone every day, so you can't make friends, people, no matter what, you need friends."

I understand that when adults say such things, they don't want their children to become lonely, they want their children to have a friend to talk to, and when they are no longer around their children, they still have friends to accompany them, and the main reason is that they want their children to become lively and cheerful, so that they can go better in the future. Whatever the reason, I think people need friends, and a life with friends is a complete life, and who doesn't have one or two important friends in their life?

I have lost the most important friend in my life, not because of our conflict, but because of parting. At that time, we were still very young, she had to live in another city because of family reasons, at that time communication was not very developed, and we did not have mobile phones at a young age, so we could only rely on writing letters, and I lived in the countryside, and I needed to go to the town to receive letters, and no one would notify me to pick them up, and if I didn't go for a long time, the letters might be lost.

As I grew up, the days of returning home became longer and longer, and slowly I never received each other's letters, I don't know if the letter was dropped, or she didn't reply to my letter, in short, we cut off contact, and now we have our own mobile phone, and I don't know what number to dial to contact each other.

To this day, I often think of the days I spent with her when I was a child, it was very beautiful and down-to-earth, every time I remember, I hope that she will appear in my life one day, maybe one day, I also look forward to such a day, I don't expect us to be the same as before, but I hope we can get better and better.

Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if we hadn't lost touch, and sometimes I think, I didn't lose such a friend because she was in my memory, thinking about it and thinking about it, I would think that I didn't just lose a friend, I lost more memories with her.

For a lifetime, it is not short or short, it is not long or long, no matter how long or short, there will be friends who will appear by your side, it may be because of parting reasons, or it may be because of misunderstandings, we will always lose some friends and cannot get them back, we may be sad for a few days, and then continue with a new life without incident, just like this friend has never appeared in life.

When we lose a friend, we all have a thousand ways to deal with it, we have different mentalities, but we all lose a lot, yes, a lot, not a friend, we lose a lot of memories about ourselves, a lot of memories about ourselves and our friends' future, we lose a lot of memories of your friends.

However, when you lose a friend, the pain is like shallow water, flowing slowly, not intensely, but it will not break. It doesn't stop when you meet a new friend, but inadvertently, it suddenly comes to wrap your heart and makes you sigh helplessly in the middle of the night.

One of the best friends, it used to be in class together, to the library together, and to dinner together. There was a date after graduation, I was half an hour late, she was angry and left first, and she didn't answer her **, which made me very angry, so I didn't apologize, and she didn't contact me again. I was stingy in saying a sorry word, but I didn't expect to end up losing her.

My high school table mates tolerated all my little tempers, and even the parents on both sides liked each other very much. At that time, I thought that we would be friends for life, but who knew that after going to college, I would slowly stop contacting, and even birthday wishes would be gone. She got married last year, and I still saw it in the circle of friends, and I realized that we were so far away.

The loss of a friend is like a tree taking root, which at first seems to have little reaction on the surface, but one day it starts, and that sadness slowly grows and takes over the whole heart.

The feelings between people are really too delicate. Whether it is love or friendship, it is really lucky and happy to have such a person, who has changed from a completely unfamiliar state to a state that cares about you and puts you in his heart.

If it's still too late, make up the "I'm sorry"; If it's always there, cherish it all the time.

It's still sad to lose a good friend, whatever the reason.

We grow up and live in the work that inevitably finds that some people walk and walk away.

Some were good playmates when they were children, and when they grew up, they went their separate ways, and after a few years, because of the different lives of the two parties, they didn't have a common topic, and when they met again, they had nothing to say except for greetings.

Some are good girlfriends or good buddies who have been with them for a period of time, but they are gradually estranged with the changes in their lives. For example: getting married and having children, one party going to live in another city, etc., the relationship will slowly fade over time.

There are also because of a certain thing, or a certain sentence, one party may not have noticed the other party's feelings and emotions, and inexplicably become a familiar stranger ...... the circle of friendsIn short, we are always in our own world. People are not plants and trees, and when former good friends are drifting away from themselves, they are always a little sad.

Nalan Rongruo said: If life is only as first seen, what is the autumn wind and sad fan. In fact, it is not only about love, but also about friendship. When we first meet, we always have a similar spirit, and then we have fun and chase together, but there are always all kinds of things that separate or alienate people.

This is life – impermanence. Many times, even if you are helpless, sad, and sad, you can only accept it. Time rolls forward with everything, and many things can only be sentimental alone in the dead of night.

When I lose a good friend, the first thing I feel is that I feel very sad, because I feel that I have been with this friend for so many years, but because of one thing or some bad situation and have a bad relationship, then the end of this relationship is a kind of harm to each other, and it may hurt me even more, I will feel that all the careful thoughts that have nowhere to put before, and what I want to say is no longer someone to confide in, or I, it is difficult to find another one, Someone who can build a certain foundation of trust to communicate can be very uncomfortable at that moment.

Losing a good friend, May Day is also the loss of a trustworthy person, the end of this relationship is very difficult for individuals to accept, and even for a long time, you will feel that friendship is very fragile, and it is difficult to maintain in a relationship, not that all people can have the heart and strength to do this well.

Of course, time will dilute a certain amount of sadness, with the extension of time, the feeling of losing a good friend will slowly fade, at this time there will be different new people in life, these people can also slowly evolve from the original ordinary friends to the status of good friends, maybe the descendants will also replace the ex, of course, at a certain moment when thinking of this old friend, the heart will also cause a certain amount of uncomfortable emotions.

Losing a good friend will undoubtedly make you feel a certain limit in terms of making friends, and you will feel that you are so embarrassed? Whether you don't get the way to deal with it in a relationship, you may also reflect on your own behavior, and then when you invest in friendship below, you will correct some of your shortcomings, and you will reflect on whether your behavior will bring harm to others, of course, there will be improvements, and you may have to pay more attention to it when you maintain friendship later.

All in all, the loss of a good friend, the moment is very painful, with the extension of time, maybe this feeling will slowly fade away, there will be new friends in the later stage, it is better to rush in, but at a specific moment, thinking of a certain person, or feel very regretful, of course, I will also reflect on some of the things I did in this friendship, whether I hurt my friend, or was hurt by the other party, so when I make friends later, I must avoid such a thing, In the end, it is a reflection and progress for myself, although it is a pity, but it is not worth feeling uncomfortable for a long time, I hope that each of us can find a good friend and let ourselves relax mentally and physically.

Sometimes the loss of a good friend can feel unforgettable.

I used to have a very good friend who was also an old classmate of mine. We have been classmates in the same class for four years, because of like-mindedness, common language, plus he is very kind-hearted, loyal and honest, hard-working, hard-working and brave, so in addition to classmates, we are also the best bosom friends, help each other, make progress together, and the friendship is very deep.

Unfortunately, within a few years of graduating from high school, he suffered from pancreatic cancer, and I accompanied him from the county to the provincial capital to try to **, but in the end I couldn't save his life. He went, and he was so young, and he was so good, and he just left. I felt really heartbreaking.

His death has never been forgotten by me, even though decades have passed.

People live in the world, although there are many friends, but there are still big differences, there are general friends, there are relatively good friends, especially the kind of good friends who know each other, it is rare to have one or two in a lifetime. So when I lost such a close friend, the painful feeling is inexpressible.