Jia s mother regards Jia Baoyu as a treasure, but why doesn t she wait to see her eldest grandson Ji

The reason why Jia Mu likes Jia Baoyu.

I don't like Jia Lian.

Mainly because of the following three reasonsClause.

Second, Jia's mother prefers Jia Baoyu's fatherJia Zheng；Clause.

Third, Jia Mu thinks that Jia Lian's ability is really poor.

1. Jia Lian's own personality doesn't like Jia's mother First of all, the reason why Jia Lian doesn't like Jia's mother is actually because Jia Lian's own personality is not good. Although Jia Lian is the son-in-law of Jiafu, Jia Lian is too ostentatious, not only is he lustful on weekdays, but he always does this kind of thing blatantly, in his wife Wang Xifeng.

's birthday party actually hooked up with other women, which caused everyone in Jiafu to criticize. In addition, Jia Lian eats, drinks and has fun on weekdays, and he doesn't know how to do something serious except for enjoyment, so everyone says that Jia Lian is an out-and-out gentleman, how can Jia's mother like such a grandson?

Second, Jia's mother prefers Jia Baoyu's father Jia Zheng Secondly, the reason why Jia's mother doesn't like Jia Lian and likes Jia Baoyu is because Jia's mother herself is partial to Jia Baoyu's father Jia Zheng. Speaking of Jia's mother's partiality, it is famous, Jia Lian's father Jia Yu.

also used a joke at the banquet to insinuate Jia's mother's partiality with her younger brother Jia Zheng, and the residence that Jia's mother arranged for Jia Yu at that time was a partial house in Jia's mansion, and the housing conditions were far inferior to Jia Zheng's residence, so Jia Yu's son Jia Lian was naturally not as fond of Jia Zheng's son Jia Baoyu as Jia's mother.

Third, Jia Mu thinks that Jia Lian's ability is really poor Finally, the reason why Jia Mu doesn't like Jia Lian is actually because Jia Mu thinks Jia Lian's ability is poor. In fact, Jia Lian is really wrong to blame Jia Lian for this, because Jia Lian himself is still relatively capable of repairing the Grand View Garden.

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Jia Lian has a lot to worry about and other things, but Jia Lian's wife Wang Xifeng is too capable, and she can always please Jia's mother, with Wang Xifeng's "reference", Jia's mother will naturally feel that Jia Lian's ability is poor.

Jia Lian is not treated by Jia's mother, and there are three general reasons. One is that the roots are not right, the second is that he has a wife who overshadows him, and the third is that Jia Lian is unreliable in doing things by himself.

Because Jia Baoyu looks very similar to his grandfather Jia Daishan when he was young, Jia's mother regarded Jia Baoyu as a real treasure.

Because Jia Lian is not doing his job, he only knows how to eat, drink and have fun all day long, and he is very lascivious, and often does things that make Jiafu embarrassed, so Jia's mother naturally doesn't want to see him.

First, Jia's mother has a slight preference for Jia Zheng's children. The book says: Na Jia Zheng has been a good reader since he was a child, and he is upright, humble and kind.

But it is lost in pedantic. He was deeply influenced by Confucianism, he was filial to his mother, and he also wanted to discipline his children strictly. Such a son is naturally particularly favored; In addition, his wife, Mrs. Wang, is a well-known family, so she naturally looks at Wang and their children differently.

Second, Jia Baoyu reads more books than other boys in Jiafu and is also very smart. In this way, once the boy steps on the right path, he will naturally have a bright future. Compared with him, Jia Lian is greedy and does not do his job, Jia Huan is obscene and does not seek progress, Jia Zhu died early, and his granddaughter will marry sooner or later, so he cherishes Jia Baoyu very much.

Third, Jia Baoyu looks like her husband back then. The book says: "Daoist Zhang sighed

I saw my brother's description, words and deeds, how could he be the same as the grandfather of the country that day! "As he spoke, tears flowed from his eyes. When Jia Mu heard this, she couldn't help but have tears on her face, and said:

Exactly, I raise these sons and grandchildren, and none of them are like his grandfather, only this Yu'er is like his grandfather. Indeed, whether it is "describing the figure, talking and acting", it reminds Jia's mother of her deceased husband, which is the reason why Jia's mother dotes on Baoyu, from which it can be inferred that Jia's mother had a very deep relationship with her husband, and Jia's mother is a true temperament.

Fourth, Baoyu was holding a piece of treasure jade the size of a bird's egg in his mouth when he fell into the grass, which naturally gave Baoyu's life experience a hazy color, and at this time, Jiafu was in need of a male heir to inherit the high position, so Jia Baoyu's birth brought hope to Jia's mother and Mrs. Wang, so they loved him very much and protected him.

Fifth, of course, Baoyu is a descendant, born to Mrs. Wang, with a high status, and her background was very important in ancient times. And Jia Lian does not have this condition, and his mother is also dead, Jia Huan is the son of Aunt Zhao, and he can't stand in line. Moreover, Jiafu is not prosperous in this generation, there are not many sons of Rongguofu, Baoyu's brother died young, and Baoyu is outstanding, so Mrs. Wang and Jia's mother both take Baoyu as a treasure.

Excerpt from Zhejiang**.

One, there is a question of generation and age. Baoyu is Jia Lan's uncle, a generation older than him, a generation of relatives to Jia's mother, Baoyu is also older, about fifteen years old, is a child who knows etiquette and is a little naïve, and Jia Lan rarely appears in front of Jia's mother because her mother is widowed, and is mostly at Mrs. Wang's place, so there is less contact with Jia's mother. This is also an objective reason.

Second, Jia Lan is still a child compared to Baoyu, and she is not yet at the age of any contact with outsiders, compared to Jia's mother's standard of loving children, that is, Jia Lan has not yet reached the time to fight for her face in front of outsiders, so she naturally does not pay so much attention to it.

Liu Xinwu's Dream of Red Mansions has been opposed by many red scholars. It is advisable to look at the writings of other red scholars for selection.

In my personal opinion, Dream of Red Mansions uses Baochai Dai as the main line to describe the appearance of a big feudal family and even a big feudal society. If according to your question, that Daiyu is just a granddaughter, her surname is not Jia, but she is loved by Jia's mother, and her favor is on par with Baoyu, but why.

Books and movies are the same, no matter ancient or modern, the importance of the characters in the plot arrangement is of course primary and secondary, Li Kun's widow and sister-in-law have very few descriptions, and Jia Zhu is even more passing, Jia Lan is young, and the character arrangement has nothing to do with the main plot in the book, of course, there will not be many descriptions close to Jia Lan. Even there are not many descriptions of Jia Zheng's generation. Jia Shi Wang Xue four families, to the next generation, Jia rewrites Baoyu, Shi Xiangyun, Wang is Wang Xifeng, and Xue is Baochai.

In addition, there is an important person Daiyu. Cao Gong's grass gray snake line stretches for thousands of miles, and the characters and plots that appear have a specific mission for him to appear. Therefore, Jia Lan is not a particularly important character in the whole book of Dream of Red Mansions, and there is nothing to criticize if he does not describe it in detail and does not reflect that he is favored.

Not only that, but the main house of Rongguo Mansion lives in the second son Jia Zheng, not the eldest son Jia He. The heir is not the eldest son, but the second son of the second son.

A good **, Cao Gong is also grinding enough. It seems that he deliberately put his own life experience into it, and the benefits can reflect his life experience, telling the world that this book is "true and false when it is true, and true when it is true", there are true and false in the book, and he still comments on feudal society with a pipa half-hidden face.

That's how I understand it.

After all, for an author, no matter how much his life experience has influenced him, he will not even be able to distinguish between reality and **, and make a mess of the stories inside. That was Cao Xueqin's intention.

P.S. Cao Gong's life experience, you can go to see an explanation of those red scholars, those succession statements.

You can just take a look at Liu Xinwu's interpretation of the real story of the Dream of Red Mansions after ten times. Jia Zheng is a successor, and so is Jia Lan.

There could be several reasons for this:

1。Jia Zhu died early, and Li Kun was widowed.

2。The Li family has never been a famous family, so naturally they will not be valued by these powerful dog-like families3Li Kun has been teaching his children in Daoxiang Village, basically nothing happens, and of course there are not many opportunities to show up.

In "Dream of Red Mansions", Jia Zheng is Jia Zhen's cousin.

Jia Zheng and Jia Zhen's father, Jia Jing, are cousins of the same generation. Jia Baoyu and Jia Zhen are also cousins.

Jia Zheng is a generation older than Jia Zhen, and because Jia Zhen's father is a long house, Jia Zheng is Jia Zhen's uncle. Jia Zhen and Jia Lian are of the same generation, and their relationship is that of brothers, so when Jia Lian and You Erlao took sisters, they were called Brother Zhen. Similarly, Jia Lian and Baoyu are also cousins.

Jia Rong is Jia Zhen's son, a generation later than Jia Lian, so he called Jia Lian the second uncle of Lian and Wang Xifeng as his aunt.

1, Jia's mother is Jia Baoyu's grandmother, and Wang Xifeng is the wife of Jia Baoyu's cousin Jia Lian, that is, Jia Baoyu's cousin-in-law.

2, Jia Mu, also known as Shi Taijun, one of the main characters in the classical Chinese ** "Dream of Red Mansions", her maiden surname Shi, is also one of the four major quarrelsome families. Jia Mu is the highest authority in Jia Mansion. She is Jia Baoyu's grandmother and Lin Daiyu's maternal grandmother, and Shi Xiangyun is the granddaughter of her maiden brother.

3, Jia Baoyu, the male protagonist in the classic Chinese masterpiece "Dream of Red Mansions". He was the reincarnation of the Shenying attendant of Chixia Palace, the second son born to Jia Zheng and Mrs. Wang of Rongguo Mansion. Born because of the title of jade, it is the grandson of Jiafu jade, so it is called Jia Baoyu, and Jiafu is commonly known as Bao Erye.

He is the only male resident of the country where the sedan chair touches the spine of the Grand View Garden.

In the Rongguo Mansion, there is actually a real grandson of the eldest house-Jia Lian, who is the real heir to the Duke of Rongguo. Is Jia Lian valued in Jia Mansion? Of course, it is also very important, but compared with Jia Baoyu, it is not so important.

Moreover, although Jia Lian is not good at reading, he is good at changing opportunities and socializing on the road of the world. This point is also extremely important for wealthy families. However, even though Jia Lian's status is more important than Jia Baoyu and his ability to do things is stronger than Jia Baoyu, he is not as favored as Jia Baoyu.

Jiafu's favor for his descendants is not just because of their status and ability. The reason why Jia Baoyu is so favored is that in addition to "looking good", what is more important is his "birth with a jade".

In ancient times, people often attached great importance to people who wore "auspicious rays". And Jia Baoyu's "birth of jade" is undoubtedly a major "auspicious" in the eyes of Jiafu people. Therefore, the people of Jiafu will have high hopes for him, and they will think that he is the hope of Jiafu in the future.

Therefore, even if Jia Zhu is still alive, it will not affect Jia Baoyu's status in Jiafu's stars and moons, but it may be because of such a good brother, his father Jia Zheng relaxed his requirements for him, so that he can live more freely.

I think even if Jia Zhu didn't die, Jia Baoyu's status would be so high. Jia Zheng has never been a candidate for the heir of Jiafu, Baoyu's high status is only because of Jia's mother's preference, love for Xiangrui who was born with jade when he was born, and love him for being smart and clever, so Jia Zhu has nothing to do with whether he is favored or not!

In fact, according to the identity, it should be Jia Lian first (because he is the son of Jia Yu and the eldest grandson of Rongfu. According to the etiquette of the feudal system at that time, it was the eldest son and eldest grandson of the eldest house who inherited the family business, and the second son, that is, the second room, was generally not allowed to inherit the family business) followed by Jia Zhu (he was the eldest son of the second room) and then Jia Lan (the eldest grandson of the second room), and then it was Jia Baoyu's turn (the second son of the second room) and finally Jia Huan (the second son of the second room).

Most of the reason why Jia Baoyu's status in the Jia family is so high is that Mrs. Jia likes him the most, and he was born with jade. It doesn't have much to do with whether he is the only son of his parents, after all, his father is the second and not the heir of Rongguofu.

Yes, one is born with jade in his mouth, with auspiciousness. It's good in memory and learning, although it doesn't work a lot of the time. This alone is beyond Jia Zhu's reach.

What's more, there is a bonus in appearance. What an important thing in a declining aristocratic home! Jia Zhu's position is precarious, which may be a good thing for Jia Huan, and Jia Zhu is likely to pull his brother to suppress his own brother.

This can be read from the book, and the relationship between Jia Huan and Jia Lan is better than that between Baoyu and Jia Lan.

The reason why Jia Baoyu was very favored was also because he was a child at the time. In the TV series, it feels as if Jia Baoyu is a young man, but in fact, he is just like this, and it is not uncommon for children of this age to be pampered by adults. Jia Lian is also very favored, the old lady never hates her grandson but likes her granddaughter-in-law, and Mrs. Wang can't let her niece marry an unfavored person, but Jia Lian is in her twenties, and she can't go to her grandmother to be coquettish.

It shouldn't have much impact, after all, Jia Baoyu was born from a jade, and he must be loved by Jia's mother, if Jia Zhu is here, it is estimated that Jia Baoyu will be more comfortable, and his father will not care about him so strictly.

Jia Baoyu was born of jade. There are auspicious signs, so it will still have a high status. And the old ladies like the youngest boys. Jia Zhu also has a high status. It's all the same.

Jia Zhu's immortality will only affect Jia Baoyu's status in Mrs. Wang's heart, Mrs. Wang will not pay so much attention to Jia Baoyu, after all, she also said that she attaches more importance to her eldest son, Jia Baoyu has such a high status because of Jia's mother, and Jia's mother's love and attention is the reason for Jia Baoyu's high status, so Jia Zhu's absence will not affect Jia Baoyu's status in the Jia family, and the most affected should be Li Kun and Jia Lan's mother and son.

If Jia Zhu hadn't died, he would have received a lot of love, he was the eldest son, and even more than Jia Baoyu had been favored.