What to do if someone you love turns back after hurting you

Don't look back, this kind of love is generally not very stable, because after all, he has trampled on your efforts and feelings at will, and once treated your feelings as child's play, you should think about it again!

I've been to this before.

I've hurt each other before, and I'm hurt by them now.

Here's my tip for you:

Vary. If you are a person who can afford to take it up, put it down, and go with the flow of everything, you should respond to all changes with the same. That is, to wait and see what happens, so as to be anti-customer-oriented.

Let's see what he does next! Maybe the one who you wasn't very bad either, or he had changed for the better. After all, there is another saying called:

Men are not bad, women are not loved. Didn't you like him before? Believe in your vision, it won't be too bad!

If you are a person with delicate feelings, you can't afford to take it and put it down, and you still like him, you should follow your heart's most sincere wishes and thoughts. If you stay with him, just continue with him! It's not reluctant!

It's about complicity - don't go against the wheel of history, otherwise regret is irretrievable.

Believe that you are right, and do things more than worthy of yourself.

Good luck and find your own happiness soon^

If you love him, don't be afraid of being hurt, because what is the value of being hurt in the face of love?

If you don't love him, you can give up, because you haven't made any vows to him, you can not be with him!

In fact, all the decisions lie in one sentence: do you still love him? Or how deep is your love for him? Are you reluctant to give up the slightest hope for him? Do you want to be with him?

I say a word, if you don't have a contradiction, choose according to what you want, but as long as you are in the contradiction, please don't hesitate, love, give him, and give yourself a chance, you should pay for love instead of reciprocating, what do you say? As long as you give wholeheartedly, it doesn't matter if you have anything in return, because you are in love! Wishing you happiness!

The farthest distance in the world is the beginning and end of love, and once it is over, there is no way to go back in time and start again. If this love has no beginning at all, why should it be longing to return to the beginning at the end. Don't promise him easily, the easier it is to get, the more he will not know how to cherish it.

This is advice, test him again, if he really regrets coming back to you and finds that the person he loves the most is still you, then he will not care about this test, let time tell.

Ask yourself the deepest part of your heart to see if you still love him. If you still love, then give him another chance If not, then learn to give up Maybe this is a better end for both of you After all, love is over It's no longer the love it used to be Sometimes you have to listen to the voice in your heart, whether you give him a chance to listen to it That will have a good answer! Friends, hurry up and listen to it!!

Good luck!!

See where his intentions are......

If he just needs a follower to satisfy his vanity......I think you'd better give up......After all, you were so good to him before, it doesn't matter if he doesn't accept it, and trample on ...... at willIt doesn't seem to be a good boy with good manners......

We really can't envision our future.

and our love.

can feel that your feelings for him have become a kind of unwillingness.

If it's really unwilling.

Possibly make a little bit of it.

But be mentally prepared for the possibility that you will be hurt even more.

If you really can't be together anymore.

I really pulled myself out of that relationship, right?

Ask yourself first.

Is he worth it? Because of the breakup, there must be irreconcilable contradictions between you to be like this.

That contradiction must always exist in your psyche.

It's a pimple.

But love may dissolve him.

You love him. If you love him.

If you really don't love it.

Then give up.

It's good for everyone.

Have fun.

Is it the first time, see if he did it on purpose, maybe give him another chance! Let's see if he really wants to break your heart.

Maybe I really regret it, give him a chance, I am the same as yours him, but I also turned back, because it was the first time, and I had not suffered emotional setbacks, but I now understand how to love someone well.

I want to make friends with you, okay, let's talk heart-to-heart.

We're all the same! The person I love has also changed his mind, and I love and fear like you, and I don't know what to do! Since you're going to ask, prove that you still have her in your heart?

But you have to believe that she can hurt you once, and she will hurt you a second time! Believe me, a good horse doesn't eat back grass, and you have to look forward to being a man! Don't always stay where you are, I just accepted the person who hurt me before, and now I'm gone?

Why bother to grieve again?

There was once a true love in front of him, he didn't cherish it, and when he lost it, he found that happiness was by his side, what did such a stupid man still cherish him? Just like a broken mirror, when you want to have it again, but you find that the broken mirror is difficult to complete, and even scratches your hand, giving it up may be the best choice.

It's hard to say about feelings!

It's hard to choose!

You have to be sensible!

If you love him and he turns a blind eye and tramples on it, it is destined to be a tragedy.

You have to think twice! If I were you, I wouldn't look back!

I'm going to be myself very freely!

Find a lover who suits you and is worthy of your own efforts! will be happy!

I don't think it's okay, he hurts you once, maybe there will be a second and third time, in short, you have to be careful.

If you still love him, then accept her.

You shouldn't be too nice to him and make him feel as if you're going to give up on him.

A man is you, the better you treat him, the less you know how to cherish it.

Who knows if you're willing to be in pain a few more times ...

Summary. Hello dear, against the idea that people will be beaten to death with a stick without careful analysis. When that person appears in front of you, when scenes of the past come to mind, don't you sigh?

Don't you get caught up in contradictions? That man is indeed hateful, heartless, and worthy of a thousand cuts, but that is in the past after all. He still has the right to pursue you, and now he comes back to you, at least he still has the idea of repenting and reforming.

There are still some examples in life, choosing to ignore past suspicions, and living a good life in the future.

Hello, dear, against the idea that without careful analysis, people will be beaten with a stick and killed. When that person appears in front of you, when scenes of the past come to mind, don't you sigh? Don't you get caught up in contradictions?

That man is indeed hateful, heartless, and worthy of a thousand cuts, but that is in the past after all. He still has the right to pursue you, and now he comes back to you, at least he still has the idea of repenting and reforming himself. There are still some examples in life, choosing to ignore past suspicions, and the future life is also very good.

As for whether to accept him or not? Don't think about it just yet, live the life you deserve. One thing to note:

As a woman, she is naturally sensual. Be sure to make yourself more rational, don't be soft-hearted for a while, and easily agree to the other party. If she is abandoned again, the woman cannot afford to lose.

If he really wants to get back together, he won't pay attention to your refusal, and he will do a lot of things to make up for his mistakes in order to beg you to forgive him. Time, quantity and quality are enough to prove whether he is sincere or not. If he really repents, and you still like it very much, at that time, you can still choose him.

When love comes, you will become childish and simple. It's that you care about a person for no reason, whether he eats well, sleeps well, cares about whether she is in a good mood, and doesn't care about how to say bad things about him when he returns to the town, but in your heart he is flawless. You also learn to pay attention to what he likes, and are willing to see him every day, and will be angry and jealous when he sees him with other members of the opposite sex, hoping that he only has your presence in his eyes.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like a bend of the life of a person, and there is no regret to pay.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find.

If there are such people around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

This world, every.

Everyone has one. Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.

If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.

Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

At every festival, he would prepare a little surprise for me, although the things were not very valuable, but I knew that I was a student and had no money, so it was good to be able to give me something. It's been like this for about a year, and there were some quarrels in the middle, but in the end they were reconciled. After all, couples are bound to have a time when they are noisy.

A year later, he said to me that he wanted to live a single life for a while, but I couldn't figure out why he was chasing me at that time. I didn't want to, so I kept him, but in the end he was still stubborn about living his single life. We broke up.

I cried every day for a few days, and I really didn't feel any fun.

A week later, he called me again and said that he wanted to get back togetherI thought to myself at the time that it was ridiculous, you can divide it if you want it, and you can take me for whatever you want, so I decisively refused. After that, I will be treated as a stranger, and I don't want to have any more intersections, even if I meet now, there will be no waves in my heart.

If it's the first time you're hurt, you have to distinguish the person who hurts, if you can forgive it, forgive it for the sake of the past feelings, if it's in your heart, then I don't want to forgive him again, in that case, you won't be happy to get along, and there are traces of entanglement in your heart.

It should be that I can't get along, once I was bitten by a snake for ten years and was afraid of the well rope, I don't believe that the emotional prodigal son can turn back, the injury is scarred, and the emotional scar will never be combined.

This is the game of hurt and feelings, if you are really emotional, it should be okay after a long time, love can tolerate everything.

He hurt me, but he hurt me if my wound healed, if he hurt my wound and it didn't heal, or it was a permanent crack, but I definitely can't forgive him, because feelings are not a joke.

Let's start with the result: no. Maybe you will reconcile for a short time, or even better than before, but this is temporary, an unconscious or intentional way for you or the other person to compensate for the hurt and shame, nothing more. After all, it is difficult to recover from water or cracks.

People say that the mirror is reunited, but now I think about it and it feels a bit of a pit, even if the cracks in the reunion can be smoothed, it is better to treat it carefully, people need real love, understanding and tolerance to get along in harmony, care for you and care for you.

Yes, maybe he didn't mean to. Or maybe he likes you more. But since he has hurt you, you have to keep your eyes open to see him clearly, and don't be hurt again.

You can't refuse, you can only get along, and if you don't feel it, don't continue!

Look at what kind of injury, if it's just a breakup or something, there are no major issues of principle, I don't think it's okay, after all, it's not easy to find someone who loves you and someone you love.

I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I'm around you.

No one deserves your tears, and those who deserve your tears will not make you cry.

Just because someone doesn't love you as much as you want it to be, doesn't mean you aren't loved by others.

A true friend will hold your hand and touch your heart.

The scariest way to miss someone is to sit next to her and know you'll never have her.

Never stop smiling, even when you're sad, maybe someone will fall in love with you because of your smile.

You may be just one person in this world, but to someone, you are the whole world.

Don't spend your time with someone who doesn't care about sharing with you.

Maybe God has made you meet a lot of wrong people before you meet the right person, so you should be grateful when all this happens.

Don't cry because it's over, laugh at it happening.

There will always be people in life who hurt you, so you still need to continue to trust others, just be careful.

Be a better person, be sure of who you are before you meet a new person, and want that person to know who you are. ``