Being used as a tool by others, did I ignore her too much?

Not too much! People are willing to be tools and pawns, and being used as pawns by others are two different things!

With people with great potential, they are willing to be chess pieces, and when they are used as chess pieces, they are clearly proud and willing, because their abilities are not as powerful as their potential. The Tao is the same.

It is only selfish interests and satisfying selfish desires and interests, and treating others as stepping stones, which is treacherous and cannot have honor and disgrace. Staying away and breaking up and not being friends anymore is the right and rational choice. The Tao is different, and it is not conspiratory.

Hello, if you are used by others, or used as a tool, it is naturally very uncomfortable, and it is right for you to ignore her. So you have to pay attention, if she is like this next time, it is not recommended to associate with this kind of person. Find a real friend so that you don't let yourself be used as a tool.

If you find that you are being treated as a tool, you can communicate with her first, indirectly ask her why she treats you as a tool, figure out the reason for the matter, and look at the other party's explanation, instead of ignoring her, at least know why, and then I choose to ignore her.

Tool man means that girls don't really want to fall in love with you, but just accept your kindness because they are not good at refusing and other reasons. To put it bluntly, I use you as a spare tire. So your friend means to make you confirm the relationship as soon as possible and don't waste time and energy.

Maybe it's because you're too passive, and then you're more introverted and don't have a sense of existence, but if others ask you for help and you're willing to help, then they may only think of you when they ask you for help.

Not excessively, of course.

It's good to stay away from people who aren't worth associating with as soon as possible.

The feelings between people are mutual.

At the very least, be sincere.

If you can't even do the most basic sincerity, then it's better not to make deep friends with such people.

Learn to stop losses in time.

I think it's normal, whether it's the same sex or the opposite sex, adults can get along with each other, and if one party feels that the relationship is unbalanced and can't continue, leave it, long live understanding, don't get entangled, I believe you can do your best.

People are treating you like a tool.

Generally, such people should stay away slowly.

Summary. If you feel or find that others are using you as a tool, I suggest you can do the following: 1. If you have a good relationship with him and want to continue the relationship with him.

You can confide in them about your discomfort. Between true friends, there should be something to say, and then it will be resolved. It's also easier for you to get along.

If you feel or find that others are using you as a tool, I suggest you can do the following: 1. If you have a good relationship with him and want to continue the relationship with him. You can confide in them about the discomfort in your guess heart.

Between true friends, you should also say whatever you want, and then solve it. It's also easier for you to get along.

2. If it only communicates or cooperates with you on the surface, there is no deep friendship. In the way of the love banquet, you can finish the things you have made an appointment with, keep decent, and then stop cooperating with them, socializing, and keeping a certain distance; Or slowly withdraw from the relationship and gradually distance himself from him.

If you feel uncomfortable in getting along, you have to say it, or deal with it, don't wronged yourself, it's not good for yourself.