I have a changeable personality, an odd temper, and I don t know myself and I m at a loss

First of all, you feel that you don't know yourself, and in fact, everyone can't say what kind of person they are. Moreover, it is understandable that you say that everyone has a different side. People naturally have different attitudes towards different things, and every day everyone and everything changes, so they naturally treat it with different attitudes.

If you have a lot of friends, it means that you have no problem with your attitude towards people. If you have these questions, it means that you are analyzing yourself, and you may occasionally feel lonely and empty at the age of adolescence, in fact, you are about to take the college entrance examination, life is full and intense, everyone has their own direction, others are the people we pass by on the journey, and we must live our lives to the fullest. Don't feel that your life is meaningless, believe that you are a very good person.

I wish you all the best in the college entrance examination, and I believe you will have your own piece of heaven. You shouldn't label yourself casually, remember that at all times, you must first calm down the temperature of your heart to have a good result.

This is the case for this period. So do I. In fact, a lot of times it's because I care too much, I care about my friends ignoring me, or when I watch my friends play together.

It's good to go out and walk more during the holidays, or travel on your own... It's really going to be more and more lonely at home.

Landlord, you won't have multiple personality disorder, hehe, in fact, it may be that you have closed yourself off! It may have been influenced by other aspects as well!

Don't think too much, everyone has such a time, it's good to pass, just do what you want to do now, and day by day, then it's good.

Summary. Good morning, dear! To change this character, all you need to do is change yourself.

Make yourself confident and have a sunny and positive attitude. Dare to communicate with people. There is self-confidence and self-belief in behavior and language, and if you want to build your self-confidence, I give you the best way, that is, you have to be brave and learn to communicate with people.

My personality has become very weird, how can I change it?

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Good morning, dear! To change this character, all you need to do is change yourself. Make yourself confident and have a sunny and positive attitude.

Dare to communicate with people. There is self-confidence and self-belief in behavior and language, and if you want to build your self-confidence, I give you the best way, that is, you have to be brave and learn to communicate with people.

Dear, when your character can't bring you happiness, it means that your character is flawed, and where you have deep feelings, it is easy to change. If you don't have those experiences and feelings, no matter how many methods others tell you, they won't be able to do anything. In the end, it is shallow on paper, and it is still necessary to pay attention to your own personal experience.

Reflect on yourself often. Over time, personality will naturally change. Hope mine is helpful to you, thanks!

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Because the original character of the buyer was cowardly and honest, as you said, after some things happened, you couldn't accept the truth, and it was not the same as what you thought, which led to the current anxiety. Some things are in the past, even if they don't go as you wish, they can also bring you some inspiration and growth, don't always think about the negative aspects of things, learn to relax yourself, go out for a walk, and think more about the beautiful places in the world.

The past is gone, so don't think about it. Always entangled in the past, too tired, will always deny yourself. Adjust your mindset and exercise more. Find something to do for yourself. There won't be time or energy to think.

This is caused by pressure, what to look at, children in addition to life, and death, do you think, everything in the world is so important?

Don't think so much, what to think. The more you think about it, the more things happen.

If you're in puberty, it's better to find a psychiatrist.

Talk to people! Even if you don't want to talk to people, you have to force yourself to communicate with others, at first you will feel at a loss, slowly you will get used to it, and there are some things that do not need to be put in your heart all day long, you can't find a way to solve it and go with the flow, of course, self-confidence is essential, you should have no problem with your appearance.

Hello, for your question, the analysis is as follows:

The first is that your parents influenced your personality and made you have low self-esteem.

For your in-laws and husband, such an attitude, it is recommended to divorce directly.

You said; 'I have a child, I'm a year and a half old, and I hit one'

One-and-a-half-year-old child, did you cruelly abandon him?

My advice to you in this regard:

1.Adjust your mindset as soon as possible and be the best version of yourself.

2.For in-laws and husbands, if you can live well, try not to have conflicts with them, and learn to tolerate 3Don't think too much about trivial things, you can travel to other places if you can't, and scatter the above suggestions, for reference only!

It's not that your personality has changed, but that you have grown up and matured, and you have done things with money guidance and considered the consequences. It is said that the newborn calf is not afraid of the tiger, not because of boldness, but because of ignorance, the calf does not know that the tiger can eat it, it is its natural enemy. It's like you didn't think that you might be disfigured in a fight, you might go to jail.

You now know that considering these events is a good thing. Because you don't think about it now, if you really get into trouble in the future, you may not be able to afford the price you will pay.

As for what you said about what to do if someone beats you, I think except for people with nerve problems, how can a normal person beat you for no reason? If you are always prone to dissension around you, you should think about whether there are some flaws in your personality, such as you are more impulsive in your speech, more irritable when you encounter problems, and easy to provoke others. If so, you should consider correcting these problems.

Nowadays, many people bring knives to the streets, don't just go to fight with others, and bear it if you can bend and stretch and endure it. If it's hard work, go play basketball or sing K to vent your emotions.

You can defend yourself. Consider whether there is a problem with the circle of friends, and change friends.

That's a good thing, you don't dwell on why it's changed. That's a good thing.