He is always standing firm, is this still love

Updated on psychology 2024-06-13
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No one is wrong. The problem that long-distance relationships have to face, this problem is solved by feelings, whoever loves more will be tolerant in the end, and if conditions permit, they can also live in two cities! According to the traditional Chinese woman, she wants to live in the man's house, but now the society has changed, and women are asking for more and more autonomy, which has produced a contradiction between history and reality.

    It's not like this, this problem can only be that you go to his house to live, or he comes to live in your house, it is one of the two, you insist on him and he insists, only who takes a step back can solve it, but you think about taking a step back today for a better life tomorrow, you go to his house to live, he will think that you love him very much, willing to leave his hometown for his background, away from his relatives, will be very moved, if he comes to live in your house, he will think that you are an only daughter temper, self-respecting, and will leave a shadow in the future, there are gains and losses, this is the truth!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Actually, aren't you sticking to your own position? :) you're all right, or you can say you're all wrong, it depends on how you look at the problem. We tend to accept the reason, but it is difficult to do.

    For example, you said: "Two people are in love with each other, if you don't want to change anything, you always stand firm, you can't go on", if you are asked to change, it will be difficult for you to do it, right? Therefore, it is better to be considerate of each other, and you must start with yourself first, you have not changed yourself, don't think about changing the other party.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You forgot to make it clear that he is the eldest in the family? Or is it the smallest? If it is the former, it means that he still has younger siblings to take care of, plus his parents are divorced, although I don't know which party he lives with, but after all, it is not easy, it is recommended that you can follow him, because there are old and young, he wants to become the pillar, and if it is the latter, you can discuss, I believe you have all seen both parents!

    You can communicate with his family, the bell must be tied to the bell, rather than you alone, his family is also involved, although marriage is a matter of two people, but the family is our fetters and concerns! Finally, I wish you happiness!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think. If such a person is the case, I would rather lack than abuse, you say: He said that marry a chicken and a dog and a dog.

    Just this sentence, I don't look happy, what if he is really a dog when he does something, what will you do? The sentence that love is integrated with each other is what you said, which means that you are still trying to reach an agreement with him, but he insists that you compromise. He has four children, and you are the only one child in your family, so he has an advantage in terms of numbers, and now the question is, even if you compromise, who will take care of your parents?

    When they miss you, they can only miss you emptyly, but he's different. Finally, if you think that you can't agree on anything in normal times, then it is appropriate to have a different concept.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I saw that the downstairs were scolding you. There is no right or wrong in such a thing, there is nothing wrong with him standing his ground, for many people, girls should follow boys, this is an eternal tradition. But for modern people, what difference does it make who marries whom?

    For such stubborn and stubborn people. Whatever you talk about, it's playing the harp to the cow. Because in his heart, he has already decided to eat you.

    Hehe, don't think my brother doesn't speak well, it's a fact. You can't convince him in such a situation. From ancient times to the present, it is a fish and a bear's paw, and you can't have both.

    It is important to make your own decision. I hope my words are helpful to you, the choice is the most important! Good luck.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Many men feel that if the woman asks herself to live in the other city, she will have that feeling of being inverted, it doesn't matter if she is close to her parents, if both of them are in another city, it is okay to say, the main thing is that you can't overcome this, I think it is better not to affect the relationship between you because of your parents.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This question depends on whether the two parties love each other enough, and if they love each other, they will tolerate and understand each other.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    7 9 needs to be paid at the same time to be meaningful, and it will be more perfect 7 9

    Love is fate, love is moving, love is habit, love is tolerance, love is promotion, love is understanding, love is a lifetime of sincerity.

    Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness.

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, fall in love with a person your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, the heart of understanding, heart management, heart of bearing for him (her) fascinated, for him (her) care, I hope every minute can see him (her), when you can't see him (her) all the time will think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart beats faster, when you are together you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) is foaming, You will look forward to bringing him or her the greatest happiness with all your love, and you will get another happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

    True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, vows, promises speak of its indeterminacy, never believe sweet words.

    Feel it with your heart.

    i"-inject -- invest.

    l"-loyal.

    o"-observant -- attentively.

    v"-valiant -- brave.

    7 9 Believe in yourself, as long as there is love, happiness must exist 7 9

    7 9 Sincerely wish the family good health, happiness and sweetness 7 9 Forever happy

    7 9 Sincerely wish you and the one you love, and have a beautiful, happy and sweet future 7 9

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hang on. Now you are facing the love that you can't grasp. That is, the other party has not given you a real statement. If you give up now. to the future. Maybe it's a pity...

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I will choose to give up and not waste time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When I really like someone, I'm shy, I'm embarrassed to look at you, and I want to cover up the fact that I like you, so I say I hate you, I've also experienced this stage, but such a young love is not elementary school or junior high school, little sister, you are still too young. In fact, even if you confess that you won't be together for too long, you have too many force majeure factors, but I hope you won't have regrets in the future, I didn't take this step back then, and I still regret it when I think about it, come on!! Now the post-00s are very brave!!

    Even if it may be risky to confess, go for it!! 1

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's right.,Good cows don't eat back grass.。。 As long as he commits it once, there is a possibility that he will do it a second time, so let's look forward and find someone who really loves you. I wish you happiness and hope to adopt it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no right or wrong in love, follow your own ideas, it must be right!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Whether his family likes it or not, whether you agree or not, is secondary. You didn't talk to them. The main thing is that your boyfriend should take a firm stance. I love you enough. Protect you. If not. Leave early.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Break up, we also don't agree with the family, break up, and now I think about him occasionally, but it's a thing of the past.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Without the support of his family, you will have a hard time in the future. Your boyfriend doesn't stand his own ground, so why bother? A person's life is not all about love. Better a finger off than always aching!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Thinking only about yourself and not feeling yours is not a good man even if you love each other again.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It depends on how he chooses, he will choose you if he loves you, you are in the same situation as me, my family does not agree with us being together, I really planned to give up at the time, I broke up with her, after a while we contacted again, and now we are together, I am very insistent, the family doesn't care about me, whatever I choose!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Which option do you think is better, giving up someone you love or giving up someone who loves you? I think it's better for both parties to make a decision in time.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Time will dilute everything. Either way, you don't want to be with him anymore, it's the best thing for you and him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then a selfish man is not worth your life to love

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Either let go, or love will die and live, scarred! There are only these two options.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Parted. He was too selfish. Only consider his home. You ask him if he's thinking about your home.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's better to be in pain for a while than to be sad for a lifetime.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's not easy for the two to be together, don't give up easily.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There are not many good men, if he really loves you, he should be on your side, if you don't just divide it, you will be guilty.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Long pain is like short pain. I recommend breaking up.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Lilisoso blew that hesitation only made it more painful.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If it's divided, just talk to me, there are many good men.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Giving up on him is the right choice for you, trust me.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There are many good men! Give it up!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    So what to do, if your boyfriend loves you, it will be obvious. Don't you even understand this? Pity.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You're the same as me, what do you say?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    There is an old Chinese saying that the door is right. It's not discrimination, it's a real problem.

    So you have to ask yourself a question: what exactly do you like about him, and does he really attract you.

    Take every relationship seriously, otherwise both parties will be hurt in the end.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Now love needs to be built on bread, if the bread is gone, then what is the use of love.

    Can love be eaten as a meal?

    Whatever he is, if you don't like it, give it up.

    No one is forcing you to ask for it.

    You have these opinions about him.

    It means that you are not completely serious about him, in this case, it is better to separate early to avoid regret later.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Feelings are a very complicated thing, and everyone will sway in them, so it's better to go with the flow.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Then you have to learn to be independent and try to make decisions for yourself.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    In your position is love, in the eyes of others, you are snatching love, you can't appear in front of people openly, and you are afraid of being criticized by others, which is all unkind and unjust.

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