Suddenly, there is no standard for talking to others, why?

Possibly, it is. This person is too familiar to you, too well understood, too distrustful. There is also the kind of old age and death between you. It feels like there is no principle to speak of.

There are no guidelines for others to speak, maybe you trust this friend too much, or, well, you are a little careless.

It's because you're diverted by the topic, and then there's an emotional mix, and then you forget the topic, so there's no theme when you speak.

When talking to others, there is suddenly no standard, and this must be that you care about each other, fall in love with each other, and there is no longer a standard of recognition.

This is because caring is messy, maybe this person is important to you, so what he says affects your thinking.

Maybe it's because the two of you are too familiar, or the two of you often talk and communicate together, so you slowly open up.

When others suddenly have no rules for speaking, something must have happened that surprised him, and he suddenly lost his sense of proportion.

Sometimes it's because of emotion, and sometimes it's because I haven't spoken for a long time.

There are always times when people have a short video, which may mean, well, there is no standard for speaking after being in a trance.

When talking to someone else, there is suddenly no seed, it may be the other person's topic, which you have never been exposed to, so you are led by the other person's thoughts.

I feel like maybe it's you, but you're very familiar with this person. And then there were no guidelines.

That may mean that when you talk to this person, this person is more principled and tougher!

Explain that you ** went in and had no choice of your own.

It is impossible to lose your own rules to communicate with others, because this is a violation of your own principles.

Maybe it's because you're afraid of this person, and you're very nervous about talking to him. Be careful that I forgot the accuracy.

Or do you like this person very much? For him, he may be able to let go of the rules, and if he likes a person, he can actually do a lot to change the rules, and there is no way to follow them.

I thought it was caused by your psychological effect, but anyway, it would be nice to be natural.

It's possible that your words and actions are a bit too much, or self-control.

It's just that I'm disturbed by the other party's train of thought

When others suddenly have no rules for speaking, I think you should think seriously and speak rationally.

Talk to others. There is basically no one who has the right to write. Why? It's just not accurate.

The former guides the norm for the latter, and the latter proves to promote the former.

The tone is gentle, the thinking is clear, methodical, and logical.

Show that she likes you and wants to fit into your lifestyle.

Thank you for the inconvenience in adopting.

She's got a crush on you and wants to get close to you because of that.

minimum guidelines, on the basis of not violating the law and morality.

1. Equivalence criteria.

Parents are the guardians of their children, the nurturers, and the first teachers of their children, and parents have compulsory education to educate their children's growth, but this does not mean that parents and children are not equal. Parents and children are equal to their children in terms of human rights, morals, character, values, etc. No one is privileged in these matters.

2. Criteria for transposition consideration.

If parents want to communicate smoothly with their children, they must understand and care for their children, and they need to empathize. Since we stand from a different point of view. There are often differences in looking at problems, if you learn to empathize. The problem is solved briefly.

3. Sincerity Criteria.

The role of parent-child communication is very related to how parents listen to their children. Some parents think that their children are their own, it doesn't matter, sometimes listening to their children, always with an absent-minded posture, listening and thinking about other things. When children see their parents like this, they don't want to talk about anything in the future.

Therefore, parents should not complain that their children are "stuffy gourds", blaming them for not communicating with their parents, and parents have to find the reason from themselves first.

Therefore, in order for children to speak to their parents, it is necessary for parents to learn the skills of listening:

First, parents should pay attention when talking to their children.

When parents talk to their children, they should focus on listening to their children. Don't do anything else. Don't hit ** for a moment, look at text messages for a moment, look left and right for a moment, this is actually disrespectful to the child, briefly hurt the child's feelings, and the child naturally has no desire to continue talking.

Second, don't interrupt your child's words.

During the speech, parents should pay attention to listen to their children, and if necessary, they can make a brief record. If you don't understand, wait until your child finishes talking and then ask, don't interrupt him, this is also a sign of respect for your child.

Thirdly, the mood is soft and smiling.

When parents talk to their children, parents should be emotionally soft, smiling, and give their children a relaxed and hearty environment, so that children are willing to speak their hearts, inform their parents of their difficulties, and be willing to get guidance and assistance from their parents. Many parents talk to their children with a straight face and staring, which will form a shock to the child's psychology and will not have any advantages for communication.