What is the mindset of being good friends after a breakup?

There are always people who say that they can't be friends anymore after a breakup, but I think it's okay, why not, I used to be so familiar, and even knew each other better than friends, since I can't be lovers, it means that it's not suitable, since it's not suitable then why should we impose it on each other, so that both parties are unhappy, there is no need for this, so you can still be friends after a breakup.

Being a good friend after a breakup shows that your heart has let go, and there is neither a lover-like love nor a reluctance to leave. In this case, this is the inner peace and tranquility, and the indifference after letting go, which is the kind of mentality that allows us to face the person who broke up, so that we can also become good friends with the person who broke up. There is nothing that can't be overcome, don't always be immersed in your own world, and don't always be unwilling to come out, since the breakup is inevitable, why make it seem to be bitter and hateful.

This kind of mentality is like the feeling that buying and selling is not in love, and it doesn't matter if you can't be a lover, you can be friends. Love is like this, it is best to be lovers, we all hope for each other, we can't be lovers, there are contradictions, it doesn't matter, they can be very good friends. Don't end up making lovers become enemies, this is really bad, it is not only a harm to yourself but also a harm to others.

In short, I think this kind of psychology of being friends is right, and I still think it's very good, friendship is also a kind of relationship, not to mention that love is a necessary condition, not only love, but also suitable, and friendship only needs to understand each other, so it is not impossible to be a good friend after a breakup, nor is it wonderful, it is a kind of cultivation, but also a kind of generosity.

Maybe it's not love between you, you are above friendship, and the state of unfulfilled lovers is it, generally there are more such couples who break up peacefully, and they can become very good friends in the end, maybe they understand what kind of relationship is most suitable for the two of them.

I had a friend who was like this with his boyfriend, my friend thought he was gay when she first met her boyfriend and in the following relationship, she still felt that her boyfriend was definitely gay, so she told him her story, her romance, her studies, and so on....She thought they could get along like this forever, and then one day his male girlfriend mysteriously asked her to go to the park, saying that he would help her celebrate her birthday, but he actually wanted to confess on my friend's birthday.

My friend said that she didn't know what to think at the time, anyway, her brain was hot and she didn't have a boyfriend, so she agreed, but in the following days, she found that life with her male girlfriend was particularly boring, and there was nothing new, so she felt like she was with another self. She didn't want to maintain this kind of relationship anymore, so she bluntly told her male girlfriend that she wanted to go back to her previous life, the personalities of the two of them were too similar, as if she got along with herself every day, and she felt that she was in love with herself, which was particularly boring.

I thought they would be the same as those couples who broke up, but they really went from being a couple to friends again, and I don't know what the two of them were thinking, maybe they didn't want to lose each other, so they would continue to be friends...

Now there is a popular view that it is better to get together and break up, and you can continue to be friends after a breakup. But I think that the breakup should be broken simply, and if you continue to be good friends after the breakup, then it is not responsible for your ex.

I used to have a friend like this who separated from her ex-boyfriend for some reason. But she immediately talked about another boyfriend. It feels like it's seamless, and I can't tell if she's sad or not.

At that time, they didn't dare to touch these topics. But then I found out that her ex-boyfriend had come back to her. She also took her boyfriend shopping and went out to play together.

She can sometimes be heard chatting with her ex-boyfriend about personal topics. I thought she and her boyfriend didn't have any contact.,I didn't expect them to have some contact in private.,I asked her later if it's not embarrassing to meet her ex-boyfriend like this.,She said that you can still be friends after breaking up.。 Then her ex-boyfriend would tell her every time he changed jobs.

She also sometimes goes to the city where her ex-boyfriend works. According to her words, it was the feeling that the two of them had something in common when she and her ex-boyfriend were in a relationship. But when she became good friends with her ex-boyfriend, she felt that the man was very good.

I think her mentality is to make her ex-boyfriend a spare tire, or just to show that she is a very attractive and very sociable girl. And it feels like she also wants to find an extra man to support her. Every time she has a conflict with her current boyfriend, she comes to her ex-boyfriend.

Tell him a lot, and treat her ex-boyfriend as her best friend. Later, when her ex-boyfriend developed, she abandoned her current boyfriend and returned to her ex-boyfriend's arms.

If you can still be friends after breaking up, it means that you still don't love enough in love, and I can't be friends after breaking up, because after all, I have loved, and I will be very unwilling to be friends.

Being friends after a breakup is the best option, and the friendship between you is unmatched by anyone.

Choosing to be a good friend after a breakup depends on the quality of the person. If the person is kind, it may be just to not hurt the other person, and the heart can't bear to use words to comfort the other person. However, if this slow erection is not the right personal quality, it may be a rogue behavior, and you may become entangled with the other party in the future.

makes the other party regret for the rest of his life that he has talked about such a heart-wrenching relationship.

You can still be friends behind your hands, either you have never loved it, or you are still in love. The excessive mode of friendship is manifested in the deep friendship itself before the love period, and when the relationship is not confirmed, they can talk about work, talk about their recent life, and they can say a lot of things, dare to say, before".Blue face”。One side still has illusions about the other party, as long as the contact continues, there is always a chance to reconcile, the so-called "broken thread" and "broken mirror reunion".

Like me and my predecessor, we have been separated and reunited many times, and in the end the slender head felt bored, so he didn't plan to reconcile again, and the two of them continued to be by each other's side as friends, because there was still love.

In fact, the most embarrassing thing after a breakup is not to change from a lover to a friend, but to never find a suitable identity to bother the other party after the breakup. So, sometimes those who are friends with their ex after a breakup are just thinking that one day they will be able to start over. As long as love is there, anything is possible.

There is a saying: If you really like someone, you are not willing to be friends. I often see some couples who become friends, buddies, and good brothers after breaking up, and I often wonder about this.

From disturbing the relationship of lovers to friends and brothers, how do they do it? Later, I interviewed several girls who had such experiences, and they all said that it was because they didn't have feelings for each other, so it was not strange that they ended up being friends, and even felt that being friends was the right relationship for them. Therefore, if you can still be friends with your ex after a breakup, either you haven't loved it, or your love is still there.

It shows that these two people did not hurt each other so deeply in the relationship, it may be due to various reasons that led to the breakup, but they can't be turned back as lovers, they can choose to be good friends to prove that both of them are tolerant and hungry, and they know how to be grateful, so they want to be friends.

The fact that two people choose to be friends after breaking up shows that they don't really want to separate. Maintain the relationship between friends and friends, and the two of them can also be brothers. In fact, in this state, two people can communicate and get back together.

After breaking up, being good friends may have a good relationship between the two, only suitable for being friends, not suitable for being lovers, the feelings of ambiguity and lack of affection between friends are more pure, and lovers are too close to see each other's shortcomings too clearly and unacceptable. It is also a good choice to be good friends and maintain a relationship with each other.

In fact, they accept each other, and they are still bored and emotional.

Therefore, choosing to be good friends after a breakup is to continue to be together in this way, and then find the right time to get back together with each other. The purpose of them doing this is to make plans for the possibility of being together in the future.

After breaking up, they chose to shout to be good friends, maybe the two Sengao people felt that they had put down this relationship and could be friends. But I think it's better not for Zheng Chunbi to have any more contact.

After breaking up, they can only be enemies and strangers, and it is impossible to be friends, these two people are two people who are duplicitous.

Hello, after the breakup, they chose to be good friends, these two people are reluctant to give up on each other in their hearts, but they feel that it is not appropriate to be together.

Choosing the best friend after the breakup should be very rare in real life, when these two people face each other here, the debate in the heart is hard-won, if you can become the best friend, it is because you don't love enough.

The two side stool people chose to break up because of some problems that they couldn't solve, so they will continue to be friends, which is also very normal, and it is not suitable to be a lover Liang pretending to be a couple, which does not mean that it is not suitable to be friends.

It shows that two people have never been in love with each other, so two clear chain key people can only be friends after calling for a breakup, or it is possible that two people feel that their personalities are incompatible, so they will be good friends after the breakup.

Lovers who can still be friends after separation, can only say that the emotional foundation of two people is not deep enough, so they can face it with the mentality of friends and friends.

These two people should still love each other, how can a couple be good friends after breaking up? Just kidding, even ordinary friends don't have to do it!

So, this type of uproar is still emotional, but they are embarrassed to say sorry to each other.

This question does show that if you break up and choose to be friends, it means that both of you have the quality of a fool, otherwise you will not be able to do so.

Two people may feel more embarrassed in their hearts, and they will also feel particularly unwilling, and at the same time, they will not know how to get along for a while.

I used to love, but you also hurt me, I can't love you anymore, but I can't let you go all at once, that's all.

You can still be good friends behind your hands, these two people are too careful, how big can they be friends?

When you break up, you are no longer friends.

Don't be friends anymore.

Because it will hurt heartache.

Because I really loved.

You can't continue to be friends after a breakup, because no matter whether the other party is happy or sad, you can't treat it with a normal heart. Anyone who wants to be friends after a breakup still has illusions about this relationship, hoping that the old feelings will be rekindled in the future.

But breaking up is not a person's thing, and wanting to be together again is not a person's thing. Wanting to be friends after a breakup was a wrong idea from the beginning.

And there is no need to continue to be friends after breaking up, since the breakup is definitely not suitable for two people, continuing to be friends will be particularly embarrassing in many ways, and they will leave some illusions about their feelings, and it is inevitable that there will be some entanglements.

It's better not to contact, don't disturb each other, let go of that relationship, start a new life, a new relationship, and you will meet many people in your life, and you will always meet the right person.

Extended information: After breaking up, you should try to go outside as much as possible, don't think about each other often, and come out slowly.

1. Don't give up on yourself.

After the breakup, you must be optimistic, face everything in reality, you can't complain about others, close yourself, think that it's all your own problems, wash your face with tears every day, tell others about your pain, discomfort, grievances, how much you miss him, and then become more and more decadent, let down others' concern for you, and negatively face your future life.

If you are like this, you will only make the other party look down on you. You have to face life with a positive and optimistic attitude, wipe away your tears and move forward in style. No one can live without anyone, and after leaving, I will live better, and I have to say this to myself often.

2. Don't see each other again after a breakup.

Don't meet again if you break up, meeting will only sting each other's hearts, because you used to love each other, you used to hurt each other, and when you meet, it will only remind each other of those unpleasant memories, after the breakup, there is no benefit in meeting, not friends, not lovers, in what capacity did you meet.

When you break up, turn around gracefully and leave, don't think about meeting under any pretext, because you're about to start a new life of your own.