What if you ve been lonely at school?

In today's society, whether you are in a laughing environment, or on a bustling street, or alone in a room, you will feel lonely, but loneliness is not terrible, but some people will become very depressed because of loneliness, and finally lead to depression. So, learn to overcome loneliness and face loneliness bravely. Below, I will say some ways on how to overcome loneliness, I hope it will help you.

First of all, if you feel lonely at school, you can chat with your classmates, and in the process of chatting, your mood will become pleasant. If you have any worries or feel lonely, you can find a close classmate to talk to, tell your troubles, and vent your dissatisfaction. By venting and talking, you will feel comfortable and you will not feel lonely.

When you talk, your friends can also give you advice and advice.

Then, if you feel lonely, you can distract yourself from it. Find something that interests you to do, and when you put your heart and soul into it, you won't feel any loneliness. You can study, read, listen, etc. to transfer loneliness.

So, if you look for something that you are interested in doing at school, you will be happy.

Secondly, when you feel that loneliness is coming, you go to exercise and eliminate loneliness in your workout. You can go to play basketball, badminton or go to the playground for a run, and it is best to sweat, sweating will expel all the bad cells in the body. Your mood won't be clogged.

Finally, I would like to say that you don't become more lonely because of loneliness, you don't let yourself be idle, find something to do, forget about loneliness in the busyness, and you can also gain something.

There are many people who think that they will not feel lonely at school, but they will be lonely at home, and such a person will feel that he is not at home or there is no one at home who he feels trusted, and he will feel that he is not as good at school as at home. I don't think I'm lonely at home, I'm lonely at school, I've always been very lonely at school.

Because I didn't know how to be friends with others at school, and I didn't know how to do what others liked, I didn't feel lonely at school, and finally I became not lonely, and now I don't feel any loneliness, and I learned the anti-law to make myself not lonely at school.

In fact, you have been feeling lonely at school, that is your own reason, if you are an introvert at school and do not know how to interact with others, then you will definitely be a lonely person at school, you do not contact others, others will not know your character, we make friends are to make friends with their own personality, with similar behavior habits to themselves.

If you feel lonely at school, you should make more intimate friends, as long as you have more friends, you won't feel lonely, this is what I have experienced, if you don't have a friend at school, you will be bullied at school and be isolated by everyone, because a person has no friends in a school, others have questioned why you have no friends, and some people will also say bad things about you, I was scolded by others when I didn't have friends before, and they all said that I was depressed, which is nothing to me, There's more, if you have a friend who hears someone say that about you, he'll scold you back, but I didn't, and now I'm sick when I feel that way.

The most important thing for a person to make himself not lonely is to have a lot of friends, and only friends can make you change.

I think it's normal to be lonely in modern society, in fact, loneliness will be more suitable for the fast pace of this society, I remember someone said that in this era, you can't be embarrassed to say that you live in this era if you have depression.

Yes, this is indeed a sick society. When I first came to university, I was full of longing for school, and I thought that club activities in TV dramas and study competitions were places where I could make a lot of friends, but when I came to university, I realized that something was different. It is also possible that I did not do well in the college entrance examination and the university I went to was not very good, anyway, I just think that the university is not full of books, but full of hormonal explosions.

During the military training, they were all freshmen who had just entered the school, but before the military training was completed, there were already pairs. Compared to them, I feel that I am very lonely, let alone a boyfriend, and I don't know a few friends. I think what is necessary in college is a pair of headphones, to be able to listen to ** alone on the way to and from school, and slowly appreciate ** on the road alone, as if the world has no contact with me.

But I knew I wasn't going to be lonely forever, and as time went by, I started to make more friends, read more books, and learn things that I didn't have extra time to study in high school, and everything got better, so what if I didn't have friends? There is a ** house in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book, in the sea of books, I will not feel lonely, because knowledge is with me....

So when you're lonely, don't envy other people's pairs, you have to find your partner, not a boyfriend or girlfriend or anything, but do what you have to do in your prime grade.

During the school period, we can make friends in the most ways, and it is also very easy, we can make friends, because we are students who do not have too many defenses, as long as we treat each other with sincerity, all friends can be made. Let me talk about ways to get out of loneliness during school.

In school, all the people we come into contact with are about the same age as us, and many topics can be talked about together, we open our mouths to talk to people more, so that we will find a lot of friends, and you have had the same experience but the same hobbies, not all people in the school are different from you, don't blindly live a three-point life, to diversify your life, to experience some things that have not been experienced, because you have not experienced a period of things, there will be a lot of friends, Being with you struggling with the same goal so that we will have a big topic in common without feeling like the loneliest person in the world. We put our ideas out and he says what he thinks, so that it will be a win-win situation, and no one can do without anyone.

If you want to try it in the afternoon, you can read a book, go on an outing by yourself, take a look at the different scenery, and take the initiative to share it with everyone when you come back, so that everyone can harvest the most beautiful scenery you get, so that everyone will associate with you, maybe go out with you to see the scenery outside, at this time you will find that you are not alone, you are the most favored one, because you get what others do not get, you can also go to participate in more activities held by the school. Show everyone what you do best. Blend in with everyone's circle

Try to open your heart, make some friends, and don't close yourself off too much.

That means that your communication skills are too weak, and you should make more friends to enrich your spare time.

First of all, if it is due to low self-esteem, not being able to communicate with other people, resulting in yourself being lonely. It is necessary to overcome low self-esteem, a person is confident enough, full of smiles to face life, self-confidence, everyone has strengths and weaknesses, the courage to discover their own shining points, integrate into everyone, and make progress together.

Secondly, if you can also find an old friend, dig out his address book to chat, take out your own album and flip through it, you can also write a letter to your friends and family.

Finally, we need to dare to communicate with others, and sometimes we feel ten times more lonely when we are alone. It's because you don't fit in with the people around you. Therefore, when dealing with others, no matter what the situation, you must be "selfless" and try to do something for others, you should know how to warm others at the same time, but also yourself.