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Parents who treat their daughters as outsiders must have a patriarchal mentality. It's a bit of water spilled by a married daughter, so I don't want to invest too much, and I think my daughter is someone else's family. Only when he is old will he experience the warmth of having a daughter.
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It may be inaccurate or unjust to say that a daughter is an outsider. This view may stem from differences in family culture, traditions, or values, or from problems in the relationship between parents and daughters.
In some cultures, relationships between family members may be more intimate, and interactions between parents and children may be closer. In this case, the argument that the daughter is an outsider may not apply to such a family.
However, in other cultures, family members may be more distant from each other, and there may be less interaction between parents and children. In this case, it may be more appropriate to say that the daughter is an outsider.
Regardless of the background, the relationship between family members should be based on mutual respect, trust and support. If a daughter feels like an outsider by her parents, then it could be a sign that something is wrong with the family relationship and positive steps need to be taken to improve it.
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Parents who treat their daughters as outsiders are generally patriarchal people, they regard their sons as important and their daughters as unimportant, and treat their daughters as outsiders. In fact, it should not be obvious that parents are generally patriarchal nowadays.
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As follows:
1. Use children as a tool to vent: Some parents just use their children as a tool for their own venting, and when they encounter problems in life or work, they will beat their children and use their children as a tool to be angry, such people are not worthy of being parents.
2. I don't care about you at all: Some children are the ornaments of their parents, and they don't care about them at all, whether it's academic, physical, or even life.
3. It will only hit you: Such parents will only hit you since childhood, no matter what you do well or not, they will only belittle you, and what children need most is praise and encouragement, otherwise the blow will only make the child inferior.
4. There is eccentricity: some families will have several children, but parents will be partial to one of them, only like their son or only like their daughter, and the other is like picking up, and the huge eccentricity will make the child have a psychological shadow.
5. Expectations of you are too high: Many people want their children to become successful after becoming parents.
Cheng Feng will be able to make a difference in the future and have great hopes for his children, but often this time it backfires, so parents will be very disappointed in their children.
6. Annoyed when they see you: Many parents get along with their children, and they become very annoying when they don't get along with their children, they are annoyed when they see their children, and they don't like to play with their children, and they don't like to communicate with their children, and the children are a trouble for them.
7. You must listen to your parents: Many parents think that their children should listen to their own words, and they will not take into account their children's feelings and thoughts at all, even if they do not do it right, they will make their children think that they are right.
8. Never feel sorry for you: Other people's parents are very sorry for their children and don't want their children to suffer a little grievance, but some parents don't feel sorry for their children, and their hearts are very cold-blooded, just like children are not their biological flesh and blood.
9. You can abandon you at will: Some parents don't have children at all in their eyes, they regard themselves as the most important, and they will even abandon them and leave them when they don't need them, they are selfish, they only love themselves and don't love their children.
10. Don't care about your feelings: Children will have their own strange ideas when they grow up, but some parents don't care about their children's thoughts at all, and will only go their own way and ignore their children's feelings.
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The daughter is not an outsider, and if the daughter's education is good, it is an intimate padded jacket, and if the education is not good, she is born by herself.
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The daughter will not be an outsider, the daughter and the son are as close to the father as the mother, but some old people are deeply rooted in their thinking that the son is good because the son's child can follow his surname, and the daughter's child will follow the husband's surname.
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The daughter is legally an immediate family member, and the blood relationship with the noisy parents cannot be severed. Outsiders are not responsible for providing for the elderly, if you call your daughter just an outsider, then Shuliang doesn't plan to let his children support himself.
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For patriarchal people, it is an outsider, (daughters, after getting married, generally move around for two generations and are not very close, this is a fact).
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Yes, some people regard their married daughters as outsiders, so sometimes daughters really feel that they are outsiders.
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The daughter and son-in-law are family members, and the son and daughter-in-law are outsiders.
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It depends on what kind of person the parents are, and some parents will not treat their daughters as outsiders.
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There has always been a saying that the daughter who married out spilled the water, in fact, whether it is Erhuiwan or her daughter, she was raised by her own hard work, so it is impossible to treat them as outsiders.
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Behaviors in which parents treat their daughters as outsiders may include the following:
1.Ignoring their daughter's needs and feelings: Parents may be more concerned about their son's needs and feelings than their daughter's. They may focus more on their son's life and interests and neglect their daughter's.
2.Lack of communication: Parents may think that their daughter does not need much communication and attention, so there is less communication with their daughter. They laugh at Woopi who may be more willing to communicate with their son and share more things.
3.Assign different tasks and responsibilities: Parents may give their sons more responsibilities and opportunities and let their daughters take on fewer tasks and responsibilities. For example, let your son help with household chores or take care of younger siblings, while your daughter can focus on her studies or beauty.
4.More demanding of their daughters: Parents may have higher expectations and demands on their daughters, especially when it comes to schoolwork and household chores. They may think that their daughter should work harder and be better to prove her worth by hitting the wrong side.
5.Disrespecting their daughter's decisions: Parents may be more inclined to follow their son's decisions and less respectful of their daughter's opinions and choices. They may think that their son is more capable of making decisions, while their daughter needs more guidance and control.
It is important to note that every family's situation is different, and these manifestations are only possible examples of orange rottenness, and do not necessarily mean that parents are deliberately treating their daughters as outsiders. If your daughter feels neglected or not understood, she can try to communicate with her parents and express her feelings and needs in search of a better relationship and communication.
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I'm like that, I think my parents are like that, but they won't say it. I think they want to give us the freedom to do what we want, so I won't say it, I think we have to understand them more. In fact, we all know that our parents love us, but sometimes we just can't understand them, we don't want to be too careful, we also have to understand them, they also have their difficulties.
The performance of parents treating their daughters as outsiders is that they will not take their daughters in their hearts, they will not treat their daughters as their own family, they will treat their innocent daughters as outsiders. I think it's very correct that parents don't treat their daughters as outsiders, because they treat their daughters as if they were their own children, so they don't treat their daughters as outsiders. The performance of parents treating their daughters as outsiders is that they will not take their daughters in their hearts, they will not treat their daughters as their own family, they will treat their daughters as outsiders.
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