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It is true that many things need to be considered by parents for you, but they do not have to help you think about it, they gave birth to you, gave you food and drink so much, you should be grateful to them for these alone, not complain here. However, it is more annoying to talk about all your thoughts, and you should focus more on yourself than on your parents.
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Don't bother your parents, it's a show off of your accomplishments, so it's a kind of satisfaction for parents.
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If you really do it, you will live on your own, and gradually become independent from your mother.
If you can't do it, you can communicate well, saying I don't like you to tell others about my privacy, as for money, the world of mothers is very complicated, you think it's a favor, parents may think it's not, you can try to explain the doubts in your heart. It is also time to try to quietly infiltrate to understand their luck.
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It's so annoying, if you can't live together, don't live together, or you'll have to go crazy sooner or later. My mom has a similar obsessive personality and has to do what she says. I've long since learned to ignore her.
People still have to learn to be independent, and they have to think about everything before they speak, even if they are relatives, they don't know if it's your privacy, so it's better to talk less.
It is enough to be financially independent or stay away from your parents, reduce contact, and do your best as a child within your ability.
When I didn't make trouble, my parents were similar to this, and I wasted my own energy because of my parents at that time, and I was constantly withering with my parents. So you still have to work hard to improve yourself, make yourself stronger, come on.
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My parents' generation is like this, so I have always kept it a secret, don't tell them anything, as long as they know it alone, the whole big family knows, I know this very well, don't take it seriously, what if you know? Relatives are like that, let them pay, it's really the same as a turtle with a shrunken head, don't pay, Baribala has a lot to say.
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Maybe they care too much about you, no mother is not for the good of their children, maybe we can't understand the way they choose, but we also have to look at it in a rational way.
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I think it's not just you, everyone will have this similar experience, what we need to do is to be ourselves, go our own way, let others say, no one is perfect, everyone is deficient, we have to give full play to our strengths, to make up for our shortcomings.
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The old thinking of the parents' generation always wants to know everything about their children, and there is a generation gap. Communicate well with your parents, tell them what they like and don't like, if you don't like her and always ask your secrets, just tell her that this is your privacy, everyone has privacy, and they have the right not to tell others. Be clear to your parents.
As for the relatives, leave them alone, they can't discuss you for the rest of your life, right?
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Hello, I think you say this about your parents, don't you think it's too much? With them, you have the current you, admitting that they are more annoying, but no matter how they give birth to you and raise you, they are also your parents, if you have any complaints, you can tell them, or move out to live, but if you talk about your parents like this, won't your conscience hurt? Maybe their cognition is different from your cognition, but you also have to understand their original intentions, I think you should have a good talk, you treat your parents like this, do you think about what your children will do to you in the future?
Compare your heart to heart, you will be a parent one day, your approach, can your children understand?
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Don't say that, your parents gave you life. They don't do it right, and a lot of adults do. I also sometimes annoy my parents and relatives.
But there's really no way, you can't treat your parents and relatives like you treat your friends, vent your emotions or even scold at will, you can only make yourself better and try not to live with them. Good luck.
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It sounds a little annoying, mainly because your mother's behavior is also quite annoying, why do you have to share the child's secret with others, I think it is out of concern for you, I understand your troubles, if you are an adult, I suggest you go out for a while, see the outside world, don't stay in such an environment all the time, go out and break more, experience yourself, maybe your concept will also change to a certain extent, your parents and relatives will also change to you.
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It seems that you are a rebellious child, if there is anything to talk to your parents, you can also tell the teacher your thoughts through the teacher to talk to your parents, it is not easy for parents to give birth to you children, don't be willful. There are no parents in the world who do not love their children, think about what they have done wrong, as long as they talk to their parents about nothing that cannot be solved, I wish you to study hard and grow up healthy and happy.
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Parents are proud of you, they think you are very good and it is a pride to show off your affairs, and relatives also want to borrow some light, in fact, it is normal, the so-called soldiers will block, water will cover up, and it will be okay to speak strategically in the future.
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Such parents and relatives are indeed rare, and it is reasonable for you to be annoyed. The love of parents for their children is the most selfless and greatest love in the world, they must love you, but the way of expression is too strange, find a time for a family to communicate and talk well, and it will be good to say what you want to say.
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According to your account, the parents of the annoying people are the relatives of the annoying people? I feel that your outlook on life is wrong, I feel that you are misanthropic, you hate, you hate all people, you are dissatisfied with everything. Nausea suffers from your own causes, don't mistake other people's love for you, or other people's concern for you, for annoyance.
There is no parent who does not love his children. Only your parents and family will be the ones you really care about. The key is that you have a correct attitude towards life and meet everything in your life with a positive and optimistic attitude, then it will be better.
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What's wrong with your mother, relatives, do you have nothing to do? Otherwise, how could it be so boring. If what you say is true, then it is either that you have done something that makes them feel uneasy and follow you out of love.
If not, then it can only be said that you are really unlucky.
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First, how old are you? After the age of 18, you can be independent, and it is normal for your parents not to give you money, and you are not qualified to say this, second, it is difficult for relatives to borrow money, because it will be even more difficult to urge you to repay the money when the time comes.
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There will always be some troublesome things in life, alas, life is just like a thing, chasing the development of things. When you think that the parents of the annoying people are the relatives of the annoying people, it shows that there is a big and deep generation gap between you and them. You can't talk calmly about your mind together, you always think that he is taking your secret and what else is the problem.
When you allow them to be in their circle, you will see that they will be just as annoyed as you are.
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Since parents defend their sons, how can they still tell others everything? Parents are all for their sons, there are very few parents like you, for the sake of their son's future and marriage, parents try their best to make money, parents like you rely on you, then several relatives are calculating you, so how can this be their dearest person? So you have to be a little more mindful yourself, don't tell others everything, even your own parents are like that, just like people often say now, you have money, he is jealous that you have no money, he looks down on you, and now it is like this, plus your own family is also a kiss, it is all like this, you have money to get closer, you don't care about you if you don't have money, so now it is better to rely on anyone, it is better to rely on yourself, so you must be self-reliant and strong.
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It feels like writing a story, and there are very few such acts of loved ones!
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Don't say that about parents, parents are for their children, maybe their methods are not right, you can communicate well.
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How old are you? Do you want your parents to give you money? You come out to work and support yourself, your parents are not worried about you, in their hearts you are a child who has not grown up, what do you care about them?
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The older generation is like this, people in their era don't have much contact with the Internet, and when they are idle and bored all day long, they like to get together for a short time to chat, a little bit of wind and grass, it will be spread all over the city, especially in the countryside, our family is like this, just get used to it.
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Hello dear, sorry to hear your trouble. If you feel like you're annoying your parents, one of the best solutions is to communicate openly with them and get to the root of the problem. First, try to understand what you are annoying your parents about hail oranges.
Is it because your behavior, attitude, or words make them feel frustrated or confused? Or is it because they expect too much or unrealistic from you? Next, consider how you can change this.
You can try to do things that will make your parents happy and satisfied, such as helping with household chores or getting involved in more family activities. At the same time, you can also discuss your feelings and thoughts with them to achieve better communication and understanding. Finally, remember that relationships between family members are mutual, and your parents will have their own problems and challenges.
Respect and understand each other's positions to build a healthier and positive family environment.
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