Why are some people selfish but very popular?

Foreword: In fact, we all know that people are originally selfish, which is the basis of life reproduction, which is also everyone's humanity.

Of course, when we talk about selfishness here, we are not completely selfish, and if we don't have someone else's kind of thing at all, we can't establish any relationship.

The second refers to being selfish in the relationship to calmly put yourself first and prioritize yourself.

The more selfish people are, the healthier they are, and there is truth to this statement.

The more selfish a person is, the more capable he is of thinking.

The more elaborate and complex it is.

We usually know that those who are selfish are often very calculating.

In fact, this kind of selfishness is the character of a simple person, while generosity and open-mindedness are the selfishness that hides the magic power.

Because the appearance between the two is different, one is direct and the other is tortuous, so the feelings brought to us are not the same.

In life we always feel that selfishness is a derogatory term, but it is not.

Sometimes the reason why you don't feel happy enough is because you're too selfless.

Does selfishness make us feel happier? Let's look at this from a psychological perspective.

Selfish people, their hearts are actually healthy, and they are not prone to psychological diseases.

Not to mention evolving from living things.

From the point of view, selfishness is the nature of human beings and the basis for the reproduction of life.

The reason why a person always feels unhappy and unhappy may be because he is too selfless.

So much so that everything will be for the sake of others, so that it will make you very tired.

So will selfish people really be happier than ordinary people, today we will analyze this problem together.

1.Selfish people are not prone to mental illness.

We found in psychology cases that people suffer from depression.

Most of them are very docile and know how to be humble.

Even in the eyes of others, they are often good people, and you like to look at problems from other people's perspectives in life.

Among people with depression, there are very few people who are selfish.

On the contrary, they are healthier and less susceptible to mental illness.

First of all, we need to know that the cause of depression is often caused by self-blame.

People with depression often tend to blame everything on themselves.

And constantly blame yourself, and finally lead to yourself not being able to figure it out and causing yourself psychological problems.

Those who are selfish and self-interested, they are often self-centered and rarely think about the people around them, so when problems arise, they rarely look for problems in themselves.

Because in their hearts they think that all faults are the fault of others.

Two scenarios.

One is a selfish person with a higher social status and a more important position. There is a wide range of people who come and go, and there must be communication. Therefore, it is impossible to avoid contact in work or life, because of its status, it has improved popularity.

There is also a kind of selfishness that although he is selfish, he is more sleek, eloquent, cheerful, long-sleeved and good at dancing, and can mingle with others, so it seems that his popularity will be very good.

This kind of person's popularity is better on the surface, but in fact it is not good, although it is said that he can speak, will coax people, and will make people who don't know themselves feel very good, but after a long period of contact, others will recognize you as a person and see your true face clearly, so there are many eyes, selfishness and selfishness can not get the sincerity, and friends cannot be recognized by the people around them, so I say that this kind of person has a good relationship on the surface, but after a long period of contact, his relationship is not good.

1 person has high EQ and high IQ.

2. People can communicate and have communication skills.

3 people are good at observing, summarizing things, and are very good at pondering all kinds of people.

4. People have more experience and more contact, so they are naturally popular.

Because others may not necessarily see the cruelty and viciousness you see!

Broaden your heart, broaden your horizons, do your own thing, other people's business, you just look at it, there is no need to go to your heart! If it doesn't hinder you, even if it hinders you, if you can't beat others, then endure it silently!

Learn to let go, or change the environment!

It shows that although this person is selfish, he is very good at dealing with others, and his communication skills are very good.

Because they are very outgoing and cheerful, they prefer to take the initiative to distance themselves from others.

Learn to let go, or change the environment!