Why do men accept second married women but don t accept wrongdoing?

It's just an excuse, a lot of people are married, it's nothing, it's normal.

In fact, when a man chooses to accept a second marriage. His state of mind was corrected. He recognized his abilities.

I know my makeup. I don't care about love anymore. It's just a matter of getting by.

If one day she soars. Just ran away. He's dead.

In this life, the only thing he cares about is himself. No one else.

It is easy to accept a second-married woman, but it is difficult to accept a second-married woman's children. Because after getting married, there will be disputes over the management of children

I don't care, since he must have a reason for the failure of his first marriage, the landlord can find out whether his failed marriage is also due to playfulness, is it a man who doesn't care about his family? If this is the case, your age is very far apart, in addition to marriage as a basis for feelings, it is more important to consider practical life issues, like the landlord's description feels that he is not suitable for married life! In addition, it also depends on whether the man has children and other related issues such as divorce "sequelae", in short, I feel that it is better for you not to live together, such a man may not be accepted by parents!

I don't know, my colleague is very beautiful, she was not chaste before she got married, and then she broke up, and she married her current husband, I don't know if her husband minded her unchastity, and then divorced again with her son, and the son is her husband's, not her ex-boyfriend's.

Some people say that non-virgin children are not pure, I don't know if this is true, and some people say that women will change their body odor after their first sex, which is really scary to hear.

Hello, marrying a non-virgin and a second marriage, the difference is in getting a marriage certificate, the non-virgin is legally considered unmarried, but the second marriage is different.

There is no difference, I think you should choose the former, the former can be single-minded, and the latter has children, do you think he can be single-minded with you?

There are relative people for what kind of people to marry, depending on what kind of person you like and what kind of person is suitable.

What are the following reasons why men are reluctant to accept a second-married woman? ：

1. First marriage complex.

Men have a first-marriage complex, which is a deep-rooted concept, because from childhood to adulthood, what men hear most about marriage is "marriage is a major event in a man's life, and you will be very happy if you find a good wife". These simple words imply that a man will marry a good wife with one blow, and the good mentioned here does not include second-married women. Moreover, once someone around you marries a second-married woman, it will provoke all kinds of people to gossip, which inadvertently deepens the man's first marriage complex.

2. Emotional cleanliness.

Compared with women, men will care more about women who have had relationships with other men, and he will label second-married women as "dirty", so that he will reject second-married women without thinking. A bystander may tell him not to think about it so much, but he can't help but think about it in his heart.

3. Psychological shadows.

The internal factors of men's reluctance to accept second-married women, in addition to emotional cleanliness, also have psychological shadows. The psychological shadow mentioned here is: he will regard the woman's previous divorce as the woman's fault, and feel that it is the woman's problem that her husband will divorce her.

Thinking of this, the man will unconsciously have a psychological shadow in his heart, he is afraid that if he marries a second-married woman, one day he will divorce because he can't stand her, so he will not accept this alone.

4. Self-esteem.

In fact, the reason why men are reluctant to accept a second-married woman is, fundamentally, self-esteem at work. He is afraid that after marrying a second-married woman, he will be laughed at by others, he will feel that it is not meaningful to have a first marriage, he will feel that his feelings are not pure, and he will feel that a woman has a problem and ruin himself, he not only cares about his image in the eyes of others, but also cares that he will be invalidated. Can these so-called self-esteem be thrown away?

It can be thrown away, but it requires a man to have great perseverance, which ordinary men can't do.

The above 4 points are the reasons why men are reluctant to accept second-married women, although it seems hypocritical, but men are like this. So, if you are a second-married woman, when you like a man and he shows any of the above, you have to get acquainted with each other and leave, because once he doesn't want to accept it, he will never accept it. So is there a man who can accept a second-married woman?

Of course, there is, the kind of man is relatively high, and you need to look for it slowly.