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It is often said that daughters should be filial, and when their parents are old, daughters will generally be more filial than sons. However, the latest news has mixed feelings.
The father threw his daughter into a bag on the cliff, what about the son?
In Gaozhou City, Guangdong Province, a newborn baby girl was thrown off a cliff by her father in a woven bag. **After 12 hours of searching with volunteers, the girl was still clinging to a branch. The girl is currently in good health and is being treated in hospital**.
The man told ** that he liked boys more than girls and that he wanted to have a boy before the child was born. However, when he gave birth to another girl, he put the child in a snakeskin bag in the middle of the night and threw it in the wild. The girl's father has been criminally detained.
It's only because of his own preference that he would do such a stupid and barbaric act, Ah Xixu. This reminds us of a news story that happened last year.
In September 2017, a newborn baby girl was abandoned in the green belt of Longhu Sixth Station in Dawukou, Shizuishan City, Ningxia. There was a note on the child's body that read: "Some kind people have adopted this child, we can wait for a son." ”
What a reason!
In 2008, the World Bank reported that 1.09 million newborns died or "disappeared" due to sex-selective abortion, drowning, abandonment, and other causes. In recent years, the news of the abandonment of baby girls has been commonplace, and they have even been denied the right to see the world simply because of their gender!
According to the latest census, China's total population is 100 million, of which 700 million are men and 100 million are women, a difference of 30 million. In 2016, the male population outnumbered the female population by more than 30%.
In the next 30 years, China's 30 million marriageable men may not be able to find a partner.
Even in today's society, outdated and decadent ideas still affect people's daily lives, and there is still a considerable market for patriarchy in society. Ancient family values also play an important role in the abandonment of baby girls, with many believing that daughters must eventually marry off rather than grow old.
Times have long since changed. It is now a modern society that promotes equality between men and women. It is no longer an old, decadent feudal society, and the idea of patriarchy has long been thrown into the garbage.
The son's preference ruined the child's life, please don't treat them unfairly.
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I believe that more and more people will begin to value women over men, and my country's male singles have reached more than 30 million, and when there are more men and fewer women, it will lead to most people preferring women over men!
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The patriarchal ideology is a feudal superstition and a distorted psychology, and the harm caused by patriarchy should be severely cracked down.
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At present, some large cities no longer have such a concept, and some rural areas still have such a concept, and if we want to completely eliminate it, it is necessary to improve people's literacy.
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Preference for sons over daughters is a bad habit left over from feudal society. It is mainly influenced by the concept of inheritance and raising children to prevent old age. Addressing the patriarchal phenomenon requires a dismantling of these toxic beliefs.
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I believe that when the post-80s and post-90s are parents, this concept will slowly change, and the older generation is mainly influenced by traditional feudal thinking, so there will be a traditional concept of patriarchy.
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I think this kind of thing is really inhumane, and the preference for sons should stop immediately.
The biological father is his biological father, his biological father, and the father who gave birth to you and raised you is him.
Let's talk to him first, if not, we won't ask him. Women can also hold up half the sky. Why rely on men. It's not impossible to work your own, and it's not impossible for your children to be raised. Be sure to live well to show those stinky men...
I don't know why you separated from your father, but at the end of the day, it's a good thing, and you should try to communicate with your father. The most precious thing in the world is family affection, and there is a harbor where you can anchor, which is worth cherishing. As for how much of this love belongs to you, only if you have worked hard to communicate, you will have the same harvest.
In fact, both parents are your family; First of all, you must respect your wife, find a time to discuss how to deal with it, I believe your wife will understand, and then go to visit or take care of the elderly together!
It should be very hurt in my heart, especially when I see that other people's children are so close to their fathers, I will inevitably feel a little jealous, I sometimes wonder if I am his biological child, why do you treat me like this? Especially for me as a girl, I really want to have a father's love!