What does it feel like to be enlightened? What does it mean to have an epiphany? How do you explain

For people, it is a man's responsibility and obligation to earn money to support his family, and a woman is to be a housewife at home and take care of children to do housework. In life, the cost of life is very large, especially after having a baby, you will have a deeper understanding of how important money is, and for men who earn money outside, they only know how to make money, everything at home is taken care of by their wives, and the cost of life is only known to the women in the family, and men sometimes think that you are a "loser" woman because you ask him for living expenses. Therefore, for women who are already mothers, they must have their own jobs and their own "small coffers" when necessary, so that they can spend money freely.

People are becoming more and more mature, with the increase of experience, the increase of knowledge, the broadening of vision, coupled with their own thinking, slowly will understand a lot of things that I did not understand when I was a child.

Cherish the company with your parents and loved ones. When I was young, I always thought that the future would be long, but in fact, the years always passed in a hurry. When parents are old and old, cherish every day when they can be filial to their parents, because every day of having parents is happiness.

Children grow day by day, their wings are growing, and one day they will leave us to create their own lives. Cherish the years of firewood, rice, oil and salt between husband and wife, and only each other is the one who will spend the rest of their lives hand in hand.

When I don't have children, I am always full of energy and vigorous, and I always seem to know the hard work and the taste of tiredness. After having children, I always feel that there is not enough rest time, and I am busy with care, companionship, and education. I can't wait to play a few roles by one person, it's really a lack of skills.

Only then did I understand that our parents had worked so hard to take care of us, as the saying goes, if you don't raise children, you don't know the kindness of your parents, which is exactly what it means.

From the beginning of looking for a partner after work, your parents will tell you more or less: to find someone with better conditions, you who have not experienced the hardships of life will definitely feel that love is more expensive. But when you really marry a person who has no material foundation and get married, and you are exhausted all day long in order to save money, and your life is embarrassed, then one day you will either be self-reliant and take on everything, or you will flee because you can't stand such a life

The truth that the conditions are better will be particularly impressive.

From the day we started school, our parents would tell us to study hard and grow up to have a good job. I didn't listen to my dad well at that time, I was always naughty, I didn't listen well in class, and I didn't do my homework well every time the teacher assigned. A diploma from a good university has an advantage over a diploma from a general university in the face of recruitment from large companies, regardless of your own ability!

I regret that I didn't study hard in the first place.

In love, the order in which people appear is very important, just like the person who accompanies you to get drunk when you are sad and sad, and is destined to have no way to accompany you home. Please forgive me for not being able to get drunk with you because I have to send you home.

I am 43 years old this year, and I have lived for 40 years to understand the truth, and I have lived in vain for the past 40 years: to be a man, to do things, to learn, we must follow the laws of nature; There will be no pie in the sky, and if there is a pie, there is a bigger pit waiting to bury you.

The rapid and direct entry into the ultimate enlightenment is called epiphany; Progressive enlightenment in sequence is called gradual enlightenment. In the fifth century of our country, the Nirvana Sutra was the mainstay, and there was a controversy about the theory of becoming a Buddha after an epiphany and gradually becoming a Buddha. Subsequently, the doctrine of enlightenment and enlightenment was confirmed by the translation of the forty volumes of the Nirvana Sutra.

Zen Buddhism in China, depending on the differences in the doctrines of selling and excavating, has produced different sect styles, that is, the Huineng system in the south (called Nanton) and the Shenxiu system in the north (called Beiji). In the Dharma Xiang Sect, those who are indefinite in nature of the Bodhisattva must go through the process of sound hearing and relational awareness before they can return to the heart and enter the Bodhisattva path, which is called the Bodhisattva of gradual enlightenment, also known as the Bodhisattva of returning to the heart; Those who are qualitative bodhisattvas, who can immediately enter the bodhisattva rank without going through this feast and spring journey, are called epiphany bodhisattvas, also known as straight to the bodhisattvas and great bodhisattvas. into a volume of intellectual treatises.

9. The volume of the Huayan Sutra Exploration of the Mysteries.

1. The Treatise on Enlightenment at the end of Volume 1 and the end of Volume 9 p5703

"Gradual enlightenment" is a paradoxical phrase that can be understood as a process of continuous gradual enlightenment, comprehension, and finally sudden epiphany. It is often used to describe the state of mind when learning and comprehending a certain idea or theory.

"Gradual awareness" refers to a gradual experience or feeling, which usually requires continuous exploration, discovery, thinking, practice, etc., and gradually accumulates understanding and knowledge.

"Epiphany" refers to a sudden enlightenment, a sudden enlightenment, the ability to thoroughly understand the problem, and grasp the essence and laws of things.

Therefore, the phrase "gradual enlightenment" encompasses not only the process of gradually understanding and comprehending a certain thought, but also the perception and experience of sudden realization and sudden enlightenment.

Gradual enlightenment refers to the process of repeated thinking, accumulation, experience, and practice over a period of time, and gradually gaining a deeper understanding of a certain problem or a certain realm, and finally suddenly comprehending its true essence and connotation at a certain moment (epiphany point), and reaching a state of sudden enlightenment and thorough comprehension. In this process, the gradual accumulation and deepening of cognitive experience is the foundation and premise of epiphany.

I think it was a completely accidental fate, and it happened by chance with a grateful heart.

This level of understanding is to slowly awaken and comprehend some things and things.

The question is a good one: slow road, slow understanding. What does it mean, solve my own personal understanding:

The slow road should also be called a long road, a long road of life, because it is long, so people's lives are very slow...

Slowly realize: Slowly comprehend this long road of life.

At each stage of life, you will have a different understanding of life, and this realization is enough for you to go to ** life.

I rarely type by myself, hopefully

Of course, we can also be together, after all, this is just my personal opinion.

Question 3: What does the lyrics mean Lyrics: Andy Lau Composer: Zhao Qin.

Immeasurable heart gives birth to blessings, and there is no limit.

There is no limit, life and love are connected.

Why do you turn a blind eye to the rules and set the circle?

Enlightenment, enlightenment, emptiness, willingness.

Question 4: Today, my girlfriend said to me inexplicably: You have been a little distracted recently!

Then let me slowly understand what she meant, please everyone, Bang Bang I You can think about whether you have been too busy to ignore her recently If it is true, maybe people are just talking to you I want you to concentrate on others in the future I wish you happiness.

Problem 5: No one understands and slowly realizes by themselves! Yes, okay.

We will. Thanks for the reminder.

Slowly realize it yourself.

Question 6: What does it mean to slowly comprehend and feel deeply touched and gradually grow and be quietly strong For a person, maybe the heart has been touched once, loved once, and it is stopped. It's that the eternal heart is dead, love is cold, love is impotent, and there is no love anymore ** Everything, ruined in a war of love, was once vigorous, and once was not loved, and it was cold in a blink of an eye.

Question 7: If there is something you can't figure out, you can slowly understand it. Is it true that enlightenment leads to Buddhahood? No, if you can't figure it out, you can think slowly and take a break.

Question 8: Listen to the language of a flower and understand what life means A flower, a flower blooms and falls, flourishes and rises, a flower and a world, a leaf and a Bodhi, all symbolize life.

Epiphany is to understand suddenly, gradual enlightenment is to understand slowly, the difference lies in a process. Epiphany is to understand what is going on at once, while gradual enlightenment is to understand little by little through something.

Epiphany refers to understanding in an instant, without dragging the mud and water, and gradual enlightenment refers to understanding slowly, which can only be understood after a period of time.

Dun is the present, the direct. Gradually, it is a chance for sentient beings, slowly and persistently. Water needs to be boiled for heat, when boiling water is gradual enlightenment, when the water is boiling, it is epiphany, and there is a gradual, gradually, they are one not two.

The difference is the length of time. Epiphany is painstaking study for a long time and understands everything in an instant, and gradual realization is to slowly understand a little bit as time goes on, and then there is a little understanding, and finally all understanding.

"Epiphany" means that I was very confused before, and then through some coincidences, I suddenly understood the mystery. "Gradual enlightenment" means to slowly comprehend the mystery through study.

The main thing is that the time is different, one is suddenly understood, and the other is realized after a while.