How to cultivate children s basic self care skills

Children are at home during the holidays, which is an excellent opportunity to cultivate self-care skills, and parents must not be overly spoiled and do everything.

When children have a certain ability to take care of themselves, they can not only meet their own development needs, but also become the foundation for their future survival in society.

2.Involve your child in household chores such as cleaning, laundry, dishwashing, cooking, etc.

3.Be patient enough to nurture your child. At the beginning, the child's hands-on effect may not be ideal, and even the phenomenon of helping will not be helpful, so it is necessary to tolerate the gradual process of the child from "can't" to "can't".

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Parents are not ruthless to their children, they want to cultivate their children this, they want to cultivate their children that, it is all empty talk.

Treat children: especially "ruthless", especially "love".

Only by being ruthless, your child can grow, the consequence of doting can only be that he will never grow up, setbacks and ups and downs are the greatest wealth on the road of life, because with them, people will grow and move forward.

Indeed, children are always clinging to their parents, and parents are inevitably upset. From the age of three, children can slowly develop their independence and autonomy. The first and most important step in cultivating children's self-care ability is to let them feel the beauty of control and the charm of freedom.

When your child falls in love with the feeling of self-control, you will be motivated to train your "skills" so that you can have more freedom. As your child learns to walk, the more often he can practice as his mobility increases, so does the range of control he can control.

Parents should encourage their children to take every "adventure", properly soothe their fears and anxieties, and give him appropriate rewards when he completes an independent action, which can be a warm hug and sincere praise to encourage him to continue to work hard. Caressing him gently when he encounters setbacks makes him feel safe because you are there at all times.

So, the first step is to cultivate awareness and give him a taste of "sweetness". The second step is to teach the method, you must be patient, the child may not do well at the beginning, do it slowly, must not interrupt him in a hurry, replace him. Otherwise, he will be dependent on frustration and will not dare to try easily.

Third, when he completes a new "task", he must remember to give him loving encouragement, and a certain material reward is not unavoidable. Fourth, step by step, repeatedly.

Remember, don't be impatient. Be able to be "lazy" and "look on coldly". Parents love their children, and they should love their children in their hearts. When the child is older, he will eventually leave us, and parents should be "ruthless" to their children, cultivate their children's self-care ability from an early age, and implement it step by step.

When a child becomes an adult, parents try not to make decisions for their children and do not take too much responsibility for their children. In this way, children can recognize their own position more quickly and better integrate into their small family and this society. It is said that "real maternal love is a decent withdrawal", in fact, both fathers and mothers should do this, and at the appropriate time, exit gracefully, and applaud and cheer for the child behind their backs.

The key to cultivating children's self-care ability is to try to let parents go and let children do more. Make a schedule of some housework so that your child can do it better. When your child needs help, give you the help you can and some guidance on life experience.

Cultivate children's ability to dress themselves and go to school by themselves in daily life, and when children encounter any difficulties or problems, let children find their own ways to solve them, and if they can't solve them, they can find their parents to solve them.

First, let the child clean up his own clothes, and wash his own clothes when they are dirty; Second, let the child eat by himself, and don't feed the child all the time; Third, let children think independently and develop independent habits.

To cultivate children's self-care ability, the key points are: refer to the child's self-care ability, that is, the nearest development area. Small children can be trained to wear clothes and slip shoes; Small steps, follow the good path, don't be in a hurry, you can let him improve a little bit every day; Parents take the initiative to "show weakness" to solicit opinions and enhance their children's enthusiasm for participation.

The first thing is to let the child take care of his own affairs, for example, you can let the child wash or wash his hair by himself at night, and after eating, be sure to send the dishes and chopsticks to a fixed location.

Cultivating self-care ability can enhance children's sense of responsibility, develop the habit of sorting out their own things and doing their own things. Cultivating self-care skills also improves muscle groups and movement coordination, and tying shoes is a skill that not only improves finger dexterity, but also promotes hand-eye coordination.

To cultivate children's self-care ability, don't help the child with everything, do their own things, he can do his best, try not to help, such as wearing shoes, clothes, going to the toilet by himself, eating, etc., some old people chase the child to feed the behavior, extremely conniving, the child can not play his own ability.

It is good to cultivate children's ability to be self-reliant, and when children are doing things on their own, mothers should also help children, and should also remind children, and should teach children, give some suggestions to children, etc., these points are very good.

Let children do it themselves in life and improve their hands-on ability;

When parents are doing housework, they should involve their children and do it together.

When the child completes a task, give the child rewards and praise, so that the child gradually likes to do it.