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Let me tell you a story.
1995 year. One girl was transferred to the fifth grade of elementary school in a county town because of her family's connections. The little girl sat at the last table, and there was a little boy next door to hers, and the two of them had never spoken to each other or noticed each other in elementary school.
A year later, he went to the same middle school and was in the same class and table, until he graduated from high school. Three years later, the little girl went to a local high school, and the boy went to a secondary school in a different place, during which they occasionally wrote to each other. Two years later, the female student was in the third year of high school, and the male graduated and worked.
One year, the girl also went to a university in a certain city and met a lot of new friends, but he didn't contact each other again.
A year later, at a class reunion, the two bumped into each other, and the boy decided to give up his job and run to the girl's city to continue his student life in order to be with the girl. Shortly after the start of school, the girl said to him at the boy's school gate"In fact. Did you find out?
The two of us are not suitable. What I like is the freedom of life. Like a bird in the sky, it flies out"Since then, they have broken up, and the two of them have lived their own lives.
The girl naively fantasizes about Prince Charming at school. After the boy broke up, he gradually had more girlfriends. Years passed like this.
At another party, the two awkwardly met again. A friend who cared about them told the girl what the boy was thinking, and the boy had been liking the girl for more than ten years, and the girl was moved by it, and the two of them came together in this way. After a while, the woman really fell in love with the boy.
But at this time, the boy said that he actually had a girlfriend, and the boy said that his girlfriend came with him when he was in the most difficult time, so the two were quite affectionate. Since then, the girl always feels that he is a third party, and his friends around him also persuaded him to leave the boy, the boy told the girl to wait for him, he broke up with his girlfriend and was with the girl, and finally the three of them sat together to talk about it, both girls cried, and the boy found out that he was most concerned about his girlfriend rather than the girl, and his liking for the girl was just a feeling, and the liking for the girlfriend was a habitual like, and everything in the life of the girlfriend was not used to it, and it was estimated that this was a bit of a feeling of affection. Later, the girl broke up with the boy, leaving the boy with his last girlfriend in college.
How about this story, in fact, you can ask your boy to think carefully about how you and his girlfriend feel in his heart.
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How to say it. Ask your own heart first. Do you like him or not. If you like it, don't give it up. I also want to see who the man likes. Isn't it really like you. The last thing I want to say to you is. If you like it, you have to get it.
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If you like it, don't give it up.
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Happiness is a day, and so are troubles, right?
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You first have to figure out whether he loves you or not before you make a decision. You don't use so many white words, okay?
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In fact, online dating gives people a feeling of seeing the light and dying, but you have to see if you and him are really suitable.
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If you know how to be a man, give it back to her.
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First of all, make sure that you really like him, and secondly, if he really likes you, then you don't have to think too much, but look at your boyfriend's behavior, he seems to be very immature, and he has no sense of responsibility, so easily abandon his ex-girlfriend, you have to be cautious.
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Everyone goes through these tedious things, and some people are even more painful.
If you don't want to be crushed by your studies, don't want to have disputes in the family you form in the future, and don't want your interpersonal communication to be more chaotic and complicated;
Then you have to persevere, work hard, and don't give up.
A person's bitterness is not only the difficulties experienced, the real bitterness is when you recall what you have done in the past and find that none of the experiences are worth remembering.
Life is often a process of hard work when encountering difficulties.
Just like all fairy tales: all the protagonists go through all kinds of heartache and pain in exchange for their final happiness. (Cinderella, Snow White, The Ugly Duckling).
Touch your heart and tell yourself to go all out!
If you have given your best to get through this difficult time, then no matter what the result, you can calmly tell yourself: you will lose your life. You've done the best you can.
Treat the people around you well, study hard, life will always be bumpy, but your efforts will not be in vain.
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As the saying goes, there must be a road in front of the lane mountain! When God waited three days after Jesus was put to death, it would be Easter, and everything would have its own cause! Come on, get through it, tomorrow will be a sunny day!! Just concentrate on the exam.
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Watching the movie "Happy Ghost Upper Body" is very touching, let's cry.
Alas, it seems that you still can't let go, the one who is easy to be hurt in the emotional world is always the one who invests more, I believe you must be a good girl, his mother likes you so much, I hope you can heal the scars in your heart, I don't know how to cherish it is his fault, you must live a more wonderful life, I wish you happiness, I believe you will meet the person who really cherishes you.