Do you think having a second child is a good thing or a bad thing?

It is a good thing and a bad thing, because having 2 children can make your parents happy, and the more children you have, the happier you are, but you also have to combine your own conditions, if your conditions are suitable, it is a good thing, but if the conditions do not allow it. It's a bad thing, and it will increase the burden on your own family.

Giving birth to a second child is a bad thing, since I was pregnant with a second child, my in-law's family has completely changed, I don't care about anything, it's not good for me, money, reluctant to use, vegetables are reluctant to buy, prenatal examination cost thousands of dollars is taken by myself, last year I found tens of thousands of dollars, all used up, and looked at me coldly, I didn't divorce for the sake of the child, there is still a month to give birth, he was born anyway, it's a big deal to work hard for a few years, as long as he can go out to find money.

In today's high-consumption society, China's prices are too fast, and money is not as valuable as before. For raising children, milk powder, diapers and some peripheral items** are particularly expensive. And as children grow up, in this highly competitive society, various cram schools, interest classes and other educational expenses are also a lot of expenses.

Even if there is a subsidy of 30,000 yuan, it will not help and will not play a big role, so it is better not to have a second child.

It's a good thing to let the child have one more companion. There are some things that children don't want to talk to their parents, so they will hold it in their hearts, and now there is a person of his age who is very close to him, and he can also talk about his troubles, which is good.

I think sometimes it's a good thing, sometimes it's a bad thing, and it might make your life in. Brother Providence is much more colorful, little baby, but it may also bring some pressure to his own economy.

It's a good thing for the rich. It is a drag on the poor, especially the kind of poor who prefer sons over daughters, and have to give birth to boys in death, which is even worse.

I haven't thought about the second child, there is no such thing, now I have an only child in my family, life is happy and worry-free, the family is harmonious and happy, you just say three days and three nights of the second child policy and superiority, I am not tempted, now you take the throne with me in exchange for me I don't want, I am not smart, it is a small citizen, can not do big things, now the family is happy, ordinary people's lives, satisfied ......

Don't give birth. Other people's lives are in other people's family conditions. What loneliness, what has a companionship?

does not exist. Are you sure you haven't put the effort into raising two children? And how many celebrities are there in this society?

Give birth to a healthy one, let him grow up well, and don't be satisfied with the scum of society.

It's a good thing, otherwise why do so many people fight for second and third children.

If parents don't know how to guide, educate and nurture their children correctly, then having a second child is not a good thing! When the children grow up and become families, a series of problems will appear, such as: 1. Supporting and taking care of their parents, and the children will shirk their own; 2. In terms of dividing up money, children will also calculate with each other, and some will fight to the death and so on.

It's a good thing, it's better to give him a brother and sister to accompany him.

I think the second child must meet three conditions before it can be born, the first is to have the help of in-laws, the second husband is considerate, and the third is that the family is financially rich,,, so don't think about it.

It's a good thing to have a few more people if you are willing to give birth, and it's good to have one if you don't want to, and it's not bad to don't want a dink, and you know if you're going to have a good life in the future, just don't regret it.

It's good to be able to afford it, but it's okay to forget if you can't afford it, and it's easy for a child to suffer from family conflicts.

There is no good or bad, if you have a second child, you think it is good, and who says it is good. If you don't feel good, it's not good.

Nowadays, the elderly want them to have a second child, thinking that more children and grandchildren means more children. And when I'm older, I want my children and grandchildren around my knees.

It's not a question of having a second child, it's a question of whether you have money, you can have as many as you want if you have money, and you don't want one if you don't have money? If you have money, it is a good thing, and if you don't have money, it is a difficult thing.

Some are rich, some are free, and they are born when they are young, and the family is prosperous and full of children and grandchildren, which is enviable. The key is to meet certain conditions, which is a good thing. The social competition is so fierce, and families with average conditions in terms of conditions should think twice.

At most one is enough, it's boring, you have to live well for yourself, raise too much, the burden is heavy, you can't bear it, you can't bear it, I'm really sorry for myself, it's still a good Dink family, no worries.

I think there are too many children, and Cheng Huan is lively on his knees, but my husband insists that one child is enough, and he has no plans to have a second child at present.

In regret, going back in time, I will definitely listen to my husband's not to have a second child, I was unexpectedly pregnant and insisted on staying, and now I regret dying, it's really not a matter of words.

Spend more money, not to mention that there is one less person in the family to make money and take care of children, my family is now in this state, my father makes money alone, I have not worked at home for 8 years with two children, the small one goes to kindergarten and the big one together, the two expenses are very large.

If you can afford it, family harmony is a good thing, and vice versa.

It's a good thing for what you want!

Although there is financial pressure, I think it is good to have two children, and I really don't know what will happen in the future, although it is not good to think about it like this!

Bad. I didn't have a second child.

To give birth, the pressure of a child is too great. When the child gets married, all the problems will be on this one child.

Hopefully having a second child, having a second child will be a loss of freedom, but I do.

Here's an answer to that question for you. First of all, if you think that the more children, the better, since ancient times, China has had children and grandchildren, and there are many children and blessings. With the advent of family planning, how many social contradictions have been caused are obvious to all, and the most painful thing is that the old man has lost his independence.

Recently, there have been many reports that countless only children have been laid off early, and countless elderly people have been left alone, which should be the saddest thing in life.

In fact, the problem should be viewed in two parts, and people used to say: children and mothers suffer. It makes sense, the more children there are, the more parents work hard, pay more, and think about more things, in fact, a sheep is also driven, and a group of sheep is also released.

However, most children take care of each other, a lively big family and harmony, children and grandchildren, and prosperity, which is the traditional concept followed by Chinese.

The fewer children there are, the less work the parents have, and in the traditional Chinese concept, at least a son and a daughter are considered perfect. The traditional concept of raising children to prevent old age is deeply rooted in the hearts of Chinese. It doesn't matter if you have more or fewer children, but you can't do without.

As for whether having more children is a good thing or a bad thing. Personally, I think that good things are more celebrated than bad things, and the bad thing is that there are more children, and there will inevitably be some quarrels over the division of parents' property, and there will be certain differences of opinion on the parents' illness or supporting the elderly. The good thing is that there are more children, there are always a few accomplished people who can support each other, there is a place to discuss with each other, parents can take turns to take care of each other when they are sick, and parents can support the elderly for a period of time, and at the same time, more children have a great impact on the growth and development of children, and the character of many children is relatively healthy, and the only child is narrow-minded and selfish.

It's hard to hear, but it's true.

I hope I can help my friends in need.

1. The key depends on parents and family.

There are pros and cons to one thing, and a second child is not necessarily bad for you. Whether you will have a little playmate or a little influence on you depends on what kind of family your family is, what kind of atmosphere is it, whether your parents are patriarchal and so on. If your parents are more open-minded and will not let you let it go everywhere because the second child is young, and will not let you lose anything, why stop it?

If your parents are patriarchal and you are worried about your status, of course you have to come up with the right and effective solution.

2. Consider family conditions.

On the premise of looking at the parents, it is also necessary to help the parents consider the factors of family conditions. If the family conditions are good, after giving birth to a second child, it will not make you lose your original life, so you can not stop it; But if the family conditions are not good, it is not recommended for parents to have a second child, because it is difficult to raise you one, let alone raise a younger brother and sister!

3. It's also good for you.

If your parents add a younger sibling to you, you will be better off from a long-term perspective. If you are an only child, when your parents are old, the task of supporting your parents will fall on you alone, but if you have a younger brother or sister, you can support your parents together at that time, which will reduce a lot of burden for you.

4. Parents are not there to take care of you.

After many years, your parents are gone, and you are old, but your younger siblings are still young, and you don't have no relatives, wouldn't it be nice that your younger siblings who are in the same vein as you can take care of you.

I think it's better to have two children and have a companion for each other. But in fact, everyone's conditions are different, and it should be done according to the actual situation. I have a daughter and a son from my sister's family, and we are both only children.

How to say it, we think that whether it is a son or a daughter, a family with only one child is the happiest, and if you want two children, parents may feel that they have both children and are very happy, but in the face of two children, it is certainly impossible to be absolutely fair, and the economy of a two-child family is certainly not as easy as a child.

For parents who are reluctant to have a second child, in addition to the most concerned economic issues, it may be fairness. In addition, daughters are more vulnerable than sons, which also discourages many parents.

It is said that a good Zen smile is the best for a son and a daughter, but I don't think so. The uncle's family is a son and a daughter, which is enviable, and the daughter has been loved since she was a child, but in the end, the property was attacked by the son. Recently, my uncle was sick, my daughter went to the hospital 3 times, but I didn't see my son run 1 time, my uncle stayed in the hospital for so long, and the hospitalization fee and medical expenses were all paid by my daughter alone.

So, I don't think it's really fair to have two boys or two girls, a son and a daughter. For two-child families, it is indeed difficult to be fair when it comes to disputes at home. But it can also be seen that raising children to prevent old age is completely correct, children will not be filial because he is a son, and the most important thing is family education.

There's no such thing, as long as it's financially permissible, it's OK, haha.

When I got married, I was asked for a bride price, and when I bargained, I felt like I was a cabbage in the market. At that time, I was too young to resist because of moral kidnapping. And before that, I was convinced that my parents were all the same and that there was absolutely no preference for sons.

From then on, my heart began to change painfully. I have been married for ten years. Now I live and work to support my family and children, and I will also give money to my parents.

Although the house I bought only last year is also being repaid by my housing provident fund. If I get divorced, I don't want anything, but I will leave it to my children due to the pressure of life. I don't want to see my parents, and I don't want to see my in-laws.

Divorce is not very likely, my husband loves me very much, and the children are very cute! With the rapid development of society, the phenomenon of "preference for sons over women" is becoming more and more rare in our lives. The slogan that both boys and girls are the same has gradually spread throughout China.

Although most young people now accept the idea of new education, they do not have so many requirements and restrictions for having boys and girls in their lives.

But inevitably, in our lives, there are still many old people who retain their previous stubborn thoughts. In their minds, only the boy is the hope of the whole family, the candidate for succession. Therefore, in the previous family, people had the pride and ambition of not giving birth to a boy.

And some old people will bring this kind of thinking into their next generation. So for daughters-in-law, they also have only one requirement, and that is to give birth to a grandson for themselves. If the daughter-in-law is not satisfied with giving birth to a grandchild, then in life, they will make it difficult for the daughter-in-law in every way.

The advantage of having a second child is that it is not enough for a child to be accompanied by his parents. Having a second child is a child, and if you have a little friend in your childhood, you will have a stronger tendency to share. The closer a child is to their peers, the stronger the willingness to share and care for young children, and the lower the level of loneliness.

The growth environment of an only child is prone to problems such as self-centeredness, inability to communicate and share with others, poor hands-on ability, lack of responsibility or strong dependence.

If you have a second child, it will make the first child have a sense of responsibility, and you need to protect your younger siblings Cha Li Zhenmei, which is an example for younger siblings. The growth of two children together is conducive to the healthy development of the mind of the first child.

There is only one baby, who is afraid of falling out of his hand and afraid of melting in his mouth. Don't let you do anything, just be a young master or a princess. I am reluctant to scold when I should scold, I am reluctant to punish when I do something wrong, and I am reluctant to punish when I should be punished.

Inadvertently, love turns into doting. Overprotective and spoiling your child will only harm your child in the end.

When children step into society, they can't survive in the cruel competition, and they can't afford to bear the slightest setback in life. Giving birth to two babies, I will subconsciously not get used to children so much. In this way, it is beneficial to the growth of the child and the child.

Precautions for the second child, you need to pay attention to the second child. If a woman has a weak constitution, chronic diseases are likely to worsen or even worsen when she is pregnant with a second child, threatening the lives of both the mother and the fetus.

Neither malnutrition nor overnutrition is conducive to having a second child. It is necessary to pay attention to whether the endocrine function of women is normal, and pregnancy or pregnancy has relatively high requirements for women's endocrine. A woman's endocrine function is too low or too high to form a normal egg, which makes it difficult to conceive a second child or has a bad impact on the intrauterine development of the fetus.